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moms teach their boys I had a discussion with my mom and grandma about getting married. Told them to give me one good reason to do it, they said I would get a woman who would cook and clean for me. When I told them women aren't interested in doing those things anymore because they're all strong independent women now, they shut up real fast.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 11:43 PM
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And when confronted about it she blamed it on a snake.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 10:24 PM
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Unfortunately it's not as simple as that, no matter how much women love money they don't get wet and wild for money itself. A poor alpha can still have sex with hot women where there is genuine attraction, while a rich beta will get duty sex in order for her to access his resources. If you want women to fuck you enthusiastically focus on looks, frame and social status first. Money works as a great force amplifier, and can help in the other areas to create genuine attraction (personal trainers, n…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 03:07 AM
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Seems like it was written by a chick who is just in a depressive state because she got dumped by a high-value male, a few comments down you can see she couldn't hold her special snowflake card hidden for long. It's validation seeking written like red pill revenge porn and a lot of guys fell for it. Women don't even understand the meaning of complete ruin because they always have family, orbiters or the state to be their safety net, yet they're all crying like life won't go on when they don't get…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:13 AM
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So what do you say when she asks about a small loan of 50 bucks to buy a gift for one of the kids?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 12:31 AM
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What's the longest period of time you've gone without sex?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 02:21 PM
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unattractive female There's no virtue in not using power for selfish reasons if you don't have power. And why is it so hard to grasp that exceptions DO NOT invalidate rules?
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 09:59 PM
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I'm not entirely opposed to the idea that it is being done on purpose, but it's hard to embrace fully because I just can't see a reason why. What would those in power gain from promoting decadence, when they can probably acquire more resources and power through for example religion? It seems too easy to blame it on some illuminati-esque group controlling everything behind the scenes and promoting decadence just because they want to watch the world burn. If I had to put my money somewhere it woul…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 02:21 AM
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It's just a lack of experience, guys come on here and are shocked because some of these pills are really fucking hard to swallow and they're still clinging to the thought of that one exceptional woman who wasn't like the rest. They can't see the bigger picture just yet and it won't really click until they go out into the world and see it through a red pill lens. I disagreed with a lot of the harsh concepts around here until I actually got to experience them. Young people are arrogant and think t…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 11:31 PM
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Nowhere? Take a look around, women use their vaginas to gain advantages all the time and especially at work if they can get away with it. It might not be as frequent in higher status professions because the risk is greater, but if you think female surgeons are any different than other women on an instinctual level you might have missed a core concept or two. If you've worked with females you'll see that very few of them get by on merit. They will either fuck someone, have orbiters do their work …
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 11:00 PM
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free of female insanity! Until secondary socialization takes over and everyone she listens to more than you is telling her to become a feminist and ride the cc. Your ex will also try and turn her against you which will prove effective the second you set some boundaries for your daughter she doesn't want to accept because "all her friends are doing it". I wish you all the good luck in raising your daughter but you need to find countermeasures for this if you want her to grow up as healthy and hap…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 12:12 AM
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He's not telling you to hold women to the same standards as men, he's using it as a thought experiment to show how useless they really are compared to us. At no point does he say specifically that men and women are the same or should be held to the same standards. But I guess it doesn't matter to morons who come here only to nitpick and try to be funny by cleverly calling someone a homo as long as you get your internet points. If you spent some time here reading and learning instead of spewing y…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 11:23 PM
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The only way you enforce boundaries with women is withdrawing attention, everything else makes it worse. However when she fucks someone else it’s too late, you’re never getting over it so just cut your losses. This isn’t just relationships 2.0, as you say your perception of the world and especially women will change as you swallow the pill. And although they all feel the same after a while your standards will increase, and you will be happy with women because there’s no cognitive dissonance anym…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 12:40 AM
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Your mistake was not expecting her to fuck around. All girls do it these days, get comfortable with the thought and just ghost when you figure it out if it's an issue.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 05:55 PM
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Same thing you always do when a woman crosses your boundaries, withdraw attantion. If you’re not comfortable with her fucking other men you should always ghost completely as soon as it becomes an issue.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 06:28 PM
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You let a woman get you all riled up and emotional, that’s getting played. Take your benz somewhere else before it gets keyed.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 02:11 AM
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What the fuck are you on about. There are a miniscule amount of women who have contributed to trp compared to men. You can appreciate their individual works but this is just another form of pedestalizing.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 02:01 AM
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I have socialized plenty, even got laid once (drunk girl), so I am not an incel. Driving a shitty car once doesn't make you an experienced driver. Same as driving a shitty car once doesn't tell you anything about how good it feels to drive a nice car, fucking a drunk girl once is not a good indicator of the advantages you can gain from having positive sexual relations with women. As a man I hope you can find reason in at least gaining knowledge and experience in a field before discrediting it en…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 12:26 AM
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I never said biology would go away, i'm saying priorities should be different in the society we live in. Even if they should this is not the place to discuss it. In a context of trying to fuck women (which is what trp is about if you didn’t notice) trying to convince guys that they should strive to find happiness without women isn’t really helpful. This is not a happiness subreddit and you don’t get to decide what trp is about. If you’re not here to improve your SMV or teach other guys how to im…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 05:41 AM
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Yeah you might as well just give up and kill yourself if not. Unfortunately you won’t be getting more pussy while dead but at least you won’t be stuck in self-pity anymore. Or you can make the best of it and ignore shit you can’t change, up to you.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 07:57 AM
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So he’s speaking the truth about life not being about pussy, yet you are dissatisfied because of a lack of it. That’s called biology and it’s not going away, so you need to fix it in order to live a fulfilled life. Any MGTOWs who disagree can fuck off to their own subreddit of self-hate and depression. Although you could take TRP further than pussy that is not our main focus here. We want to acquire pussy so we can spend our time and focus doing other things without the weight of being an incel …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 07:38 AM
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It depends on your situation, if your job/social life requires you to have a lot of casual conversations you could use it to your advantage. However it’s not really needed for women you want to fuck or close male bonding. If you have trouble being social it’s far better to keep up a bit than coming off as weird.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 01:22 AM
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Start by taking action, it’s easier than fixing a negative mentality in a bad situation. Move out and apply for other jobs.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 02:17 AM
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Don't mind the downvotes, these guys are just bringing their morality into TRP when they never had to do bitch management while staying for the kids. As for your post, I'd say it doesn't matter why she said what she did. If you're ever insecure about this always err on the side of escalation/assume the lay until you get a hard no.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 01:12 PM
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You need way more experience before you start thinking about LTRs, at least get your n count up to 20. There's no need to be stressed out about this, either you fuck her or you don't and the last thing you should be thinking about is what anyone else might think of it. Just make sure you keep talking to other girls so that you have options if you fail with this one.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 01:03 PM
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Learn how to banter (watch standup or shows like QI) and how to balance it with being serious. Guys mostly bond around hobbies, so either talk to guys about specific shared hobbies or general ones (women, sports, gaming, music). Sounds like you're on the right path, good luck!
/r/askTRP07/10/17 04:35 AM
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So whenever I'm doing an activity I don't know how to do I should act like an insecure bitch who doesn't know how to do said activity?
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 01:46 AM
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Lift, eat a lot and practice walking normally in a mirror.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 09:55 PM
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You're probably not attractive enough for them to want to fuck you yet, which makes communication hard when they can't put you in the friendzone either. Lift some more, practice keeping a light tone and learn to fake a smile.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 03:42 PM
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Why would you risk getting your ass kicked for this one girl? Are there no other women in your area?
/r/askTRP01/10/17 03:39 PM
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Practicing general game while young is far more important than relationship game. Maybe do it for 3-4 months for the experience but honestly you shouldn't waste your time with it until much later.
/r/askTRP01/10/17 03:35 PM
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Because they know you're a good little beta who will give them attention without expecting to fuck. Hanging around this girl doesn't benefit you at all.
/r/askTRP28/09/17 02:58 AM
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This might be hard for you, but it's even harder for an 11 yeard old boy who can't fight it mentally or otherwise. Keep fighting for him, if they are as bad as you say they'll probably fuck up at some point.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 10:03 PM
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Surrogate. If you get a woman involved in raising your children these days all you're gonna end up with is a broken home.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 06:18 PM
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Uninviting her is going to come off as really butthurt, but it's the safer option. Sounds like she's not going to show up either way.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 05:48 PM
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No. This is for vetted LTRs. You don't trust your plates in your social circle like this. It also breeds familiarity and kills attraction.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 04:40 AM
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Hidden thing lol, you assume bitches are able to keep their mouths shut. If she's giving you IOIs chances are it's just to fuck with her boyfriend, who will take it out on you. And he knows where you live.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 04:26 AM
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Why would you invite a plate to a wedding? Sounds like you're going way too fast and she's scared.
/r/askTRP25/09/17 04:23 AM
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Your past sucked, why would you want to think about it? Start lifting and think about an awesome future instead.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 09:04 PM
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Why? Is she a prostitute?
/r/askTRP24/09/17 09:02 PM
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Yep, except do it sunday instead. You want her believing you don't spend time thinking about it, not making preparations a day in advance.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 11:25 PM
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Yes. Making conscious efforts to keep a woman around tells her that you are a needy beta who has to spend his time worrying about that kinda shit because you have no one else. Use your energy to get other women and you will solve this issue in time.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 10:16 PM
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Texting her other than for logistics is only going to make her less attracted. Talk to other women instead, you need options in case this one doesn't work out.
/r/askTRP23/09/17 10:03 PM
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Trying to help him will only hurt your relationship, but feel free to let him know that you will be there if he ever decides to change.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 04:05 AM
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I'm sorry that you have to go through this, but your grandfather is right. Only thing you can do is be there if he ever wants to make a change himself.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 03:38 AM
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I'm having sex with attractive women. I'm happy. The women I'm having sex with are happy. Give me a better alternative and I'll take it. Are you happy?
/r/askTRP21/09/17 03:58 PM
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Get into meditation (mindfulness) as well, other than that it seems pretty good for the first few months. Don't worry about how life feels right now, if you stick to the plan you'll be looking back laughing in a year tops.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 06:46 AM
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Learn how to be genuinely interested in other peoples hobbies/interests. It's also a great way to learn a lot of cool stuff.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 12:23 AM
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Obviously you should seek professional help because you have some serious mental disease making you unable to control your actions.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 12:16 AM
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Because giving good advice usually involves telling the person you're advising some harsh truths. Bluepills don't want to offend anyone.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 08:11 PM
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Solution is to lift.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 12:59 PM
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Why would you text her if there was already chemistry? Only text for logistics. Anything else will cause sexual attraction to drop.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 02:36 AM
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If your SMV is high enough inviting her over is fine, if not it might be wiser to game her for an hour or two over drinks out. If by "everything but sex" means you got a blowjob tell her not to worry about it and set a meet at a later time if you feel like it. If not it just sounds like a waste of time.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 10:12 PM
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Forget about her, go to the sidebar and read "There's this one girl". If she wanted to have sex with you she would come over for an hour or two and fuck. She didn't because she doesn't regard you as a sexual option. You are not going to fuck this girl in at least a couple years so just focus on yourself and other girls if you ever want it to happen.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 02:07 PM
