We had everything worked out. I got a lawyer to help with paperwork. We agreed and split all the Financial, property which there was very little and agreed about how I could visit my son (6) when I was in town.1700 miles away.

The only thing she got stuck on is “if i die I don’t want him to go live with you, your job would make it hard to car for him. He should stay with my parents.”

I can understand all this if she died tomorrow. But who knows what will happen in 5-10 years. I will be better off and most likely be living closer, like 3 hours from her.

It’s so short sited she wants to fight over this theoretical situation that may never happen. Now I know the judge wouldn’t agree to this as there is no supporting evidence that would hold up. She is basically trying to have me give up my rights while still having me pay support.

At least I have the lawyer on retainer. $6500, guess I will see how that gets me. I don’t have the money to fight anymore after that. She stands to lose more if I push spousal support as she make over 20k more then me. I told he I didn’t want it but hell, I might have lawyer fees to pay for after this.

So close yet so far..