This weekend was a bit of a weird one for me. I didn't want to go out because I was supposed to meet up with a plate on Saturday night. My plate canceled because she wanted to go out with me the day after and had friends over, so I decided fuck it, I'm going out with my roommate and best friend.

Long story short, my roommate and friend went home at 4 am and I decided I was going to continue (impulsive drunk decisions). At around 4:30 am I was in a bar getting drink from some neighbors I met and I ran into one of the hotter girls I would end up fucking.

She was 30 (I'm 21), had a career she yapped on and on about (she makes a ton of money) and was off her face. She shared her cocaine and x (I know, I know....) with me and bought me all my drinks. We ended up walking to my place which wasn't that far and chatted a little in my house before we ended up having sex.

I'm a University student in a University comparable to Oxford and have huge student loans (and a study programma that doesn't really allow me to have these evening too often, but hey, time management). Somewhere in the conversation I mentioned I don't get support from either one of my parents and pay everything myself. It definitely was the drugs, but she took pity or something and said she'd take my out for dinner occasionally to expensive restaurants.

Now this girl on the outside was a definite 9/10. I'd place her in the top 3 of girls I've ever fucked (N count 29). Thing is, after the drugs wore off she left in a hurry because she had to be home by some time and took a taxi. I didn't sleep and ended up being awake for 38 hours and received a text from her (forgot I gave her my number) telling me she left her charger and if I could drop it off at her parents' place (she lives in another city, her parents live close to me apparently).

Told her I'd drop em off after work, she thanked me profusely, and I haven't replied.

Now the question: this situation is kinda fucked, but hey, I'm a poor uni student and a 30 year old HB9 is so much better than my 18-20 year old HB7 plates. I'm trying to determine what I should text her, because "If you ever need a date for a dinner, hit me up" seems too needy (especially because there's no way I'll pay a single dollar that evening). There's a possibility that she regrets asking me out to dinner because she was on drugs, and now that she sobered up she realizes what she has done.

Wonder what other rpers would do, or if I should just drop it (at least I tried if I get rejected).

For those who got this far and wonder if I met up with my other plate the next day - Nope. I slept for 12 hours that night and I woke up to 4 missed calls from my plate. Too bad.

tl;dr fucked a career girl that's 9 years older who wanted to take me out of dinner because I am enrolled in one of the most prestigious universities of Europe and have to pay all of it myself, but she made the promise while on drugs (so was I), and I don't know if I should bring it up over text (meeting up for drinks is obviously not an option, at least not in public, on her part).