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Is she unfamiliar with the metrics system? Or does she lack the ability to connect numbers to real world distances? Enabling this kind of behaviour is certainly not going to change it. Quit being a nice guy and learn to say no.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 05:42 AM
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Do you really find it that interesting to have elaborate conversations about classes? People want their minds off that when they're socialising. Feel free to use it as an ice breaker, but quickly move on to topics like their hobbies, cool places to go in the area, which girls are hotter etc. Sports are alsp great with guys but never got enough into it to even fake an interest so I just go with the topics girls, gaming, music or science with guys. Most will react positively to at least one of the…
/r/askTRP19/09/17 12:58 AM
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Obviously what you have to offer them isn't enough, which doesn't necessarily mean you're poor company but simple company is really cheap in the age of smartphones. Acquire the things that they want, like a cool place to hang out, hot women, some niche item at your place like a water pipe etc. It also sounds like you're spreading it out too much, which I wouldn't do if you're looking for people to hang out with on a regular basis. You need to connect with them on some deeper level, because at fi…
/r/askTRP18/09/17 11:10 PM
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It's never going to happen because you accept being strung along for attention like a little bitch. She doesn't want to be fucked by a little bitch, so focus on the other girls and hard next her. This is the best option both for your mental health and for the possibility of fucking her in the future, which I would advise against.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:29 PM
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Depends which definition of asshole you mean. When women say asshole they mean "guy im attracted to who doesnt give me enough attention", so you shouldn't really worry about women calling you an asshole at all.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:19 PM
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Don't bring it up, any attempts to comfort her will only serve to make you a beta in her eyes and drive her away. Women need to feel emotional lows to feel the highs, just make sure you keep giving her the highs in form of great sex. A friend of mine had a thing going with a girl, fucked another girl last week and main girl got sad. He didn't give a shit and fucked main girl two days later. Don't worry about it, just make sure to not react to your protective instincts with plates.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:15 PM
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Women are not inherently evil. It's not their fault. They are fundamentally different than us. Their brain has a different chemistry, and it's not their fault. They are the more vulnerable sex, and their brains have evolved to maximize their ability to survive and reproduce. They will always look for a man who provides them with status, safety, and security, while secretly or overtly desiring the alpha male - I don't think I need to explain what an alpha male is on here. There will always be som…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 02:50 PM
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No idea but you might be able to look it up. SMV is somewhat contextual but in poor countries you will generally find more gold diggers. People care more about money when they don't have it, so money plays a larger part of your status in poor countries.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 07:20 PM
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GFTOW - go fuck ten other women. This requires lifting.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 07:03 PM
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Close, we have a lot of russian/eastern european women here and I've read some accounts on the SMP there from russians.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 07:01 PM
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Moving to Russia isn't going to solve your problems with women. Your SMV will probably be inflated in russia, but mostly because everyone is poor as fuck and most hot girls there are gold diggers. It's not better, just different.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 06:44 PM
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That's a little too black and white don't you think? I've seen it happen plenty of times but only when they have no higher SMV options lined up. In my experience they're also the ones who want to talk about it when things end, even if they're the ones ending it. Not to underestimate women's ability to branch swing, but it's also dangerous to assume that she will leave the second her attraction fades. They can string you along for months or even years just because you're the best option at the ti…
/r/askTRP07/09/17 11:45 AM
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Sounds like you have feelings for this girl and want to understand why she broke it off so you can fix her. Could also be that she's insecure because your SMV isn't high enough. In any case the best course of action is to stop letting this woman toy with your emotions and focus on someone else.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 02:07 AM
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Are you really calling us unsituated losers while the love of your life is getting railed by your best friend? I can't really blame you though, I used to hate on players out of jealousy too. Now I'm literally in the same situation except I'm the one getting my dick wet. I feel pretty happy about my situation, and if you ever want to experience it and blue pill therapy doesn't help you achieve that you know where to find us.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 01:55 AM
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Except women are mostly shit at teaching children valuable life lessons, which is why you see a lot of degenerates being raised by single mothers. At best they can deal with the menial tasks for children and men so that men can spend their time doing more productive things. This used to be how the social contract of marriage worked, but these days modern technology and feminism have for the most part absolved them of these responsibilities. Although this can be somewhat corrected through vetting…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 11:35 PM
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I gave you the truth, you on the other hand posted a wall of text to avoid answering truthfully to a question because you are ashamed of the answer. But if you want me to elaborate, you sound like the kind of guy who likes being different but instead of turning this into something positive you turned yourself into a social recluse and grew resentment towards anything that doesn't fit into your moral code. By now you should have realized that the fantasy figure you believed in all those years is …
/r/askTRP06/09/17 10:37 PM
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That's the longest rationalisation of "I couldn't even fuck a single woman" I've ever seen.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 09:19 PM
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Yes. Change it for some healthy habits like lifting and meditation.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 08:42 PM
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Waste of time unless you're already ripped/have high social status. Go daygame instead.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:47 PM
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If you're still skinny after 5 months you're half-assing it. Lift until your muscles hurt, eat until you feel like throwing up and get 8 hours of sleep every night. Otherwise you're gonna be stuck in a life where Chad is always banging your oneitis.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 02:40 PM
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Get wasted and puke all over your oneitis so she'll leave before you get angry. Or just don't go. Plenty of women elsewhere, but to be honest it sounds like you should just go monk mode and focus on lifting.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 01:03 PM
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I see your point, I just don't want anyone to think that they'll turn into an arrogant pessimist by striving for perfection. You can be better than others without looking down on them in a negative way. Blue pills do find happiness in serving, but their happiness is fake and brittle. Deep down they don't want to serve but they don't know any other ways to find happiness. So they keep slaving away without never really getting what they want, while breeding contempt for their masters and the guys …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 10:41 AM
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This isn't a relationship, you just had to put a label on it and convince yourself she's not fucking other guys because you have oneitis for a whore. They're far better at hiding cheating than we are, never underestimate this. If her fucking other guys makes you uncomfortable just get out. Or don't listen to me and let her crush you.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 11:00 PM
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I can't even imagine the amount of rationalisation you have to do to accept this kind of behaviour. Has she even admitted to being your girlfriend? She's fucking other guys already, dump/ghost her right now.
/r/askTRP05/09/17 10:50 PM
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You can find purpose in serving yourself without looking at the world as a sewer. In my experience people who serve themselves have a more positive view of the world.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 09:04 PM
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I'd link it but I'm on mobile, you can use the search funtion and type in "game" and sort by top to get to the good stuff. You'll find a cheat sheet by doing this on asktrp but I recommend you read up on top posts on the main sub as well because there's not really any shortcuts to good sexual strategy.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 10:20 PM
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I wouldn't completely trust those stats even with a big, varied sample size because women will hamster to the point of even lying on anonymous surveys. The closest you'll get to the truth is to go out there and experience it. Become the type of man women cheat with and they start telling you stories that are so fucked up they surpass a lot of top bluepill examples here.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 10:13 PM
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The good news is it's not really about the eye contact, the bad news is it's your entire attitude/demeanor. You're worrying about what some bitches think when you look at them for too long instead of your work or goals in other areas of life. What they think of you doesn't mean shit except the bare minimum you need to keep your job. You are seeking these womens approval, it's a weakness and women can sense it. It triggers disgust in them in order to push you further into a beta state. Fuck being…
/r/askTRP04/09/17 10:02 PM
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Single mothers will always end up leeching off you, how much and how fast she does it depends whether she already has someone taking care of the kid. If her parents or the kid's father are heavily involved she will slut around just as much, if not she'll be looking to get this support from you. I say fuck her once if it's easy, otherwise single mothers are not worth it. Work on your SMV and go for younger girls instead.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 09:52 PM
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Possible, yes. Worth the effort and risk? Fuck no. If you could see how fucked up these women are, even the young and "good" ones you wouldn't even hint at the idea of getting married. It might seem worth it to you because you made it this far, but I seriously doubt that all the men who got divorce raped, lost their kids or are stuck in sexless marriages agree.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 06:41 PM
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And what, she has some kind of mental retardation making her unable to research and learn those things herself? You don't expect anything from her and you let her get away with bullshit victimhood excuses. Your only chance is making her feel like you will leave if she doesn't lose weight, although I don't really recommend wasting time teaching bitches basic shit like this.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 06:04 PM
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Good on you for making it work, but nobody should take this as marriage being a good or even viable idea. You're probably a natural or had good male role models, most guys won't have those advantages. This was also 30 years ago before online dating, women will have fucked around way more prior to marriage these days and will therefore be incapable of proper pair-bonding. You're making a good point as far as being responsible for your own happiness goes, I just don't want any guys here to sign aw…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/17 05:51 PM
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Prenups can be dismissed in court, I've seen examples of this. Do not get married, you have nothing to gain from it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 03:23 PM
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Never get married. You're perfectly able to raise a child without signing away half your shit. Cohabitating is a risk, but I belive it's the best option for the kid.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 12:54 PM
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Practice never hurts if you can fit it in your schedule.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 05:37 AM
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Either a sincere thanks or agree and amplify.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 05:26 AM
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All women will be horny as fuck for the right man, conservative women just care more about hiding it. Doesn't mean they won't ride the CC or cheat, AWALT. If you're looking for conservative women to find a unicorn I can tell you right now it's pointless. I find their fake innocence alluring as well, but I know it's fake.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 01:21 AM
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Then how do you suggest guys develop their "inner alpha"? Channel it? Until someone can come up with some specific actions you can take that works better than going out in the world and failing I say fuck it, fake it till you make it.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 12:08 AM
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This might work for you, but it's bad advice for most low SMV males. You don't want to be the guy droning on about star wars for two hours during a date because she pretended to be interested for a minute. It's called social intelligence. People who overdo mirroring aren't really socially intelligent, neither are those who never do. Assume formlessness, adapt to thrive.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 10:57 PM
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They're not that far from the truth, it's just that MGTOWs aren't getting the only kind of enjoyment women are good for.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 11:04 PM
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Do not under any circumstances get married. Ask yourself what you will gain from it (esoteric shit like love doesnt count) any time the notion comes up. For those who want children surrogacy is still an option. Personally I don't have kids but I'll probably want one or two in the future because I believe them to be man's greatest source of happiness. Some of us don't want to keep banging sluts forever. No vascectomy for me but shouldn't affect your masculinity in any way. Just don't tell women a…
/r/askTRP21/08/17 09:21 AM
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She doesn't give a shit about your feelings, she just wants an emotional tampon while fucking her ex. You did the right thing, now stick to it.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 09:10 AM
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The problem with this is that a lot of people probably have to die in the process, and not everyone agrees with that.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 11:03 PM
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I want you to stop thinking of yourself as the exception to those statistics and find something else to be your main focus in life. I'm a sucker for love myself, but women are just too fickle to trust them as your main source of happiness. Besides, you don't really have to marry a woman to spend the rest of your life with her. That's just a contract signed to fuck you over when she gets tired.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 03:14 PM
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Break it off now, the only reason girls travel is to brag/get strange dick and you don't want to be emotionally involved when that happens.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 10:44 AM
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Glad to hear you made it, don't worry if you don't agree with all the views on women here yet. It will click when your wife cheats/divorce rapes you.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 10:41 AM
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Do not under any circumstances shit where you eat. There are plenty of other women you can hit on, not worth risking your income over it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 10:36 AM
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Although the benefits of these habits might be small compared to training MMA I don't think they should be laughed off. Nofap is questionable but if you're not fucking girls you shouldn't be jerking off more than once a week.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:24 AM
1

