I don't find her attractive. But she's all over me. I experience this most from more obese women for example. I'm a skinny guy but you can tell I'm fit.

We men rarely get compliment so it's weird if someone just showers you with affection and anything they can. It feels blinding and then I confuse her niceness with attraction.

How do I not be an asshole who ends up breaking her heart or making her feel used? While at the same time, trying to maintain pose and not let things likes affect me?