"do the things you love and love will find you"

MattyAnon · 2016-07-23T15:43:32+00:00

do the things you love etc.

Noone here is even pretending it's that simple. "Love will find you" is bullshit advice and only applies to women. As a man you have to take charge of everything in your life, especially your love life. Forget love and forget being passive - both concepts are severely damaging to your ability to meet women.

Look... doing what you love is an attractive quality, but it's not like that's going to instantly magic women into your life and have them want to sleep with you - especially if they never interact with you.

There's only about 5 ways to meet women - night, day, social, work, online.

All have their pros and cons, but absolutely avoid work. "Hobbies" is not a way to meet women, especially solitary ones.

Basically you need to work on a social life yourself and don't buy any bullshit that you can live a solitary existence and have a social life handed to you on a plate.

RedAsBlood · 2016-07-24T14:26:21+00:00

lifting

man are you stupid? You can go lift with friends, switch to cross fit, yoga, gymnastics, mma, bjj, dancing, cycling groups, hiking groups, I could go on and on just with fitness related, sociable hobbies

ecosci · 2016-07-23T22:02:01+00:00

Dont ever look for validation from people especially women they dont have the ability to love you the way you expect so dont worry about it just do what you want.

Title	"do the things you love and love will find you"
Author	secerov123
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	July 23, 2016 3:00 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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