Not all women will shit test as much at any given point, they do it when they feel they need comfirmation of your frame. If they feel secure about your frame (either weak or strong) the frequency goes down but it can go right back up if it chnges. Sounds like you're handling this fine, just apply some dread if she starts more pointless arguments.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 08:16 AM
2

Yeah, which is why I said that humans don't have alpha/beta hierarchies. TRP definition of Alpha doesn't apply to real-world alphas in species that actually function like that. Not hard to grasp. Well you're not on a zoology subreddit, are you? You're getting hung up on a pre-existing definition and refuse to understand that we can create our own language and definitions if we damn well please. We're just making it easier to communicate so fuck off with your nitpicking. If you have nothing const…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 09:35 PM
1

Most chads are not "game-aware" as in they're not consciously thinking about their actions around women. Some are, and some are taught how to be chad by other men. But most men are chad simply because their genetics gave them good looks or they were born into rich high-status families.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 11:30 PM
2

Iirc women purchase something like 70 % of all consumer goods, I'll see if I can find the source later because it's a really interesting observation.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 08:19 AM
3

No, that's just the divorce rate. There are a lot more failed marriages but men stay in them out of loyalty/kids/fear of divorce rape.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 11:09 PM
12

if you have a good date, you pay No, you never pay. Remember that you are the prize, she's lucky just to be spending time with you. Golden rule is you never spend money on a woman until you've fucked her, if you're going to spend anything at all. If you're not able to fuck women without spending money on them you need to work on your game.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 10:28 PM
1

It might when you've read the entire sidebar and put down the work. There really is no "optimal order" as long as you're open to RP ideas. Most guys struggle to connect their own feelings to what's written here so we usually suggest No More Mr. Nice Guy (book) first. Every guy has a different situation so there is no defined "optimal order", but if you want some pointers on what to read we need to know more about your situation. However since you're supposed to read the entire thing anyway it wo…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 04:02 AM
1

Accept your feelings, control your actions. There's no magic cure for it, no switch in your head to turn the feelings off so just accept them and control your actions so that you interact with her as little as possible. It gets better after a while, for me it's somewhere around 6 months.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 03:20 AM
2

Am I looser for being the only guy or is this a golden opportunity to meet girls? Depends what kind of guy you are. If you are a loser you're still gonna be a loser there, but you've got the right idea. Whatever opinions people might have of you taking the class doesn't matter because the point is to lose weight. If you really want to be cool and impress people I'd worry about that when your body has shaped up, halo effect goes a long way. I knew a guy who did cheerleading, rarely saw him out in…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 03:11 AM
1

Not sure about the phone aspect but a while back I read about a guy who suspected his gf of cheating so he keylogged her computer. Trust me, she'll never be the same to you once you get to read those messages, so unless you suspect cheating and want the relationship to keep going you might not want to do that.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 03:01 AM
2

Learn how to do oral, if you're worried about performance just make her cum once before putting your dick in her. If you feel like she deserves more in between sessions just keep licking, but make sure not to cum inside her unless you like the taste of semen in your mouth.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 10:36 PM
3

Irrelevant, you should have read all of it before posting.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 10:29 PM
2

What kind of man do you imagine girls want to touch them? Become that man. First step is convincing yourself that girls want you to touch them. If she won't let you touch her you're not going to have sex, so it's better to find out sooner rather than later so you can move on.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 10:26 PM
1

Jordan Peterson is very much RP approved, so you won't find much critique of him here. Cross-reference his ideas with TRP if you're worried about purplepill shit sneaking in. Although I have to say that I find his voice very annoying.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 10:17 PM
3

I found the subreddit literally by googling something along the lines of "why does it always seem like women can never be as faithful as some men can" Iirc the subreddit was actually started because rps googled "why are women so narcissistic" and couldn't find an answer. Glad he did so guys have somewhere to go when they have politically incorrect questions that need answering. It seems like you have good observational/analytical skills, and I'd love to see more from you in the future. I'd sugge…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 02:45 AM
1

What, do you think Allah is going to strike you down if you stop being a muslim?
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 12:56 AM
11

What you are witnessing is the transition from a pair-bonding species to a tournament species. With monogamy and traditional marriage men didn't have as strong incentives to fuck each other over, so they cooperated instead. Now that traditional marriage is dead men are in open competition to have the most pussy, making them distrustful of one another. Notice how men's behavior change from cooperative to competitive when a woman walks into the room, that wouldn't happen if they all had wives and …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 12:04 AM
3

Men bond through common struggle. Join a sports team or find a masculine hobby. If you want to really bond with men you should do it when there's no women around. You'll need to learn how to banter though, there's just no getting away from it. Watch some stand-up comedy and start light, it gets fun after a while.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 11:17 PM
2

almost always pay back If they're getting more of your time and resources than you do of theirs, while not having sex with them, that's still beta. Doesn't matter if you don't spend 2 hours every day talking about their feelings, even if you're not getting the shittiest deal you are getting a shit deal. If you are not using a woman for sex, menial tasks, pre-selection or meeting other women there's nothing she can offer you that a male friend won't do ten times better.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 11:08 PM
4

Your brother's right, you can't save him. It will only ruin your relationship because he will put her in front of you. If you want to help him out be there to pick up the pieces once she breaks him, until then keep the red knighting to a minimum.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 10:57 PM
2

Yes and no. If we still had Marriage 1.0 I could respect their decisions, I would never be cool with my wife travelling somewhere with her girlfriends. When a group of guys travel somewhere there's usually alcohol and women involved, so I can see how they wouldn't want their wives to worry about it. However Marriage 2.0 is absolute fucking horseshit and they were stupid to get into it in the first place. With the threat of divorce rape hanging over their heads they will never dare defy their wiv…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 10:53 PM
6

