Crosspost "Why do you think so many women are sold on 'If it's consentual it is ok'?" from /r/fourthwavewomen:

Hey, long time lurker here.

I've noticed a huge amount of these excuses in sex related, and simmilar yuckie subs.

A man in his 40s with an 18-22yro girlfriend is OK because they both can consent...

BDSM slavery and abuse of women is OK if they all consent.

All kinds of degrading 'kinks' are excused under the disguise of 'consent'.

And let's not add to the list.

Do some women not realize that men are looking for those kind of girls who are manipulated to think that that is 'normal' and they will play pretend as an excuse to use them for their abusive fantasies?

I get that they're practically brainwashed by the libfem sex-positive scene, and that they're gaslighted into thinking that that's what they must do to please their man.

For fucks sake i find it hard finding a boyfriend who doesn't want anything similar with me. I've had my hair pulled without my agreement, choking and all the 'light' stuff men think they can get away with, like I'm even going to excuse that much, but if you ask me first.

Why is it expected from a woman to like that stuff?

(Am posting from Germany so idk if the situation is the same in USA and other regions)

Thanks!

Posted by MuffledScreamin | 29 January 2022 | Link