One EC's definition the alpha - beta mating strategy.

"In the case of relationship dynamics: alpha and beta should not be seen as types of men, but the two sides of women sexual strategy. They sexually desire a type of men and they want the providing of another type of men, for which they are willing to exchange some sex with even though they don't really feel like it. Betas are not losers, they are the not-so-high-value-men who can make good providers. They're not the most sexually attractive but they have their role to play on the sexual market place."

With that being said, here is what confuses me:

Girl 1: 7, big breasts big ass slim waist, is a model. She saw me get a standing ovation once. Turned on her tingles. She sought me out to make "small talk" I turned it to a date on the spot kissed. Next week brought her to my house and fucked her. Same thing next week and the next week, then we never talked again cus she moved.

Girl 2: met on tinder. 4, but short and feminine. Skinny. Banged her 1 hour after meeting her. She has told me "i don't expect anything so you won't hurt me if you decide to not see me anymore."

Girl 3: big ass, small breast, weird face. 5. She sought me out on Facebook, asked me to hang out (would u like to hang out sometime?) And I said yeah , wear pretty under wear. I brought her to my house, she was wearing pretty underwear, and we fucked.

This continued for 3 weeks until Girl #3 said "i want to be your girlfriend" and I said hold your horses, and gave it another month , then i said ok we can treat eachother like boyfriend and girlfriend, but Imma still date other girls.

So then she posts pictures of us all the time, posts about us. I feel she is using me to portray an image of a good innocent girl while she gets gang banged. (Which I don't care too much cus it's not like she gives me starfish sex either.)

I ended up dropping the BF GF label, to which she was heart broken about.

Still told her to hang out. She came over and got fucked by me over and over again.

I like her the most because she has taught me the most about women

So I bang her whenever I want, where ever I want (even in public) but I don't know if she Is using me for beta bux purposes maybe emotional bb purposes.

  • i never bought her anything

  • I'll listen to her but laugh at her a lot cus her problems are dumb

  • I'll make fun of her for her slutiness

So how do I know if im AF or BF?

What are tell tail signs of either of the dichotomy?

How do I stay or shift into AF

P.S. girl #3 told me her plan for fucking on the first date was done with the intention to have me become her boyfriend i think that says it all.