So last week I posted a question about how I thought my wife was cheating and how she hates me kissing her or hugging her all the typical signs ( you can view my post history) well turns out I found a phone and a dildo in her drawer so I went through the phone very thoroughly there hasn’t been any texts or call in and out and the service has been off for 6 years buuuuut.. there was and old conversation with her ex husband on there before we got together it’s full of nudes between them and all the stuff they did. I was so disgusted by what I was reading because I’ve personally never seen that side of my wife and this was about 4 months before we got together. Now they hate each other and never talk from what I assume anyway I never get nudes like that lol never have. back story on her ex he beat her cheated on her kicked her out abandoned her and her son. I swooped in 4-5 months later fell in love with her and her son ended up adopting him and have picked up everything since. I almost cried last night I 100% feel like she masturbating to pics of this dudes nudes we haven’t had sex in well over 6 months and the way she’s treating me I almost feel sick at my stomach. So I talked to my brother in law who which I’m really close to and he thinks I should just get a hidden camera just to get proof that she’s getting the phone and looking at it while Masturbating and that’ll be all I need ( there 100% no pics of me or any other dude on there) and btw is this considered an emotional affair if the other party ( from what I know) isn’t actively sending pics to the phone? And last thing before I left work last night I positioned the phone a certain way in the drawer to see if it would move and it clearly did the battery is even lower than what it was on when I left. I feel like I would need proof because once I would confront her she’d just say the phone moves around when she opened the drawer ( it’s in her night stand I leave at 7 at night and there’s no other reason to open that drawer) any that’s it should I get more proof? And should I assume it’s an emotional affair?