I'm asking for advice on behalf of my husband. We live in michigan for reference. I hate being long winded so I'll try to be brief.

Back story: DH ex wife was a garbage human. Domestic violence, drugs, cheating, abused the kids but managed to play golden uterus in court and gain 50/50 custody and took more than half of all assets.

She brainwashed the kids. She kind of kidnapped them by just not performing custody exchange when scheduled. She played all the games many of you already heard. I'm not going to impress you.

Fast forward.... We had a hearing about parenting time. The referee said follow the rules and return to original parenting plan. We were going on vacation that day. (Yes she tried to keep them from going) 16yo step daughter stayed because she was poisoned so much she needed therapy.

She couldn't stop snorting adderall and died while we were in Florida. My 16 yo step daughter ran away to her grandparents home when her mother died. They instantly went for guardianship and DH granted it to save his other children because his daughter was acting out.

These grandparents hate him and he hates them. They filed for grandparenting time. They can fuck off. They were mean to my husband. Enabled her for years. They knew she was abusive but wouldn't believe it.

I'd like to help compose a letter to grandparents saying go fuck yourself but in an eloquent way. There is a 10yo step daughter and 5 yo step son. SD doesn't want to see them. SS would be too scared. Oh and the deep hatred. They will say nasty things. That is why they will not see the kids. They had time to help. Their daughter got arrested for DV and couldn't return home. She went to her parents and they turned her away. They have a son that committed suicide too. Not my problem though.

I know I made no sense. I'm venting. Why do the courts act like mothers are the best? She was a bad woman. She chased me down in a car while I had her kids.

Tl;Dr want to send a letter to deceased ex wife's parents that there will be no grandparenting time ever because they are sucky people. Is this a dumb idea or just let it play in court