/u/seattleron as promised. Let me know what you think.

TL;DR

Going to a big party and trying to decide how to break the news to my lesser plate that I invited her but I'd rather go with a more attractive plate.

Plate #1, Jane, HB5 22 yearold. Super submissive. Invited her first, currently doesn't know about Plate #2. Flawless behavioral record with no incidents of disrespect, frequently initiates contact, does what I want how I want, etc.

Plate #2, Sarah, HB8 22 yearold. Less submissive, but still putting out, fun to fuck, and recently rather affectionate and sweet. Previous history of frame breaks and shit-testing along with some other shitty behavior like getting schwasted at parties, walking off for long periods of time and ignoring me for her phone. That's mostly from her first visit, this second visit that we are currently in she has been significantly more respectful.

I want to take Sarah, Plate #2 and way hotter. Her recent good behavior and positive reactions to my frame made this an easy choice.

The main question is how do I cancel plans on Jane without breaking her as a plate. A lie would be most convenient.. I'm not going, they said I can't bring a +1, etc. etc. However, she is part of the same social group and may know someone who is going or hear that I went without her and with some other girl. A direct lie could cost me some reputation points in the social circle, especially if it is an unnecessary lie that makes it look like I'm too much of a bitch to own up to what I really want.

On the flipside, telling her the truth will probably bruise her ego. It may inspire even more tingles, since she doesn't even know I'm seeing another girl, much less another girl who is way way hotter than she is. I figure either she breaks as a plate or becomes infatuated, which may lead to its own problems down the line.

A potentially important part of this entire scenario is understanding that I am definitely NOT the top of the pecking order at the party I'm going to. It is filled with HB7+s, 8s, 9s, and bonafide alphas. I'm not really concerned about Sarah fucking anyone else as I believe she genuinely likes me, this is a strange town to her and screwing me over involves significant logistical difficulties for her IE self-interest avails. However, it is possible that I will become anxious, needy, feel not-cool-enough, etc. all for her to witness. My current plan is to avoid getting annihilated on anything and focus on having a good time, there isn't really any other goal since I'm bringing the pussy with me, other than to hold my already decent frame and not fuck up.

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I have an interesting choice to make and would like your thoughts.

This upcoming weekend I am invited to a really dope party where we will be staying in a rental / camping in tents for overflow. 50-100 predominantly young & attractive hipster/coolkid/party types.

The story goes like this: Plate #1, Jane. She is 22, hb5 or maybe 6. Extremely submissive, compliant, zero shit tests, zero incidents of disrespect. Frequently initiates contact, asks to see me, follows me around, basically does whatever the fuck I ask her to and usually without me needing to even ask. Fun to fuck and always has multiple vaginal orgasms when I do her hard, without fail each time we've hooked up so far (4 times). Told me that she once hopped on a sybian machine in front of a dozen people at a party, instant forever-plate status.. still fun though. Neither of us have said anything at all about "relationships" or "rules", the conversation is simply non-existent. I assume she is fucking other people but based on her behavior I'm probably her best option.

I invited Jane to the party this weekend. She was willing to change her plans to attend with me, even though it turns out she doesn't need to (she didn't understand the dates correctly when I first brought it up). She appears excited to go and agreed that she needs extra sleep before the event because it is a scarce resource with me around.

Literally that same morning, as I was finishing up my wake-and-fuck with Jane, I get multiple texts and 12 missed calls from Plate #2. We'll call her Sarah.

Sarah is a HB8 I met at a festival a couple weeks before I started hooking up with Jane. Sarah is smart, shit tests hard but only occasionally (especially if I am needy, break frame, or am acting overly attached/affectionate and paying her too many compliments.) I took her and a couple other people from the festival back to my house in the city for what amounted to 2 straight weeks of party-fueled fucking and a few surreal days sitting in my cubicle waiting until the clock rang and I could go back to pound town.

I fell into one-itis rather promptly with Sarah. The first 3-4 days were good, I had solid frame, but the defacto cohabitation effect from playing house with a smokeshow party girl I barely knew shattered any pretense of frame. She was still putting out but I noticed a marked difference in her behavior, more shit tests, less porn-star style sex and more starfish style sex with vague rules that came out of nowhere, etc. After about 2 weeks of this she went back to her home city, where up until a few days ago she had been for nearly a month. Back in that home city she has a "shitty boyfriend" who is an older sugar daddy who doesn't know about me because she never told him. She had told me up front, during her time with me, that she had a boyfriend back home and said it was an "open relationship".

This girl who I thought I totally fucked up with by breaking frame and being needy, actually came back to town to visit me for another couple weeks. She is staying with me, we fuck every night, and so far compared to the last visit she has been relatively respectful, sweet and sexual.

The only incidents of note is that she walked away for 30 minutes at a night club, but came back within 5 minutes of my text and seems sincere about not doing something like that again. Remains to be seen. She also stopped cold in the middle of sex the other night after I fingered her to orgasm and began escalating to PIV - because I cracked a joke about making her smoke weed more often. (It turns her into a useless puddle of quivering tingles which I can do anything I want to with, and she's not comfortable being that vulnerable, or so she claims).

I told her to stop sending mixed signals, probably showed that I was angry/frustrated about not getting sex out of her, told her I could just go fuck the other girl if I wanted to, and she left the bed for 3-4 hours. I tried to hold frame by staying in bed and not pursuing her. I was already going over scenarios in my mind about her leaving that morning, etc. Sometime during the morning, after I dozed off, she came back to bed, instantly began touching my dick, taking her clothes off, and we fucked. We said nice things to eachother about not being mean again, I'm sorry this I'm sorry that, and IMO she is back in my frame for the time being. She commented that she was "surprised" that I didn't go fuck the other girl after our argument, to which I replied "I like fucking you more" and "I was waiting for you to come back".

Anyways, I'm inclined to taking Sarah, not Jane. The main goal here is to show off some hot arm candy, enjoy my party with the slut that I'd rather be fucking, keep her in my frame, and if possible to NOT break my other plate in the process. Sarah is going back home in another week or so, so our time is limited and if I end up breaking the other plate I will be left plateless. Not a super big deal, I feel as if I've crossed some kind of milestone regarding abundance mentality so I can just go get more. But it would be better if I still had a backup bitch after the hottie is gone.