First of all, I just want to say thank you to the members of TRP that have helped me. Now, on to the question.

I've been in monk mode for the summer, and I go back to high school in the fall. I've come to realize that at least 85% of my "friends" from last year are toxic. It's not really a problem, as I can cut them out and improve myself, but I know they're going to start in with their routine (I haven't seen them over break, so I'm sure they assume I'm still a beta) of asking for favors without return, etc.

Off on a side note, There was a kid(let's call him J), that used to disrespect me physically. I didn't do anything (I know, I was a beta). I decided this year is going to be different. Any way to deal with it other than beating the fuck out of him the next time he tries it?

Back on track, What should I do if they start in again? I'm going to make new friends, but what about in the meantime? I was thinking to straight up tell them to fuck off. There isn't a way to ignore them, because we sit at one big table for lunch. Besides, what kind of bitch would I be for running from the problem?