Since when do rapists want to assure their victims that they're not trying to hurt them? This is just another stupid bitch who got too drunk but refuses to take responsibility for her actions. Of course it makes more sense to ruin a guys life than to drink less the next time. Women really have no remorse.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 10:03 PM
2

So what, you want us all to be equals? Alle women are extremely manipulating because they're pyshically weak and that's how they get ahead in this world. In an RP context that's neither good nor bad, it's just AWALT. TRP is a philosophy based in biological determinism, of course we deal in a lot of generalizations and black/white views on society and women. If you can't deal with that I don't think you'll have a great time here.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 09:48 PM
1

You're not ugly as in there's nothing inherently wrong with your face that keeps you from meeting girls. It's your mentality and your body that is the real problem, stop worrying about your face because even if you really were ugly there's nothing you could do about it (besides plastic surgery). I'm not going to argue that you're currently physically unattractive (because of your body), but honestly your depressed defeatist attitude is the real issue here. I know fatter and uglier guys that have…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 08:43 PM
1

You're not ugly, you're an insecure bitch with a defeatist attitude. That's the reason women aren't flirting with you. You're just looking for an excuse not to change for the better because it's hard. I've seen guys with similar faces to you have success with women, granted they were fit and socially competent. So lift and go talk to people, if you put down the work you could be there in 1-2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 06:17 PM
1

It's called choking on the pill. It all seems very confusing right now but it gets better. Just finish both sidebars.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 11:25 PM
6

So you think it's fair to ruin another man's life because you love a girl that doesn't know how to behave in a relationship?
/r/askTRP15/06/17 06:59 AM
1

This person is not your friend. Stop talking to him and act like nothing's wrong if he asks.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 06:50 AM
6

They act all praising and loving in group-settings then talk shit about people behind their backs. It's a good machiavellian strategy if you have the halo-effect to pull it off.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 02:21 AM
1

Why are you making up excuses to not work on your social game?
/r/askTRP15/06/17 02:16 AM
1

Sunk cost fallacy. If she's being a bitch it's going to be a bad time. You're paying to have a bad time. Cut your losses or lose frame so that she can tell her friends how you totally ruined her trip.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 02:13 AM
3

How do you expect she'll react to being ignored on a trip you planned together? Cancel the trip or get ready for 8 days of hell. Although it should be a great learning experience so you never pull stupid shit like this again.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 01:44 AM
3

Sidebar, "Handling the talk".
/r/askTRP15/06/17 01:31 AM
1

Saying men only want one thing isn't the whole truth, it's a simplification of how men love. When men fall in love we start out kind of extreme, with a huge focus on sex because great sex is the true confirmation she loves you back. Also remember that this is a shaming tactic coming from women, so it only takes into account 10-20% of men, the rest are invisible to them. These men may pump and dump, but most men would want a relationship with the woman they fantasize the most about fucking.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 12:18 AM
3

This is irrelevant in a TRP-context, but I have to point out that this is a form of pedestalizing. You still feel like you owe women something, that it is our responsibility to protect them. We tried that for years and still women wanted more, now they're repaying us by fucking us over in family court. Never be fair with a woman, she will only disrespect you for it. If you want to discuss how to build a healthy society based on morality, women's virtue etc. redpillright would be a better place t…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 11:44 PM
5

"I don't want to miss the expression on your face when you see it for the first time"
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 11:34 PM
2

To be honest I'd rather go with a pro than a 3. A woman who doesn't take care of her appearance isn't worthy of your time.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 02:04 AM
2

Being turned on by dominant behaviour is the true nature of women, no amount of social pressure can truly change that. They were always fucking around, just not as much and they were better at hiding it. You don't seem to fully comprehend this. We do what works, not what is decent. If you were looking for the morally correct amswer TRP is the wrong place to discuss it.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 11:46 AM
1

This is what matters. Don't take what we say as gospel, try it out and see what works. It doesn't really matter if you were being rude or not, sexual strategy is amoral.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 11:39 AM
6

Yes. Keep the average girls around for abundance, but you should always improve your game to score hotter women.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 02:19 PM
2

Never tell women about your wealth, only show it indirectly. You also need to demonstrate that she has to earn access to your wealth or else you'll go straight into the provider box. Not much I would change to be honest, maybe I'd buy an expensive car and a summer house to take girls to. Other than that you shouldn't spend money on girls in general, they can usually tell how much you make by how you dress and carry yourself.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 02:13 PM
21

Nah it was just harmless flirting, but I'd say it was spot on. No point in crossing the line with new girls, reserve the nukes for plates/LTRs who step out of line. I like to go full patriarchal if I need to put a woman in her place, in this case I'd ridicule her for most likely ending up as a glorified prostitute for label CEOs given her lack of musical talent. This can only be done once you've established an incredibly strong frame, but do a search for "black knighting" if you want to know mor…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 01:55 PM
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That's not treating her like shit, that's just being honest. The thing is when you've treated girls like princesses all your life treating them like any other human being feels like you're being an asshole. You'll get used to it.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 01:45 PM
1

You probably communicate rationally, she doesn't understand that. You want sex. You used to have sex before seeing this girl. Honestly how hard can it be?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 04:39 AM
3

Your time is better spent talking to women and cultivating game. Don't put that much effort into social media except for monetary reasons.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 03:13 PM
9

They either lose attraction or find someone else, instead of taking responsibilty and ending things they get miserable so that you'll do it instead. Don't stress it, after 6 months the oxytocin starts to wear off and competing with new exciting alpha dick is not worth it. Just move on and be new exciting alpha dick to someone else. They're not yours, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 03:19 PM
6

I can't really answer your question, but to be honest most forums for illnesses are going to be full of people seeking attention. Find someone healthy to talk to. You might not believe this but it does get better, and people do care. Most people who jumped off bridges and survived regretted their decision. You have the power to change your whole life but you can't unpull that trigger. If you haven't tried it yet a lot of guys find that lifting, diet change, meditation, and the success that follo…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 07:45 AM
1

Women make terrible friends and will only give you the advice that serves them best.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 07:09 PM
1

That's oneitis. If you dump your gf you'll probably turn beta and fuck it up in 2 months anyway, not worth it imo. If possible keep her on the side for a while, maintains abundance so you can solidify your frame with her while making an informed decision. Branch swing after 3-4 months if you still feel the same and it won't work out with gf anyway.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 01:43 PM
1

Winning builds confidence. Find something else to win at.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 09:12 AM
1

You should ask your close male friends lots of questions, gaining knownedge is good for you. If they perceive it as weakness and give you an unnecessary amount of shit for it laugh at them or treat them like they're retarded. With women you just fake confidence in everything except where they can catch your lie. You have to ask questions but you shouldn't do it as much or ask the same questions as you do with men.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 09:08 AM
2

Repeat this ten times to yourself in the mirror every morning: Unicorns aren't real. She is not mine, it is just my turn. All women are like that. Other than that keep reading, lifting, failing and improving. Write down the rules you broke last time until you know them by heart.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 05:03 AM
4

You need to take more control. Finger/lick her for a bit first, then stop and say "now it's your turn to make me horny". Hold frame no matter how she reacts and she will follow your command eventually. This serves as a warm-up both for your confidence and your dick, while setting the tone for the rest of the act and turning her on. She might see you again, she might not, don't worry about it. I've experienced ED a couple times and never struck out because of it, but then again I never make a big…
/r/askTRP05/06/17 04:57 AM
3

1.** You reset the points for your buddies every Sunday morning, right? When do you reset the points to the base value (let's say 25 points) for your hoes? You don't necessarily. Award points for good behaviour if you like, but be strict. 2.** Do you subtract points for stuff she does long-distance? For example, if she pisses you off over SMS or phone call, do you send her an SMS "minus three"? I woudn't always mention the points. Girls aren't that stupid, they'll figure it out if you keep menti…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 02:04 AM
1

Paying someone to feed you bluepill bullshit won't help. I find it very therapeutic to rap/write lyrics. It's also a great way to say the foulest things to women with plausible deniability. You could also try going out into the middle of nowhere and just scream as loud as you can.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 07:08 AM
5

Simple as this. Lift, stack cash and build social value to decrease flakes, however with all the options women have today you should still expect it.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 05:35 PM
8

You know all those amazing things she does for you? The second she gains commitment she loses her motivation to do those things for you. A relationship will make her put on weight as well, so if it's somewhat of an issue now I'm guessing you don't want another 40 pounds on top of that.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 08:40 AM
3

No, you're way too invested in this girl. Fooling yourself into thinking that you can distance yourself from your emotions will only make you fall into the same trap. You don't choose your emotions, only how you act on them. Because of your emotions for this girl you will 100 % fall back into a relationship, so your action should be staying the fuck away.
/r/askTRP31/05/17 08:35 AM
2

You want a submissive feminine wife, women want to be sluts. As long as society lets them theyll keep whoring around, looking for wife material in this arena will do nothing but tear you apart over time. After being in a relationship for that long you can be certain she took the opportunity to suck some strange dick, that's why she didn't want to talk about it. Maybe she even got to try out that spitroast-fantasy she's been having for so long. I guess you know her best so I'll leave it up to you…
/r/askTRP31/05/17 08:23 AM
3

