Men are majority of rape victims and 80% of perpetrators of male rape are women

This is a good paper on the topic - https://www.gwern.net/docs/sociology/2021-dimarco.pdf , basically the most common way that men are raped, being forced to penetrate someone, is not officially considered rape in most places. This is a good article on the topic of “made to penetrate” rape - https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/stories-49057533.amp