I feel like such a mess, pls help

Minimum_Candy99 · 2024-02-27T20:36:53+00:00

Are you seeing a psychologist? This would be your first move. I don't know if this is terrible, but the whole "ME" movement of this generation just makes everyone lose touch with life. It's not your fault but it's something we need to be aware of.

Next is to throw out all junk you have in your home. Don't bother exercising for now. 80% of weight loss is diet. Keto works quickly so you'll feel a lot more reassured it's working as you can literally see the results week after week. At your weight I'd imagine it would take a good 6 months. You may find the keto helps with your mental health issues too.

You can't blame other women for the way they have been brought up and you need to absolutely get your life under control. Wake up. Do the work. Everyone has issues whether you see them or not. This is your life. You can control yours.

Jewelry_lover · 2024-02-27T21:12:42+00:00

Okay I’m going to give very practical advice. Do this for the next six months:

If you have any social media but delete it now. Especially Instagram, tik tok, or anything that contributes to you feeling this way. I deleted Instagram 2021, and I find my self being more productive and focussing on things that matter more in life.

Cut your dinners in half. If you have a burger with fries and medium sprite everyday, start getting only a burger with sprite. Then start walking 30 mins every other day. This is for a start. I lost almost 30 lbs last year by just doing this. I eventually increasing my walking to everyday and switching my drinks to water

Do you currently work? If you don’t, find a part time job or anything you can be doing. Create a routine and document your daily, weekly, monthly activities so you can compare and pin point areas for improvement.

I want to emphasise that nothing will change if you don’t change your mindset. You need to commit. And I mean this with the best intentions when I say nobody is going save you. You need to first realise this, then commit to transform your self. I wish you the best 💕

AutoModerator · 2024-02-27T20:07:13+00:00

Title: I feel like such a mess, pls help

Author One-Poem1346

Full text: Hey guys <3

I guess this is sort of a mini rant and I'm open to all sorts of inputs and advice.

I'm almost 25 and I feel so overwhelmed with my life. I'm still in limerence over a guy I met at 22, who then I later found out was married (nothing happened). I lost my mom suddenly when I was 11 and I grew up with an absentee father.

That event forever changed my life, I ended up developing an ED that is still with me today, due to my binging I gained so much weight to the point where I now weigh 101kgs at 5foot 3.

I graduated uni years ago and I still have not landed a full time job. I really want to settle down and get married, but I feel extremely ugly at this weight , especially when I look at older pictures where I was much much skinnier. I also feel so awkward and like such a late bloomer when it comes to men and relationships, I am saving myself for marriage and I've never ever been in a relationship.

I feel so envious of girls who grew up with their mothers, I always feel like other girls had it much easier than I did and they are always two steps ahead of me, I also struggle with OCD and extreme death anxiety to the point where I am scared of everything and I find everything to be meaningless. I wasted my youth suffering from an ED & OCD . I feel like I am stuck in the past and not moving forward at all.

I feel like I've been stuck in this cycle for so long and I HATE that I am wasting my supposed prime years being obese and single. I feel like I am addicted to food and I use food to numb the pain.

I used to struggle with non existent self esteem and so much shame about being a woman, thanks to the red pill, I've gotten much better but I know that I'm not going to feel sexy and pretty at this weight.

I feel like such a failure tbh and I feel so so so left out from other girls my age. I see them enjoying life and here I am just watching my life pass by from the sidelines and I have no one to blame but myself.

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MOSFETBJT · 2024-02-28T02:49:53+00:00

As someone who also suffers from really bad death OCD, I know how hard it can be. Pm me if you like and we can discuss coping strategies. It’s hard for people without ocd to understand what It’s like.

Title	I feel like such a mess, pls help
Author	One-Poem1346
Upvotes	7
Comments	11
Date	February 27, 2024 8:07 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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