After divorcing I half jokingly threatened to buy a minivan and get the custom license plate seen in the title.

Of course I didn't. I drive a 2 seater Honda CR-Z, one of the newer hybrid ones. I've divorced over my infertility. I'm enjoying freedom as a 45 y/o professional who asks permission of no one. I've been single for over a year and I love it. I want to get laid, and I refuse to give up my freedom.

Yes, I lift like my life depends on it, and wear tight t-shirts to show off my gainz, yo.

I talked up a cutie at the bar last night, got her digits, she's up for some climbing. The plan would be to go climbing with the group, then invite her back to my place after for cheese & wine. Knowing what I now know, the only date I would ever pay for is drinks.

Turns out she has a kid, though. It crossed my mind to invite her over today to talk climbing sober & jump in the pool, but she's taking care of her kid. Her Ex does so 2 nights a week. No way I'm meeting kids before fucking 3 or 4 times and her knowing good and goddamned well what the game is.

Hell, there's another woman in my life who really wants me to rail her out more often. If I found someone else to fuck, I probably would fuck her more often too......1 is the worst number of women in the world, which is why I only fuck this other women every few weeks when the alcohol gets to me.

My mother in law noted bitterly that no woman would ever not get the significance of me driving a 2 seater hatchback.....it screams no kids. I live in a ground floor apartment opening to the pool, right across the street from a university, and it's a pretty wicked bachelor pad which I keep tight.

Here's the question: Do any of you guys keep single moms in check? Given this Frame announcement, is it really so dangerous? I'm no hyprocrite, (the collective) she can fuck whoever she wants and search for her Beta Bux (Alpha Bux are in the rear view mirror for her). If I met her online she'd probably have screened me out by now, which is kind of another story.....but wouldn't a single mom 15, 16 years younger than I am get the game pretty quick? Don't they like getting railed out by a non-needy, non-judgmental stud who doesn't give a shit about raising families?

Doesn't the constraint that single mothers have, the care of their children, take a metric fuckton of pressure off of partners who display enough Frame and clearly will never be Beta Bux?