What have you got to lose?
/r/askTRP31/05/17 08:01 AM
3

Been considering how men's pair bonding process might be ruined by failed long-term commitments the same way women's are by failed short-term commitments (didn't turn into a relationship). It seems to be a common theme among non-naturals, getting fucked over emotionally by women until you reach the point where you just don't give a fuck about them anymore. Being a victim of the dark side of women's true nature for too long will make a man realize that this is how they all act unless you put in 1…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 10:15 PM
2

You came to the right place. No matter how much shit bluepill faggots might give you TRP will always support the strength and freedom of the individual man. If you ever feel like laying down we'll always be here to kick you in the ass so you can get back up. I wish you the best of luck in your future endeavours.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 09:42 PM
7

Infinite is exactly what it is. Women are never happy and neither will be until they can swipe right to fuck chad or left to send him to jail.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 01:38 AM
3

Your relationship is over, now you're just paying resources for bad sex. TRP has the information you need to take your manhood back, and gaining more experience as a beta is going the wrong way.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 12:35 AM
1

Glad to help. Now if you're not here to take it serious get the fuck out.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 01:43 PM
9

Not being ticklish would be one.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 08:06 PM
29

This isn't a flaw in RP theory, it's just how women are. If they weren't all like that you probably should have found a decent woman by now. Just plate if they're too much trouble, you have far better things to do in life than thinking about or chasing unicorns.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 11:32 AM
3

This is like cuckoldry and cancer had an ugly love-child that fucked Johan in the ass. Where is this from, Sweden?
/r/askTRP18/04/17 11:52 PM
1

Don't listen to that guy, you've got the right idea. If you really want a relationship that could be considered at a later point but you need to learn how to be comfortable around women first. And that only comes from experience (club sluts).
/r/askTRP15/04/17 11:10 AM
7

It prevents cuckoldry or investing in a girl with a wrecked pair-bonding process. What you can change is your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 11:02 PM
12

You asked a girl to be her emotional tampon and she told you to fuck off? Sounds like she did you a favor. You'll probably keep chasing this girl no matter what we say, I just want you to know that you're far too beta for this to end well. At least start lifting now so you have something to work with when it goes south.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 10:23 AM
2

Why are you listening to what women say? She's trying to bring you down because you are no longer showing emotion which is all she understands. If she can't understand you she loses power over you. Fuck her, keep doing you.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 01:21 AM
1

Now there's the right attitude.
/r/askTRP01/04/17 01:17 AM
19

office relationship I see a shitstorm in your future.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 12:08 AM
1

The hasidic jews are actually the most intelligent group of people on the planet.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:25 PM
2

Doesn't matter how she meant it, but then again I'm not really opposed to racism in general it's just disgusting how she's trying to make her own race look better when they're not. Women always look out for each other, if they meet a man who seems like he will never commit they will try to sell him on the idea of commitment to keep up the enslavement and resource-extraction. Don't fall for the asian unicorn trap, they will bleed you dry and make your life a living hell same as any woman if given…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:17 AM
0

Glad to see you figured that out yourself. Now stop involving your personal bullshit in TRP and start helping men achieve their missions.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 01:56 PM
2

Racist bitch just special snowflaked her entire race to make herself look better. In my experience asian women are just as much manipulative parasites as the rest, their strategies just differ slightly.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:13 AM
17

Some scummy women? I've seen this behaviour in "high class" women as well, AWALT. No exceptions.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 09:41 AM
2

You've got the plan. Be desciplined and patient and you can turn their laughs into screams of pleasure.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 10:38 PM
1

You build physical and mental strength. Lift and meditate.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 10:35 PM
2

Any time my man, I was in this exact situation two months back and after two failed attempts at ltrs I've decided no ltr unless she's really fucking good at lying about being a virgin. Hardest part is deciding what to do about your current relationship, hit me up if you need someone to talk to through the process.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 08:35 PM
4

It's a biological instinct to protect from cuckoldry, it doesn't go away. Either leave now or watch the relationship go sour, some of us just can't deal with dating reformed sluts.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 11:46 PM
34

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=MmMQXM0tFbQ
/r/askTRP27/03/17 09:40 PM
9

Loyalty is definitely one of the most important. I know two guys with n-counts so high you'd never believe it, and they're both sociopathic fucks who would turn on you in a second just to fuck a 7. High n-count might not be negative for men in itself, but pussy thirst will always fuck with loyalty.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 09:58 AM
1

I'd think she was sick of me and wanted to fuck some shady backpacker.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 08:47 PM
1

The reason you're getting stuck in your head is because you feel like you have to impress this chick with your awesome sexual prowess. Well guess what? You spent hours lifting, reading and practicing game to make yourself attractive and this bitch doesn't even have good enough female game to get your dick hard. Why even give a fuck? If you have trouble getting hard command her to suck your dick. If you come too fast you can always go again in 10-15 mins or you can just roll over and sleep becaus…
/r/askTRP16/03/17 05:58 PM
1

Depends how much you want it, if you'd rather be with another girl and do anal then you do that. Remember the fact that if you were higher value/she was more attracted she would agree to anal in a heartbeat, fuck she'd be begging for it. Once you internalize this you won't be satisfied with the relationship, so you might as well start building towards creating attraction that will give you anal.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 09:32 PM
2

You'll give your best performance when you're not worried about whether you'll fuck up, can't get it up, can't get her off, whether they'll fuck you again, etc. etc. Why worry about this with any chick? Seeing women for extended periods of time is great as long as you don't stick to one.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 07:37 PM
3

Thats why you do LSD first, to realize the sentimental value is bullshit. They're just objects.
/r/askTRP15/03/17 02:20 PM
4

Baader meinhof phenomenom. I'll admit I had to google. I'm curious to try out your technique, thanks for the input.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 11:34 PM
1

You need to look into ad hominem right now and then think really hard about what you really know about me. I treated women badly when I didn't accept them for who they were and acted like a bitch when they didn't live up to my expectations. Now I'm having pillow talks with women about behaviour you wouldn't believe if I told you. There's an honesty in a cheating woman that only the guy she cheats with will experience. A truth she feels like she can share because he's the only one who knows. If y…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 04:00 AM
5

I didn't assume anything, you still haven't admitted to shit other than agreeing with me on some level because of how special you are. You're doubling down on the same issue, softening the blow by pulling out contradicting exceptions. Don't pretend like you agree when we fundamentally disagree on the fact that in most cases people act on their biology. You prefer the same as any woman, a good fucking from a dominant man in a penthouse. And don't even try to congratulate yourself on doing "the ri…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 03:45 AM
2

I was fucking with you but this is a prime example of why you're unable to see the true nature of women. I'm being a dick to you but the second I serve you some sob story you suck it up and start leveling with me because I'm a victim. Being a victim does not excuse treating other people badly, and for my example I should note that talking shit about other people and ruining their social life is treating them badly. Now: Imagine a girl is telling you how she broke up with/divorced her ex because …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 01:07 AM
8

AWALT. All women are like that. Not all women do exactly that. You're a real woman because you were born with tits (or gtfo) and a vagina. Doing those things just makes you a decent person, but I'm not giving you a fucking medal for that. Men and women are fundamentally different in that men think in general terms, women think in exceptional terms. Just look at you being so predictable, having a tantrum because you don't have the mental capacity to see a world outside your own exception to the r…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 11:12 PM
6

I was abused as a child and lost half my shit in seven divorces. We're all broken losers here so you might as well get the fuck out.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 09:39 PM
50

No, it's insanity because in all likelyhood it won't last more than 10 years tops before she takes away your kids and your money and make you want to kill yourself.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 07:40 PM
1

You're holding yourself back because of a trait you can't change instead of accepting the responsibilty you have to improve in the areas where you can make a change. That is not being a man, that's being a pussy. I'm not insulting you on purpose just stating a fact. Go lift some weights and tell some people to fuck off (where you can get away with it), should work wonders for you.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 01:14 PM
3

Nope. AA would be "clearly not, my muscles are way too big. I might break you in half"
/r/askTRP09/03/17 12:00 PM
3

Sounds like you've got it handled. Keep dreading and she should stop acting up or start acting so bitchy you'll drop her.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 11:13 AM
2

People treat you like a subhuman because you're a self-pitying pussy who would rather complain about something unchangeable than improving what you can change. If people disrespect you tell them to fuck off, and lift some weights so you can back it up. A weak chin and a 5 inch dick is not going to hold back a man with muscles, money and good game. Unfortunately for you these are not things you will get by being a pussy.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 12:10 AM
3

Christianity is in some ways very redpill and a great tool for building society, but we're not here to do that. Please keep your imaginary friends out of this. As for your wife, I don't really see you mentioning the issue here but I'm guessing it's the fact that she wants sex more than you do and it's getting annoying. Only way to combat this is to express beta behaviour or you could try bullshit female logic "i just feel like all we do is have sex and never really spend any time together". Part…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 12:46 PM
1

You must be very arrogant to think you can decide whether or not someone believes in the same fantasy characters you do.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 05:10 PM
2

There's something wrong with the way you interact with these girls but you're not giving us enough information to pinpoint what it is. Maybe post a few tinder/text conversations you've had to give us an idea, if it's as bad as you say it should be obvious to the more experienced guys here.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 06:52 PM
2

You don't need to analyze this, your gut will do it for you. Are you uncomfortable with it? No LTR.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 01:13 PM
1

True, but trp does not advocate making life choices on what can/should be, we make decisions based on what is. We have enough of reality to analyze and learn from, we really have no need to filter through all the fiction and picking what is valuable information or not.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 01:09 PM
1

Never LTR girls who party. If you get attached to them it's far safer to find someone else, they will disrespect you and hurt you.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 12:53 PM
6

