Hey again to my fav. subreddit <3
This going to be one of many future posts because I need help in different life aspects.
Let me preface and say I'm not career driven whatsoever but I'm very much into financial literacy .
I'm almost 23 now and I'm currently working in a company that will give me a very big promotion within 2 months...however, the timings are 9-6, it's about an hour commute each way and my whole day is basically spent at work and the commute. I have an option to go to a smaller company closer to where I live that pays lesser and the working hours would be 7-8 hours.
Before discovering the redpill, I wanted to be super financially independent and wanted to climb the corporate ladder then I realized I hate the corporate culture and money doesn't mean that much to me anymore and I would much much rather be a stay at home wife and mother because it genuinely gives me so much fulfillment having lost my mom at a young age. I'm single now and have been in nun mode (that'll be for another post)

With my current job, it takes up most of my time so I'm not able to attend therapy, when I come back from work I'm exhausted and I just basically shower, pray and watch YouTube until I have to sleep again so I can wake up and do the same thing. I have so many traits and habits that I want to cultivate and I have SO MUCH to work on as a woman in terms of personal development and preparing myself for meeting my future husband.

A bit of my background, I don't have any real responsibilities, I don't pay rent, petrol or have any loans. So the money I make goes towards beauty treatments, skincare, haircare etc.. which can get a bit expensive where I live so should I save as much from my current job then move on to another one or should I take up a lesser paid one with a better work/life balance?

At the same time , I'm feeling so much pressure being single at this age and having no proposals (I'm Arab) and I have to improve my SMV by a ton . I want to actually improve myself and find a husband. I forgot to mention, at my current job it deals with sales, so we meet many different people and maybe that could help me find someone too but idk if that's something to consider.

Thank you!