Love cant be legislated. It defies rules and expectations. Love if it happens is between A and B....so shouldnt the rest of us C our way out of it?

It doesnt matter who is hypergamous, who had a high body count, bad parents or too much to drink. It doesnt matter who has a good job or too many candles on their cake.

B loves A, and A loves B

The rest of it is none of our business.

Maybe if we are blessed and lucky we will get our own relationship.

If we dont, tough cookies.

If we do, nobody needs to analyze the B to our A. We know why we love and its not to please our peers.

Love is astonishing and mysterious.

If its not heartbreaking and messy then your doing it wrong

This is why a dating strategy makes no sense.