Hey all, would really appreciate some opinions so I can see different perspectives and advice.

  • Background Reference For background reference, going to private decent ranked uni in the south, was a "nice guy" throughout hs and had two relationships fail because of that looking back on it. I do consider myself a good bit attractive, intelligent, regular weightlifter, pretty good confidence and social skills (still far from perfect, have my weaknesses). I found trp as I do a good bit of research into personal growth and I have been putting a lot of thinking into my personal morals/value system as it means a great deal to me. In high school I was against partying, believed in finding the unicorn and having a romantic relationship, and was kind to everyone (went to private christian school 12 yrs). I went through a bit of a mindset change towards the end of high school after seeing how low people can be and developed a slightly cynical side.

  • Situation I understand this a life-long process but I'm currently really focused on figuring out what I find true to instill into my new moral/value system. I went to my first college party and drank to loosen up and ended up hooking up with two girls that night and another the next day. I ended up telling one about the other and vice versa and they both acted angry/jealous. One of them is asking to be more than fwb if we smash and the other wants to hookup again and not tell the other. I feel overwhelmed trying to figure all this shit out and my rp knowledge is causing major friction with my social conditioning, so i want to hear your opinions and then develop my own from that and experience.

  • Questions I feel like I should let it be known to the girls that there are others and that I'm not exclusive atm, thoughts?

One of them is saying she doesn't want to be a fuck buddy and wants me to "let things go with the flow" after i told her I don't see her as a good monogamous match. Is she shit testing me?

How can I continue to be a man of good principle while following trp?

Is AWALT that true? my older cousins are all getting married in 20s and seem to be doing well with kids

How do you not get slightly annoyed if a plate is hooking up w others? Abundance mentality?

I feel like I'm emotionally damaging girls if I pump and dump or don't somewhat commit to them if they're not a hardcore slut and expect commitment

PLEASE RIP MY EYES OPEN AND HELP ME FIND THE TRUTH. I apologize for the numerous questions and details and hope I can get some eye-opening advice and answers.