my recent email to the family courts (UK)

ReWildingOfMen · 2022-09-29T17:14:39+00:00

Submission statement:

This was sent last night to the family court.

For those of you unfamiliar with my story, the last two years I've been reliving through my body 100s of hours worth of previously repressed memories of being raped and tortured as a baby, boy and man.

Towards the end of my relationship with my ex, I finally came to see that she had been using these re-emerging memories as a means of trying to hurt me. Primarily by protesting in innocence that it's not her fault she can't believe me about my so called father's involvement, despite the terror she had seen shaking through me when I first remembered his face, and despite the fact that we met each other IN the practising of a therapeutic modality. She made a habit of subtly gaslighting me or provoking me, often after I'd just had an hour or so of somatically reliving be raped, her favourite indirect metaphorical knife thrust into me was "I can't believe your father did that" all the while watching me with those dark eyes to see if she could make me pop (I now understand she is a vulnerable-covert narc).

I escaped her, thank god. And in my doing so she started working the angle of the kids as a means of hurting/controlling/punishing me.

After regaining access she once again screwed the nut after the boys had asked me if they could see us both the same 50/50, upon my bringing this up with her.... Well as to be expected a solicitors letter wasn't that long coming.

This has culminated in me stopping seeing my son's as I was fearing for my worsening mental health. And also... She did such a good number on me, using my trauma against me AND gradually turning almost everyone against me as Narcs are so proficient at doing.

In the latest round of affairs, in her seeking the courts permission to take the kids on holiday without my fatherly permission (she had refused to reassure me it wasn't part of a longer term strategy to once again relocate them back to mainland Europe so I had refused to give my consent) false allegations of emotional and psychological abuse of her and the children, were made against me by her.

The kicker is that in the emails I sent to the court and CAFCASS, it was plainly observable how my ex and her solicitor had lied and misrepresented things to achieve their aim.

However a combination of me being a man, the trauma I have been reliving and the hordes of people turned against me, and yes the outlandish things I say about saving the world.... Along with my impoverishment and homelessness at this point - meant there was no point in me trying to fight the witch in court. And so I was ruled against.

I let them know in no uncertain terms what I thought of them. And this is my followup to the dates being changed for the next hearing that I won't attend.

Now mine is an extreme situation,

1/ I know that people will be coming to try and kill me at some point in the future due to the memories of abuse I have uncovered and how I've spoken out. I am completely at peace with potentially dying and/or protecting myself and what that may result in. And infact you could say, I have eagerly been waiting for these people my whole life.

2/ I will NEVER bend the knee to corruption or injustice or misplaced power EVER again, I will die before I let that happen.

3/ I don't have any option to fight legally or within the system for the reasons I've listed above.

So all that is left is to speak truth, assert boundary and allow consequence, which includes my swearing of vengeance against them all.

If there's any scrappers here, it's a bit like when you are physically faced with a group of assailants, it's important to destroy the illusion of safety their group gives them, you focus on the leader/mouth piece in such a way that he feels as if he stands out and is no longer protected by the herd.

So too, these corrupt laws and courts hide behind the system that protects them.

OBVIOUSLY I'm not advocating any kind of vigilante action or violence....

BUT it is important they realise they as individuals are responsible for the wickedness that gets done on their watch. And that there are consequences for all things.

Estranged and betrayed father's! Your rage is needed and important and proportional.... We have been conditioned to be cowed and accepting in the face of injustice. The days are fast approaching where we must make a stand, where (in non violence 😇) We must allow our rage and voices to be heard.

I will never rest until justice has been gotten, and vengeance is mine against ALL who have wronged me and my children... And I will tear this society and the very court buildings DOWN with my bare hands if I must in order for that to be possible.

I love you brothers, shits going to change in the coming years, I swear it.

Title	my recent email to the family courts (UK)
Author	ReWildingOfMen
Upvotes	1
Comments	1
Date	September 29, 2022 4:53 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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