I was recently talking to a successful young woman that I've known for a while. I had just recently gotten out of a relationship a few months ago and have just been improving myself in that time. Me and the new girl go out a few times and are obviously both interested in each other. She seems decent enough, makes good money, owns her house (at 22), car, doesn't drink much or smoke, doesn't go out much. However on the way back from a date yesterday, she brought up the fact that she has dated all sorts of guys (black, white, Hispanic, Asian) and obviously has slept with them. This didn't really catch me off guard, but I will say that I was surprised that she had actually slept with them and it wasn't just one of those things like in middle school where you "date" for a couple weeks and then don't talk anymore. She said that she has had sex with black guys (as in multiple). She has been talking recently about how she is getting ready to look for the next step in life (such as marriage, kids, etc)

When she told me all this she could obviously tell that my demeanor changed. I'm great at making girls or anyone in general laugh, and you could tell that something was up. She got upset and asked me to just tell her the truth, and I told her that it was not really something I agreed with and I'm not sure what's gonna happen now. We were close to my place by then, and I knew I was just gonna tell her that we shouldn't talk much anymore, cause it would be wasting both of our times.

I feel like I did good with holding frame, other than showing that what she said upset me. I didn't get all emotional or anything, just straight up told her what I thought. Basically, when we got to my place, we said our goodbyes, and by this point she was basically crying (I'm not sure why, we'd only hung out/gone on 4 dates, plus texting/snapchatting) and said she wished she hadn't told me about it. I told her that I kind of figured it out already, but wasn't sure. She basically just said she dated people who treated her right and didn't care.

I know everyone has their opinions, but to me, interracial dating, whether it's black/white, Asian/Mexican, whatever, is kind of a red/yellow flag. Not that I'm racist, just not something I agree with.

Since then I haven't texted her and she hasn't texted me either, obviously. How does interracial dating play into TRP though? I really considered just trying to get over it cause I liked this girl, but I realized I would just be masking my true feelings.