Hi guys, I struggled big time with oneitis and onegina for a while. My problem was I never met enough girls. I'd meet one, see her, it end, then I'd hit a dry period. I suffered a bit of onegina most recently with a girl late last year. However, I have discovered the ultimate remedy for it.

I was online other day looking at the girl I had fallen for, despite my best efforts not to. I saw her pictures, she was not as attractive. I saw her posts, They were attention seeking. I saw her statuses "I need a sulk, my lifes shit bla bla bla" I couldn't help but laugh.

I then went onto my page, where theres pictures of me with girls from nights out, cool positive statuses regarding my work, my life etc. I feel blessed.

The contrast was this girl who admitted she wanted to just be alone, despite me thinking she was actually quite decent and we got along has hit the wall already (and shes 23). Shes a complete utter mess. No prospects, her style has worsened, and it appears she has been going out getting drunk every night (with me something she hardly ever did). In the space of a 2 months!

The cure for oneitis is to enjoy life. Is to focus on what makes you happy and to fucking share with the world you are unstoppable. That you are alright with yourself, you can be content. That no one single human life form is going to stop you or upset you and maybe another tip here, to picture their lives being fucking shit without you. Which we know is the truth and in my actual case it is.

She has seen me with HB8's and looking in the best shape ive been and she writes about how her lifes a joke and shit.

So next time you get oneitis, focus on bettering YOUR life, imagine theirs being shit without you, and just be happy with what you got.