“To feel life, its rebellion, its freedom, as much as possible, that is life, as much as possible.” - Albert Camus

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Summary

Every girl wants to one day find a real man, but no girl wants to know what it takes to become one. The process is awkward, not socially accepted, a continuous struggle between a desire to spin plates and a repulsion to witness your own personality at its weakest. To be cringy, to stutter, tremble, blush and sweat. There is no other way than to burn through a 1000 women. Many you will make uncomfortable. To want it to be no different than it is, to become unashamed, that is to see the piles of plates piled up on the street, waiting for someone to pick ‘em up and give ‘em a little spin.

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Body

1 - Danger in imminent. Danger is everywhere. If you’re an average looking woman spending your days in the buzz of busy streets, hasty strangers and roaring cars, danger is always there. If you’re an average looking woman walking alone at night, danger is on your mind, always. If you ever hope to one day have the balls to stop any stranger in the street, you have to learn to deal with the fact that danger from the unknown is somewhere in the back of any girl’s mind, and you may very well be the danger her unconscious mind is very much looking to avoid. Do not want it to be different.

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2 - Sad people have two things in common: they are ignorant and they hope. Know and do not hope. The only metric that has any significance in your journey to power in the realm of women, is the amount of women you stop and talk to. Take a brief moment to count the girls you talked to in the past two days. Now take away cashiers, bartenders, colleagues and online dating. How many among you dare to admit you’re at zero? You’re ignorant and you’re hoping. Know and do not hope.

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3 - Cold Approach: A Voice of Society. I get it, it’s fucking scary. You’re on the street, shopping, whatever. Cute girls pass by you en masse, but what should you say? Think for a moment what it means to ask that question, and you quickly find you’re looking for a socially acceptable way to interrupt a woman from her state of being. So you ask for a coffee place, where the nearest Zara is, or where you can buy a goddamn chess board in this street. I don’t give a fuck what it is you have to ask - you stop and talk to women, you stop filtering yourself. That is what you do, that is who you are. And to those mocking such a man to be a slave of his desires I say, that mocking voice in your head is your worst enemy, protecting you from the resistance you need to build an actual personality. Forgive the girl in front of you for her unexpressive face. She is yet unaware she'd love to suck your dick tomorrow.

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4 - “But what should I say?” That question will burn through your mind for ages. You think about it some time longer and you discover that looking for a socially acceptable thing to ask or say implies that saying the one true thing on your mind is forbidden, wrong. Gad, that you saw her and now that you’re standing here you actually have no idea what to say. That you know this isn’t normal but you thought fuck it. That you know you’re nervous but also excited and if she maybe wants to talk for 60 seconds to a random stranger. That you’re bored of the ordinary but terrified to talk to anyone like her on the street. That she’s cute, hot, she looks interesting, intriguing, you love her thick black hair, her basic bitch unamused face, her mature sensual confident energy. That she should skip her plans, she should stop calling and come talk to you. That she should give you her number. That she should cook you dinner tonight. That you’re looking forward to it.

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5 - Burn through a 1000 girls. A 1000 girls - at least! - just to say hi or goodmorning. You won’t get their number, you won’t get in their pants. They are your target practice. You will creep some of them out, a lot more will simply ignore you. Then another 1000 to ask cold random questions to, until it bores you. Many will be awkward, many more will simply ignore you. Every girl wants to one day find a real man, but no girl wants to know what it takes to become one. If this is what it takes for you, then this is what it takes.

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6 - You’re terrified of disturbing her - or even worse, them. Greet every woman, man, old, fat, foreign you find on the street, the bus or at work. I say it’ll take you an extra 1000 people to figure out how ready and willing everyone actually is to be disturbed. And many will ignore you still. But they will all make you smile.

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7 - Burn through women. There is no magical thing to say. It’s all about the strength of your personality and your personality is weaker than you think. But burn, burn, burn and on the other side walks a man who can turn around in the middle of a busy street and run after any girl he just caught in the corner of his eye. Here is a man not afraid to be afraid. Here is a man laughing with his own insecurities, his own trembling voice. And to every assumption he makes to not go back and talk to her, he says, “let’s find out”.

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8 - Unashamed. The highest stage of seduction. Here is a man who is unashamed of shame itself. And for all the witnesses of his most shameful rejections, you have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. Here moves a man without chains, without resentment for himself. Here moves a man with a voice in his mind stronger than the voice of society. Here’s a man that is a threat, an imminent danger, because she knows her boyfriend won’t like it. But God, is she looking forward to get railed by this stranger.