So i'm 18, been seing with this girl, tried not to show any signs of investment on my side, actually told her I don't see myself in a LTR in 10 years, invite her to my place only (been three times, only handjobs and fingering).

I have invited her for another meeting, yet she is hesitating because "you said you don't like me and will find another girl" (actually she told that, I have only humorously agreed to that) I didn't denied it as I won't explain myself cause of her not getting the joke.

The point is, she will probably come over, but I don't know if it is not to big of a red flag? Should I continue this relationship or just get over it as she will continue to force me to commit harder and harder?