This lady while having sex, felt pain and told the guy "what are you doing?" in an angry/negative tone. The guy was teasing her pulling out and inside, and apparently in one of the repetitions, accidentally he hurt her. Her reaction was physiologically a turn off for the man (he lost his erection), he stopped, asked her if he'd could something to help with pain, kissed her forehead, watched about 20 min netflix with her. Then he left, of course he had his own feelings to attend to now himself.

Now the guy has distanced himself from the relationship (he organically has lost attraction), and the lady is left wondering what has gone wrong, as it she cared about this man very much.

These kind of scenarios are unfortunate. Are there some good resources you can recommend to women for mastering how to deal with such delicate situations? For example, learning how they can more effectively deal with delicate situations such as above? (there's got to be a better way to express pain and dissatisfaction)

I'm grateful for finding a sub where I can ask this question.