I'm about to move in with 2 female roomates and i have a few questions

[deleted] · 2016-09-29T11:06:53+00:00

This is a don't shit where you eat situation. You never want to risk your shelter, income or status for a woman. These are the currencies you need to be successful in life.

I had a two female roommate and one cucked male roommate our relationship deteriorated over 2 years. It was perfectly fine while I was single but once I stated plating a couple women the situation turned sour. It got particularly bad when I brought home one more attractive then either of them.

Passive aggressive notes, chore boards and accusations of not helping around a house were the start. Gradually this evolved into talking behind my back and the formation of team girl. Then it was 2 girls and a cuck. They started disrespecting me in any interaction I had with them while another woman was present.

Over a period of 2 months it went from a everyone leaves everyone else alone to a at each others throats situation.

Eventually I got a new job and moved away.

I'm not saying all situations will deteriorate like this but expect some tensions if your too friendly and bring other women around.

MattyAnon · 2016-09-29T11:22:52+00:00

Flirty is fine.

Don't fuck either of them.

jiveraffe · 2016-09-29T17:02:54+00:00

I'd advise not living with women to begin with. You always end up paying for them, even if you're not fucking them.

I'm speaking from experience here. Women just use more general utilities, and you'll still be paying for it.

2comment · 2016-09-29T12:06:07+00:00

Is this a textbook example of 'Dont shit where you eat'?

Yes. Do not room with multiple girls with the mindset to fuck them. It just brings drama or worse.

You want to be the amused big brother to them, watch their stupid antics and smirk but go on about your day. So the world has now a couple billion women you can try to fuck, minus a couple, who gives a shit?

Yashugan00 · 2016-09-29T16:49:59+00:00

Even if you keep it platonic, women really are the worst to live with. There's really no logic in what they want from one day to the next, and they will always spin any issues as being your fault.

Pre-TRP, I moved to a condo I didn't like because a platonic girl friend / flat mate absolutely wanted it. 2 days later: I don't like the area, you made me move here. To this day, even for a blue pill, that was a fine example of hamstering.

Strongproudwoman · 2016-09-29T12:10:54+00:00

I guess I could furthur explain when the other posters are saying. Basically even if the girl is like " I wanna suck that nub" she might catch feelings and feel jealous the next time you bring a hoe back to your place. Interacting with all girls sexual wise creates all kinds of drama and bullshit. Since you'll be living there it will be annoying and difficult to deal with those bitches. The guys say dont poo poo where you yum yum but its more its just not worth it. Easier to just go pick up a starbucks slut and having peace of mind at home.

jeezydasnowman · 2016-09-29T15:13:38+00:00

Given you're engineering you're never gonna be home anyways. Hope you like studying your ass off while everyone else parties.

TrimHer · 2016-09-29T17:10:13+00:00

Two female roommates? This

samsmith67 · 2016-09-29T18:05:34+00:00

I've been the same situation for over a yr. Last sept i got two female roomates (1 blonde the other brunette) and i decided off the bat that i would just keep my distance and do nothing more then the "good morning, hi, bye" shit when walking by or coming in or out of the place... Within a week they were talking smack about me behind my back and sometimes totally ignoring me when i walked into the common room in the middle of a conversation. They were both so full of themselves and had the 'know it all/hipster chick attitude'. One of them had various guys sleep over while the other just studied alot. Eventually she had guys over as well. One time the brunette had a beta pretty boy over who she invited into her room.. it was obvious nothing went down and he left. As she was about to tuck herself in for the night a bit later she said to me in a suductive voice: "Good night sam..."

Yeah i knew what was up but told myself the 'don't shit where you eat' rule' and just replied back with: 'Good nite to you as well'. Eventually she stopped saying good nite... weeks later when i was in my room chilling to some music i hear a knock at my door... it was her again asking "what you doing?" I said just chilling. She complained about the music cause she was trying to sleep and i turned it down and closed my door, but before that i did notice she fixed herself up a bit and posed in front of my door before i opened it. Again i did nothing. Mths after that she out of the blue said that "we're friends now." I say to myself: "Oh so i have no say in that? Obviously you WANT SOMETHING FROM ME. and lo and behold a few days later she asks me to co-sign a loan with her... I turned her down and found out she got a beta to do it as expected. The blonde has since left and the brunette no longer talks to me at all. She has stated more than once durning her time here that she feels all men just want the you know what from her, yet she still hangs out with them and calls them friends. I think becuase she knows she has 'social power' over them knowing they will take her bullshit in the hopes of getting the puss down the rd. She knows she has no power over me since i've never indicated i wanted her hence the silent treatment. I haven't brought any other bitches over yet but once i do you all know what will happen.

[deleted] · 2016-09-29T11:00:01+00:00

That you're thinking about it at all is a big issue.

The answer is of course you should, but not plan it. IF you plan it you're making promises to yourself, and building expectations of how your interactions with them are going to go.

When it comes to female roommates, que sera sera.

Title	I'm about to move in with 2 female roomates and i have a few questions
Author	NoChillPhilll
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Comments	19
Date	September 29, 2016 10:49 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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