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An Erection Is Not Consent

Heavy_Grand2526

January 23, 2022
139 upvotes
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Title An Erection Is Not Consent
Author

Heavy_Grand2526

Upvotes 139
Comments 6
Date January 23, 2022 9:27 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/sb4dpj/an_erection_is_not_consent/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/an-erection-is-not-consent.1097932
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Comments

[–]JosephsonAdam 30 points31 points32 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Damn right! One man told me how he impregnated his child's mother while he was passed out unconscious.

My wife (now ex) forced me into a sexual relationship through stalking and verbal and emotional coercion, and then kept me in that relationship through suicide threats.

I'll go even farther than say an erection is not consent. Even consent can be coerced. It should be free and informed consent, not consent under duress and especially not under extreme duress.

[–]xx_DEADND_xx 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

That is why you can be blackmailed into rape

[–]JosephsonAdam 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Because men are physically stronger than women, a woman will more likely resort to verbal and emotional coercion, unwanted touching, and blackmail.

In such cases, since the man might give his consent under duress, he then blames himself for not being strong enough to defend his boundaries against a woman. That's probably why men generally don't report, because they blame themselves.

It was easy for her to coerce me. I'd experienced sexual abuse from my sitter when I was 7 and 8 years old, so my wife's behaviour could easily trigger an anxiety attack. When she refused to take no for an answer, I'd finally consent just to escape the anxiety attack and then I'd blame myself for consenting.

My self-blame had finally pushed me to a suicide attempt.

[–]Ugaruga 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No shit

[–]TAPriceCTR 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

If an erection were consent that would mean getting wet is consent... feminists would have a stroke if this were proposed.

[–]Ok_Finger_8874 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If erection is consent and the fact that males can get random erections every now and then, means that consent is not a conscious decision. Basically the body is giving the signals.

Obviously this is messed up and goes against the entire #Metoo message.

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