I’ve always been a bit reserved in how I say things and this has probably cost me some dating opportunities.

At a night out, I told a college friend of mine that I wanna travel after I graduate and meet and connect with women.

He always tells me to be more straightforward like he’ll always tell me “bro just say you wanna travel and fuck girls in every country, no ones gonna care”

Sometimes I wanna let loose more and talk more like my friend about girls and stuff But I gotta really good job coming and stuff and I’m always asking myself “do I have anything to lose by talking like that” as a guy in my 20s?

So, and I’m genuinely curious, am I right or do I need to grow more balls like my “friend” said?