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How do you identify when it comes to your relationships and sex life?

CastinDeviousStares

July 23, 2022
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Title How do you identify when it comes to your relationships and sex life?
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CastinDeviousStares

Upvotes 4
Comments 8
Date July 23, 2022 11:22 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/ExRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/w6h5ii/how_do_you_identify_when_it_comes_to_your/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/ExRedPill/how-do-you-identify-when-it-comes-to-your.1125081
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[–]Artistic_Chip 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I can't help but catch feelings for a girl I have sex with. I can't do the open relationship thing. Knowing another guy is fucking her would really fuck with me

[–]CastinDeviousStares1 points 4 years ago* [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

I get it. I'm the same way. Having sex with someone you adore, have chemistry with, and find attractive is one of the best feelings. Especially when you get to do it over and over and over without 'getting to know' more people just to get sex. Then I foolishly fall hard. Ugh. Relationships are messy AF.

I personally do Poly with only Monogs and it actually works out pretty good after lots of communication and time. The jealousy thing is definitely an insanity-inducing feeling at first though, for sure. But I'm basically on call for them, so they rarely ever have to worry about me not being available, even if it's just for texting or whatever. But, I totally get it.

[–]Artistic_Chip 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

So you are polygamous with people who are monogamous? Can I ask if you are male or female, and how do you go about this?

[–]CastinDeviousStares1 points 4 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm a woman who seems to attract introverted monogamous men (they don't have other partners by choice, not any rules I set). Some haven't been okay with it and wanted me to break up with others so they can have me to themselves, but I don't do that anymore. I lost someone very important to me that way.

After working out an ungodly and stupid amount of kinks, therapy, and self-love and acceptance, I just tell them what I can offer and they either let me love up on them knowing I have others or not. The choice is theirs. I practice part hierarchy parallel with my main, and then others are parallel, kichen table, or garden party (whatever we decide together). I don't do solo though.

Here's more info if you're curious: https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a39412505/types-of-polyamory/

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