Should I take her out or just take her to crib and we watch a movie?

TheRedAlpha · 2016-08-08T05:36:33+00:00

Offer the coffee date nearby your place and/or tell her to meet you at your spot.

I normally invite them in while I'm finishing getting ready, if they willingly come in then I know I can bring them back later.

The further she comes in the better the chance you have of sleeping with her so if she follows you to your bedroom just offer to watch a movie instead.

If they choose to stand outside then build more rapport during the coffee date and let her know you wanna watch a movie and bring her along with you.

TheRedAlpha · 2016-08-08T12:24:33+00:00

If the girl has already agreed to a movie at your house, then she isn't an idiot, she is already looking to sleep with you.

The reason coffee dates are suggested here is because it is low risk, low effort, inexpensive and fast. You can screen a girl quickly to see if you want to pursue her more, if she flakes on you then who cares you've got coffee and you chat up someone else while you're there. Generally you don't even have to pay for girls at a coffee shop and even if you do, spending 5 bucks beats $50 on drinks or $100 on dinner with a girl you don't even like.

If you do like here then you suggest something else in your area, walk to a park, museum, bar, etc. Then you try to escalate and get her back to your place. In your case if you already got her to agree to come to your place, she knows it's a hook-up, have alcohol and a movie and she's already yours bud.

RedAsBlood · 2016-08-09T04:40:53+00:00

If she agrees to netflix at your place I would go for that!

Its pretty much a guaranteed lay unless your game is brutal.

Title	Should I take her out or just take her to crib and we watch a movie?
Author	TheRedAlpha
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	August 8, 2016 1:34 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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