This is a personal project I started 3 years ago, with two others. It's a short film. Most of it is complete. I just need an hour of her time to finish/film the rest.

In fact, I was going to let this project sit unfinished. But a couple weeks ago, she posts on FB linking to our video saying "cool bla bla bla this was fun" or whatever. So I look at what's left, I message her, "hey long time no see! Let's finish this" and she says she's down! She's excited! I'm excited, I tell her I only need an hour of her time...

"oh work is so crazy aaahh!!" is her bullshit excuse. A weekend passes and she posts photos enjoying a glass of wine with friends.

I don't know what to do, to motivate her, incentivize her. I'm not asking much at all. I set a day/time and the next day she replies nonsense about work without an alternative.

Look, I'm not pushing to have this done soon, but before we age out, ya know?