Hi All,

Okay, been seeing GF for 16months now and we genuinely get along. I wouldn't be with her for this long if there were any serious red flags.

We left it late, but we decided to meet the parents!

Recently, on the first occasion we went to my hometown to meet my family, she disrespected me in from of my Mother and Sister by telling me to Shut Up. When we were drunk, she insulted me infront of my friends and insulted my best friend later that night by mocking his obvious physical insecurity. I calmly called her out on this and she cried and went home.

Neither of the above are okay in my books and this raised a serious red flag as her attitude is atrocious when she is in a stressful or uncomfortable situation. She goes all out attack and then has a breakdown afterwards. I also put this down to lack of life experience as she is only 20 (I am 25)

Until we talk, I am genuinely giving her the benefit of the doubt and put this down to drunkenness and acting out of nervousness as this was the first time she met everyone. I have done stupid shot when I was nervous and tipsy myself.

After 16 months, this is the first dent in our relationship as we get on very well otherwise.

I am going to sit her down and now that the dust has settled and calmly tell her that this is not an okay way to act. I almost want to pull the ultimatum and say "Pull this stunt again and we are done"

What do you suggest?