As a younger brother who escaped the blue pill largely thanks to an older brother showing me the way, please don't give up on him. He will be eternally grateful once he breaks free.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:50 PM
3

She's absolutely right, dating a co-worker is a horrible idea. You're just depressed because you finally thought you had it then you lost it. If you want to have it again you need to stop thinking about her and read the sidebar. Or you could keep obsessing over this girl and keep being depressed and postpone losing your virginity for another 2 years.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 12:16 PM
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It's all sales, same theory applies. I'd suggest reading up on some sales theory if you're not familiar with it, it's the art of convincing people to do shit you want.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:10 PM
3

It's because you're being nice and supportive when she's complaining, so she will do more of it to get more support and niceness, but ends up associating you with negative emotions. You can't accept her negative emotion, you need to break it. Tell her to go to the gym or shut the fuck up about it. Tell her she has plenty of guys who are attracted to her, she just isn't attracted to them, and that her low self-esteem is self-inflicted bullshit. A woman will only do what you allow her to do, if yo…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 11:24 AM
2

It's fiction, don't read too much into it. But if you want a reason; to promote the female narrative and sell movie tickets to women
/r/askTRP24/02/17 10:56 AM
12

"You'll start liking it the second she touches your dick" is a good counter here, you need to get them imagining it to make them realize how much they want it. And deep down they know they want it so much that paying doesn't matter, it's a lot more about the social implication. Betas think that "real" women will be repulsed by a man who has slept with prostitutes, and while true is irrelevant because you should never share this fact with a woman you want to fuck. Problem is, it doesn't even occu…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 10:18 AM
6

And those of us who understand female nature and modern society walk around and see used sluts all over the place. You'll have an easier time talking to them when you're primary thought is "she's just another slut and it's just my turn now" instead of "oh my fucking god this girl is so fucking hot i cant even follow what shes saying".
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 10:07 AM
18

She actually makes an important note on healthy and unhealthy masculinity, but she has it the wrong way around. Trump represents healthy masculinity, he's succesful, has strong moral values and has tried to raise a good family. Feminists resent these men because they are men of power. An example of unhealthy masculinity would be a ripped tatted up drug dealer, but feminists secretly love these guys because they're especially fond of being ravaged in bed. Bonus points because it's easier for them…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 09:59 AM
15

It's exactly that. Her pussy doesn't get wet because her biological programming is telling her on a subconscious level that she shouldn't be impregnated by this guy.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 09:33 AM
1

Your aim should be getting 8 consecutive hours of sleep every night, which means you have to take some time out of other activities. This would either be nap time, hanging out with friends or hobbies during the evening. There's really not a secret to this, you just have to write up a schedule that allows for 8 hours of sleep and that means you have to make sacrifices in other areas. Also try not to smoke until you've finished everything else for the day. It will drain your energy which you need …
/r/askTRP23/02/17 09:04 AM
1

What, did she do you a favor by letting you finger her? Can you even see women upon that pedestal you're placing them? You could argue this if we lived in a society where girls tried to be virtuous and there was some risk to giving it up, but young girls today are mostly sluts and fingering doesn't even register as a hookup to some of them because your penis wasn't inside them. They'll let themselves be fingered on the dancefloor by strangers they met 30 seconds ago, without even speaking to the…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 08:33 PM
1

Something's missing here. You shouldn't need more than 1 hour a day to lift, 1-2 hours to eat/shit/shower/misc, 8 hours to sleep and that leaves at least 13 hours. That should be plenty of time to study while still allocating another 2 hours to sleep if you need it. How many hours a day do you have lectures? How much time will you need each day to study after? Do you have a job? How much time do you spend hanging out with friends? Bitches? Do you smoke during the day?
/r/askTRP22/02/17 08:12 PM
2

You're being cuckolded, never date single moms. Her making good money is irrelevant, women always want more and you're going to pay for that child either with time or with money.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:37 PM
8

Actually it's incredibly offensive to have romantic feelings for a woman without her expressing an obvious interest first. Have she given you consent to make her part of your dreams? How do you think she would feel knowing you imagine doing sexual things to her? You shouldn't even be thinking about her you pervert.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 12:27 AM
1

Mistake number one is even considering if you swipe right or left. Unless you get more matches than you can handle it's far more effective to swipe left on every girl and sort out the undesirables later. This shouldn't be a problem as most of your messages should be copy/paste. Look up tinder game/guide on the main sub. You're overreacting, but it should be noted that gamer girls have incredibly inflated egos from all their orbiters. This doesn't make them dangerous or mentally unstable, just re…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 12:09 AM
1

Watching the alpha to beta process is a real eye-opener, however OP should jump ship before it goes too far and life turns into hell in that house for everyone. Women love to create drama, this does not provide for healthy stable living conditions.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 11:56 PM
6

Not as simple as that. Men usually build value, while women usually extract it from others (usually men). Simplifying it that much does nothing to help you in future interactions with women, knowing that they will try to extract your value while men will help build it (if you can simultaneously build theirs) does.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 11:03 PM
2

"This is my face. Is there something wrong with my face?" in a serious/offended tone, puts them on the defend, smirk comes after to calm their emotions. Works wonders letting them ride the emotional rollercoaster.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 08:56 PM
1

Think of how you would treat a child. Are you scared to talk to them? Do you think a lot about what you say to them? Do you take them very seriously? Treating women this way keeps up a light-hearted interaction and keeps you from falling into emotional traps. It may feel a bit wrong at first, but once you get it you will feel a lot happier interacting with women.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 08:47 PM
1

You won't.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 01:06 PM
1

You're feeling insecure because your brain knows you can never be safe with a woman who hangs out with other men. No amount of maculinity or male feminism is gonna make that go away because you're supposed to feel it. Listen to your instincts, don't ltr trainwrecks that plan on being the groupie for shitty local bands for the next four years.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 11:37 AM
2

She just wants to be a victim because she's looking for validation, but in any case girls who self-diagnose like this are a fucking mess. Pump and dump if you can but don't stay around for long.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 11:02 AM
4

We already have. "It's a disease." "I'm just not that smart." "I don't like to read, it's boring." No movements, but the expectation to accept it is there.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 12:42 PM
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It's because it's irrelevant, exactly because these factors are out of our control. This sub is about sexual strategy, and it's very poor strategy to spend time talking about factors you have no control over. We're not here to help guys create excuses for themselves, we're here to help them get laid.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 04:22 PM
1

Listening is great, but you should not tolerate listening to depressive bullshit. Make fun of her and make her realize how stupid she's being. Establishes frame, shows abundance and that you're the kind of guy to get her in a good mood instead of letting her be stuck being sad. You're the leader. As for general conversation just listen to her and tease her/make fun of her based on what she's saying. You might fail a lot in the beginning and end up looking like a tryhard asshole, but just learn h…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 04:58 PM
2

You know by the time our dicks stop working whips are gonna be alch value :(
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:57 PM
3

You're looking for the feeling you get when a oneitis reciprocates your feelings. Be happy you're getting laid and find fulfillment somewhere else, trying to find it in women will be a waste of your time.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:46 PM
11

You're not being irrational. If she hasn't fucked him already chances are it will happen if they continue hanging out.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 12:48 PM
1

Get a dog.
/r/askTRP19/12/16 10:48 PM
7

"I think I would be able to just hit it once and forget about it" said every drug addict ever. Only cure for oneitis is no contact and abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 01:37 AM
1

You want to meet new people? Talk to new people. It does get harder when you're not involved in a social environment anymore but the main reason people don't have as many friends after college is because they are pussies who expect new friends to turn up without any effort.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 01:00 AM
6

Number close = #close. Means that he closed on getting her number.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 11:50 PM
3

Seems like a cool guy so I'd give him some good advice and tell him to stop committing to women who give away their numbers while in a relationship.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 11:49 PM
1

That's how I read it, but this being trp I'm not going to support grown men having imaginary friends with magical powers.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 11:41 PM
5

Did you really just criticize someone for lacking proof and then follow up with using god to support your own argument?
/r/askTRP13/12/16 11:21 PM
2

You need to embrace failing, because failing is the only way you learn. Didn't go to the gym today? Good, you failed and learned how important it is that you do it tomorrow. Got rejected by a woman? Good, you learned that you need to approach more because that's the only way to improve your game. Getting hung up on always succeeding is dangerous because when you then fail you beat yourself up so much that you keep failing and get stuck in a bad circle. We can lead you to water but we can't make …
/r/askTRP13/12/16 11:10 PM
1

Try meditation. I'm just starting out (mindfulness meditation) but it's supposed to teach you how to let go of distracting thoughts and exist in the moment.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 09:31 PM
1

Honestly I wouldn't say it happens too often, the problem is that even if it's a 1/1000 chance you're fucked financially for the next 18 years IF it happens. Seems like you learned something from the experience, which is always use your own condoms and dispose safely of it afterwards (flush or somehow contaminate the semen).
/r/askTRP12/12/16 09:23 PM
4

Answer to the last question is yes. It has very little to do with the quality of his comedy and a lot more to do with his social value. Don't try to be the funny guy, work on your value until people find you equally entertaining and funny.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:34 PM
1

EC = Endorsed Contributor. They're the senior members of the RP community, which you would know if you read the sidebar. The SMP is not limited to non-monogamous relationships with women. It constitutes every interaction you have with women whom you want to fuck, LTRs or not.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:26 PM
8

As a guy who had 2 LDRs for a combined 3 years, do not do LDRs.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:19 PM
0

