So I've been on reddit for a month and some change and I've been viewing posts related to the red pill, and it is something that I want to be a part of. I don't know where to start to begin that journey though. I don't want to be seen as a nice guy anymore and get used by women not knowing that they're using me for time, attention, etc. Where should I start for step 1? At times I feel like I'm clueless to figuring out how to get women to sleep with me, so I've just been hitting the gym and just focusing on finishing up my Masters degree. Before starting my Master's program I was in a relationship for 6yrs that ended when I changed cities. I was in a relationship all the way through college and that relationship ended in 2014. When it ended I feel like I lost something, I feel like I lost how to flirt, lost a lil bit of confidence, my only escape was to pray and hit the gym harder than ever..had some weed here and there but never got too into it cause it made me think about unnecessary shit. I didn't know that my ex was cheating on me for the last two years of my relationship (we lived 45+ min away from each other and she had her own place) and that she cheated on me for a dude I went on a vacation with at one point, until I saw some messages. I knew a change needed to happen within me to make me leave some shit behind and boss up, I just didn't know where to look. Currently, I still feel lost on how to bag a female or have a stable of women. I have the No More Mr. Nice Guy book but I'm too busy with schoolwork to read leisurely. I apologize for the rambling but I need to fully ingest this red pill and be the boss that I envision myself being that attracts all kinds of women. Sometimes I feel like I care too much about saying the wrong shit and offending women, I need to stop caring so much cause nice guys don't get laid lol but at the same time not being a complete asshole (but if it works I'm all for it). I got cheated on by a Chad and I don't want to be that same guy anymore..I need the blueprint I need help. Thanks. Feel free to berate and all that F it I need to learn anyways.