Shaming is one of the greatest tool when it comes to controlling a women's actions.RP does this a LOT.They shame and make fun of almost every kind of women.Now if it was true that "men age like wine"then Leo should look bttr now than how he looked during Titanic.But is that true?absolutely not...men just become more useful with age (more resources to provide) and a women in her 30s doesn't need to depend on them for resources(most often).Young women who go for older men are going after the resources(not shaming anyone as the man is going for beauty and hence its a beneficial relationship)BUT its not love and it can never be love.Love needs a great deal of physical attraction and no young women is getting attracted to balding men.They "tolerate" the sex so they can get the benefits.