Plate spinning is recommended as the optimal way of having relations to women by most ECs and vanguards. Even though you can live by rp philosophy and still have functional monogamous relationships, you're the real idiot if you think todays smp is suited for this.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:18 PM
8

Why be an insecure beta and go through her browser history?
/r/askTRP12/12/16 11:45 AM
3

Wouldn't put much thought into it with a pro, especially not the first time. For whores that are too stupid to charge for it I'd recommend The Sex God Method.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 02:09 AM
1

That would be the short version. There are some details like complimenting her on what she does for you instead of her esoteric qualities that you need to be aware of, plenty of good posts on LTRs in the main sub.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:40 AM
1

You're overthinking it. You've already realized the disney fantasy won't come true, but you wouldn't be here if you honestly wanted nothing to do with women. Sleeping with beatiful women makes men happy, and if you're honest with yourself you know it would make you happy too. Now stop complicating shit and go put in the hard work so you can be happy.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:19 AM
1

You can't go 100 % alpha and expect to sustain an LTR, she will comfort test you and you need to pass enough of these to keep her mind off the fact that you're the one getting the most out of this relationship.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:08 AM
1

Your problem (and mine too for that matter) seems to be a lack of taking action. You need to go out in the real world and apply this knowledge to life and women to see how true it really is, and only then will you internalize it. Concepts of right and wrong are human-made and therefore secondary to biological drives, and knowledge is only potential power.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 01:02 AM
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Man, you sound like me five years ago on speed so I'll give it my best shot: To attract women you need to work on yourself to the point where her biological programming deems you worthy of inseminating her. Annoying, extroverted fun-loving people might be deemed worthy because of social status/dominance, but to be honest I find these guys to be talking a lot more than they are fucking. Women will go for tall dark and handsome over those traits provided you give her plausible deniability. Preferr…
/r/askTRP12/12/16 12:34 AM
1

Oneitis is like a chronic disease that gets triggered every time you interact with this girl causing you pain. Are you stupid enough to willingly cause yourself pain? No contact.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 11:40 PM
1

You're obviously not cool with this, and because feminism we're not allowed to tell girls we are not cool with things like them talking to other guys. So you have to show her instead, and this is done by flirting with other girls or preferrably dumping her ass before you find out she's been cheating and end up depressed for 6 months.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 11:36 PM
10

Wait, so you're not even living with her at the moment? Then why the fuck are you allowing her to come over and torment you at her leisure? Forget about getting back her then, just cut her out. It's a heartbreaking realization but some parents just do not love their kids (like they should love them) and you're gonna end up ruining yourself if you spend more time thinking that you owe her anything.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 11:31 PM
2

Why do you need something good to say before approaching a girl? Is she so pretty you need to spend precious time and mental energy thinking up a sentence that is good enough for her? Perfect sentences are for your autobiography, being confident enough to keep it short and shutting the fuck up is for women.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 11:18 PM
1

If you really don't give a shit another option is to just plate her. Should give you at least a couple more weeks of steady sex while you set up new plates, then just hard next when she catches on.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 11:04 PM
19

Afaik frats are where you get to fuck hot girls and make useful future connections at american colleges. A guide on how to get into one would definitely count as sexual strategy.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 10:54 PM
3

You haven't even talked yet and you're already jealous of the guys she's potentially been with. If you try having that conversation you're gonna start it out having already lost frame, so I'd suggest you dont. When girls travel to party it's mainly so they can fuck alpha strangers without the possible social repercussions this would have at home. Your only shot is being of higher value than every guy she meets there and making her believe that she can't lie to you. A far better option is to just…
/r/askTRP11/12/16 10:49 PM
1

You can start "lifting" anywhere, I'm far from a fitness expert so I won't go into details but if you lack options you could even stick to bodyweight exercises for a while. Google it for a general idea, if you can't find anything useful I'm sure I could dig up a saved post about it later. Sorry about your loss. We may not be the most comforting bunch of guys but hopefully we can help you improve your life to the point where it feels good living again.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 08:42 PM
2

You're on the right path, as long as you stay true to it you won't need our help in 3-6 months. Don't get mad at women for preferring alphas, that's the same level of stupid as fat girls crying about guys fucking hot women. I can't find a single wrong point in your post so you'll be laughing about betas with them too in no time. And don't post pics/personal info here, BP SJW's know how to doxx and they fucking hate us.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 08:30 PM
1

Shoulder to arm, arm to waist, waist to thigh, thigh to inner thigh and inner tight to jackpot, that's the basic order. However you being new to this you can start with touching/holding her hands. If she's comfortable with this it's more often than not time to go for a kiss. Just don't get too worked up about it, if this one doesn't work out there are literally thousands of others and it only gets easier the more your lift and read/apply the sidebar. Also remember that she WANTS you to touch her…
/r/askTRP11/12/16 08:19 PM
2

You're trying too hard to make it seem like you don't care, which means you care. They can smell that shit a mile away, don't think like a man when you're deciding what women find attractive. Only thing your description should include is your height if you're over or close to six feet. Basically keep it as short as possible while mentioning some redeeming quality they can't make out from your pics.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 08:05 PM
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Your mother is a post-wall bitter bitch, I suggest you get away from her as soon as you can to avoid further mental health damage. As for your issue it depends how far you want to take it. If you depend on her for food/shelter in the foreseeable future you might just want to keep your mouth shut so you don't make it worse. Agree and amplify and constantly remind yourself that she doesn't mean shit. If you have any options other than living with her I'd lay into the bitch about how she's getting …
/r/askTRP11/12/16 06:53 PM
2

Get into a hobby/sport that will elevate your social status, connect with guys over that and build from there. "How to win friends and influence people" is great if you're wondering how you should interact with others.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 06:37 PM
1

Smirking is better than smiling, being cocky will get you laid faster than being happy.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 06:34 PM
7

Hard next. Sexually aggressive gay guys will go after you relentlessy and it's not worth a single calorie even opening your mouth to speak to them.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 06:31 PM
1

Well good job checking my post history for 2 year old pics. However this isn't a pissing contest so if you're buffer than me and you still can't get laid it just means you're somewhat socially retarded (don't worry I was too at one point). Read up on game and approach a set number of girls every day/week/month. There's no magic way to approach and game girls, it's a skill and you have to practice it to master it.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 06:20 PM
1

Then keep doing that until some girl wants to touch your big muscles and soon enough she'll want to touch your dick. Game is an important skill to learn (could read Roosh V's Bang) but if you don't somewhat look lile the kinda guy women fuck they wont fuck you.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 05:46 PM
1

If you want to keep your LTR you need to remove all evidence of communication with your side plate (ask her to hang out and delete all messages from her social media profile when you get the chance) and cut her out completely. Your game should be at a level where finding a new plate isn't too much work, and if it isn't you need to step up anyway. Abundance mentality and dread is the key to a successful LTR.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 05:43 PM
1

You literally put one foot in front of the other until you're a couple feet away and say "hi my name is _____, whats yours?". Your issue is probably that you're unattractive and have no frame so go lift and read the sidebar for 2-3 months before you start thinking about approaches.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 05:16 PM
1

Spend time working on your hobbies, hanging out with male friends or fuck other women. Cut her off all social media so she won't pop up by herself and try your best not to stalk her.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 05:12 PM
3

Don't engage her unless engaged, keep it light and superficial if she engages you. Bang her friends if you feel like it and it doesn't hurt your social status, might make her like you more but that shouldn't be your focus.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 12:31 PM
14

I don't even have to read your post to know that you should go no contact on this one. The second you get oneitis you're fucked because even though you might be able to attract her you're gonna fuck up by acting beta anyway. Ironically no contact is also the best way of making her interested again, but for the sake of your own long-term happiness you need to forget about her.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 12:17 PM
1

You do, you're just giving up instead. Women won't admit to anything because they don't want to face the consequences coming with responsibility. You can't change this. Use a text to voice tool. Get someone to help your reading skills in general. Why are you giving up so easy?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 09:11 PM
1

Hate is not the opposite of love, indifference is. Love, hate and attraction are all strong feelings and women often can't differentiate between them because they have poor emotional control. If you're not even going to read the sidebar you can fuck off back to the friendzone for all I care.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 08:28 PM
2

He's already a retard for dating her and should dump her ass. You're in fucking denial if you don't realize this and you should go read the sidebar. The last thing you do is go make it a hundred times worse by getting married.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 07:53 PM
1

Can you read english? Have you taken a look at the glossary for rp terms in the sidebar? You seem to be in active denial, or you're just a lazy fuck who's not trying hard enough. Women don't have to like you to fuck you, and it's possible to fuck women without saying a word, albeit risky. Go lift some weights and talk to some girls and you'll see.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 07:46 PM
1

They're women, that's how they work, no need to get pissed about it. Calling the sidebar useless is stupid, you either read and apply it or you go back to the friendzone. I can tell if women like me, and I'd never expect them to communicate that to me in anything but their own way. In your case they're just actually not interested, you'd know if they were because your dick would be inside them.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 07:11 PM
5

They're not interested, their behaviour probably has nothing to do with you. You can't read women for shit and you're just hamstering because you want them to like you. Lift, read the sidebar and maybe in 6 months you'll see what real interest looks like.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 05:18 PM
1

Read the sidebar 5 times and then sort posts by "top all time" and read those 5 times. Never communicate with your gf again and find a therapist/someone close to you to talk to.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 04:12 PM
2

