Here is my question on the mainstream Christian marriage subreddit.

A woman commented and gave a GREAT answer so I dm'ed her this question:

My wife allows porn because she believes that all guys are addicted to porn so might as well allow it rather than have fights/arguments about it.

Here is here response:

I do believe she's wrong, yes. I think that, because she is "allowing" it, that one portion of the sin is removed, that of doing sometht behind her back that you know will cause her harm. But I believe that porn is still sinful, both against your own body, against your wife, and against the people (I'm assuming women) that you view. That's just my take, I don't claim to be an authority on this by any means.

My wife lets me watch porn which I watch porn videos 1-2 days per week for 30 minutes to an hour. I also am subscribed to nsfw subreddits so I see porn pictures daily (usually large-breasted teens or asian girls who are very attractive). So I guess that makes me a porn addict?

I love my wife and have been struggling lately because in the past week, I have seen 3 posts saying that porn is as bad as actually cheating with a woman sexually! (This has to be absurd, doesn't it?)

Am I taking crazy pills or is porn no big deal as long as your wife is fine with it?