As someone that has just discovered the matrix (newly divorced from an LTR, which came as a shock, but not in the context of hypergamy), I've been devouring every book that I can get my hands on, as well as putting into practice being okay being myself around women (with a touch of PUA techniques).

So far I have been successful at meeting women. Smart, funny, and sexy (7s & 8s). Currently I have 3 or 4 women I am seeing regularly.

I thought I had killed the AFC in me, but I am still have a feeling of guilt associated with seeing women concurrently. I worry about hurting their feelings (no they don't know I am seeing other women, I just don't talk about it, so I haven't lied and have no plans on lying).

It occurs to me that this is a very sexist way of viewing women (victims of my charm). So why do I feel guilt?

What am I missing?