People who frequently socialize IRL can find people to date. Everyone I know who regularly attends social gatherings, no matter their looks, pick up dates/GFs/bfs eventually.

This is a product of exposure to potential partners without tons of pressure (like meeting up for a date is) plus an improvement in socialization skills over time (which surprise surprise, has a lot of overlap with being attractive, like active listening, humor, being engaging, etc)

Social skills take practice