I get that women will never complete me, that a women will never love me like I can love her, the whole alpha male mentality, but I feel like there might be some "higher lesson", a reason why things are this way, and that it is a good thing. The way I am trying to see it is that, without women being this way, men wouldn't be on a constant cosmic path to infinite self improvement, (and that's great), but that still doesn't give that "umph happy ending" that I am so used to when it comes to completing a self development paradigm of though, I think I (and most of the "women are women, deal with it and move on" type rpers) are missing. Again, I know it sounds beta, but don't dismiss it like that, I am asking if there is a higher reasoning for this, and I promise you I am speaking so deeply here that maybe a single digit percent of you guys will know what I am getting at.

How does the universe rationalize the pettiness of women in the respect of making the world a better place? I know there is an answer somewhere, and it is driving me batty.

Thanks guys, learnedseeker