Assuming your wife allows you to bang other women, how do you maintain the ‘single mode’ mentality/energy when married?

I was extremely on point and had pretty tight game at one point. I was single, had the ‘flow’ and was on all the time. I found that generally sort of disappears when you get into a relationship and you get rusty. Now I’m married and have permission to look elsewhere, and I want to recapture that ‘single energy’ I once possesses.