Mutual beta buddy introduced me, didn't have an excess of girls to hang out with. Realized I had to cut them out when a girl cried rape because some dude locked me in a room with her.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/16 08:10 PM
1

Las couple sentences are exactly right, thats why you never get married.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 07:08 AM
1

You made the decision to not turn it into a LDR (good move btw) so you have to respect the fact that she will eventually move on to others no matter how much it may disgust you (I suspect thats why kino died). You could try escalating if there's no moral issue, but for sure find somewhere else to stay as the only reason she told you was to provoke and create drama. If your dicks not getting wet you certainly have no reason to be around that. Do not give her an ultimatum. Fuck her or leave, but w…
/r/askTRP09/12/16 03:00 AM
2

It's gonna feel great after the first 3-4 days, just find something else to occupy your mind with and some way to make it harder to get ahold of. And if you're not going cold turkey, it feels 10 times more rewarding to light up after a week of being productive and lifting hard instead of being stuck on autopilot and not really enjoying the high. Some red flags to look out for are her being extra loving and caring, suspicious of you cheating (projecting) or a transition from using you for sex to …
/r/askTRP09/12/16 02:26 AM
1

Well now you know so you can work on it. If you don't like attachment you should never force yourself into it any more than what feels natural to you. In this day and age plate spinning is far superior anyway so why bother. I get where you're coming from, but if you enter a relationship without regard for the womans feelings you're gonna end up acting like a dick, hurting her and ruining the relationship. Now you could argue that this is exactly what women do so why the fuck should we care, but …
/r/askTRP09/12/16 01:51 AM
1

1) You sound broken as fuck. Work on yourself, get treatment if you have real PTSD and figure out what you want before subjecting decent women to your shitty behaviour. 2) Don't do LDRs. They don't work. 3) Be more concise and stop writing the same way you speak.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:32 PM
3

Betas who make sexual advances are repulsive to women. Lift, read the sidebar and move on to the next.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:06 PM
1

This is how bitches act because they can't control how they react to their emotions. Don't be a bitch. Spending time emotionally traumatizing women is decent revenge porn, but a huge waste of time. Find another wet hole to put your dick in that won't distract you as much.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 11:00 PM
3

You probably smoke way too much, fucking stop that at once and read the sidebar before you waste your entire future being unproductive. Cannabis is fine for medicinal purposes or during weekends (alcohol is 114 times more harmful to your body while smoking can help your muscles relax after lifting). However I'd advise against anyone smoking more than 1-2 times a week unless they have a chronic illness. As for your girl, it does sound suspicious that she had to buy in secret when you usually smok…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 10:55 PM
17

I don't, only seen pictures. I'd fuck myself with a black mans dick before going to such an event.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:40 PM
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Although I agree with your points saying he deserved it is fucking retarded. We should not censor opinion, but rather seek to make them understand things from another perspective while still allowing people to make up their own minds. Censorship doesn't work, and bitches getting guys fired for having an opinion is just a good way to get bitches killed.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:38 PM
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Used to hang out with a group of feminists in my younger days, and I've never met a group of girls who are more collectively into getting manhandled in bed. Their excuse is that since they're such strong independent women they need the polar opposite in bed to keep some sort of power balance in their lives. Which actually is quite right, but instead of just admitting that women need to feel submissive they go out and get their heads smashed into a bathroom floor every other weekend just to make …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:23 PM
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Betas don't exist in a womans mind when she imagines sex/having a relationship with a man. That's why you always see them describe men in general as asshole alphas when they're talking about men they're attracted to/have had relations with.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 05:02 PM
2

No idea about that really, but if I had a chance to go to the Himalayas I wouldn't pass up on it anyway.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 04:54 PM
1

You're absolutely right, sleep state misconception sounds closer to what you're having. It's a smart move to stay clear if you know you're prone to addiction, just remember that should worry you tenfold if you're being offered sleeping pills. Ask your doctor if you can get a prescription for melatonin (natural sleep hormone in pill form) and see if that works. If not I'd take my chances with cannabis, the benefits of a good nights sleep far outweighs the chances of getting addicted seeing as it …
/r/askTRP08/12/16 02:56 PM
2

This isn't usually suggested on trp, but I'd consider using cannabis. Had trouble sleeping for 20 years, some combination of not falling asleep, nightmares or sleep paralysis (which is probably what you're experiencing). Started smoking and never looked back after experiencing what 8 hours of deep sleep every night for longer periods of time felt like. Just make sure it's a nightly thing, otherwise you risk getting addicted which will instantly kill your productivity. Doctors are probably gonna …
/r/askTRP08/12/16 01:32 PM
2

Stop shifting blame to something you have little to no control over. One of the most successful players I've ever met had a below-average looking face and really bad acne. However he had social status, frame, abundance mentality and money. These are all things that are attainable, start working towards those instead of getting hung up on shit you can't change.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 01:20 PM
1

Learn how to speak with a deeper voice, stop trying to be funny. It's a useful tool but every singly guy who promotes this as one of their redeeming qualities is a fucking clown looking for validation in their eyes. Girls only describe guys they're attracted to as funny because they need to hamster away the fact that they get horny when they're treated like shit.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 01:07 PM
3

Girls have no sense of loyalty, and even if you were to find it their social status will always be more important. They will talk shit about their best friends the second they leave the room, you just can't take anything they say seriously/personally. It's about how they're perceived in their current social setting, not about you.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 12:57 PM
1

It's comfort testing, I actually ran into the same issue this weekend. Personally I'm fed up with their bullshit so I told her she isn't entitled to my attention and has to earn it if she wants it, and that she should drop the princess-mentality at once because it disgusts me. Her response was asking me to choke her and pull her hair during sex, plus offering to cook for me and watch porn with her to get me in the mood more often. It sounds too good to be real, but that is honestly the result of…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 12:53 PM
12

Always act aloof, but no need to overdo it. It would be effective if you had 4 other HB8-9s spinning and genuinely didn't remember her, but lying about it just puts you at risk of seeming manipulative and playing hard to get instead of being hard to get. "you're the girls who lives next door right?" works fine, and if you're bold you can follow up with something along the lines of "thought so, i make it a point to notice the hot ones".
/r/askTRP08/12/16 12:39 PM
3

No contact is the only way. I bet I would still get hung up on some of my old oneitises if I hung out with them today, even after years of no contact. You have better options, it's just your brain fucking with you, don't give it ammunition.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 04:27 AM
3

The fear of rejection will be strong until you have abundance mentality, but honestly you just have to fake it and escalate no matter what your brain is telling you. Worst that can happen is that you get rejected and have to move on to the next girl, which is what you have to do in this situation anyway because you got friend-zoned. Choosing to remain in the friend-zone will also end with rejection, it just takes a lot longer and is way more painful when you realize it can't continue. Next time …
/r/askTRP08/12/16 03:22 AM
5

I thought bp examples were supposed to show us what not to do. FRs and theory posts should provide some kind of knowledge, but the only thing I expect to learn from bp examples is "do not do this shit".
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 05:21 AM
1

Generalization is a useful tool when you're trying to understand the behaviour of larger groups of people with similar traits. We don't give a shit about your personal experiences, it adds nothing with regards to helping us understand women in general. I think you should shut your fucking special snowflake dicktrap and go somewhere else for attention.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 05:47 AM
3

I'm going to put aside the bro mentality and say that there's nothing wrong with women optimizing their sexual strategy. Unfortunately you were born with a vagina and thus are incapable of knowing (or admitting) what you really want in a man. In the end you'll either leave or cheat on him because you find betas even more repulsive than I do, you just can't admit it because you're too arrogant to realize we're little more than conscious animals.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 05:17 AM
3

He seems pretty chill to me. At least he doesn't have the issue of pointlessly undermining another mans mastery of a trait that helps him get women.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/16 04:01 AM
2

Thanks for reminding me of this.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 12:21 AM
3

There's discrimination against working women in general, and I find it funny how a lot of men on here deny it. Even the CEO of a small company I worked for (14 people) knew that women are fucking worthless in certain jobs. They're not nearly as productive and their favorite thing to do is talk shit about other people which is toxic for a working environment. Doesn't help that 90 % of males today are betas and will focus on competing for her attention instead of working, however in this case I'd …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 04:41 AM
3

I can relate, however it's not much of an issue once you develop your own masculine identity. All you can do until then is to think rationally about every situation where you're exposed to this and set boundaries like a motherfucker. Contradict and piss some people off (lightly) for the simple reason of getting out of your conflict-avoiding mindset. Conflict is scary as fuck to guys like us, but it's just something that will be harder for us to deal with. Be glad you're not a short asian dude. Y…
/r/askTRP24/11/16 03:01 AM
1

Look into MDMA/LSD treatment for PTSD, as far as I know they've had great results with it. Just remember to read a fuckton about it beforehand, as you should always do with hard drugs.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 01:10 AM
0

It's necessary until you've built yourself up to the level where these things start to occur naturally. Alphas fuck enough girls to forget saving the occasional number, and usually they've got better things to do than talk to some bitch on the phone. Women instinctively know that they are intellectually worthless and that you could spend your time doing way better things than giving her constant attention. If you're not spending your time doing those things you lose value in her eyes. I've expli…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 01:04 AM
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All the links to the right on the page. Don't post anything else until you've read them all.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 10:20 PM
4

The problem is you can never trust a woman not to spermjack you. A lot of women say they don't want kids, but I bet most of them change their minds once they approach the wall. And when they do it's a lot easier for it to "just happen" than to tell you they changed their mind.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 02:21 AM
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No, I agree that they should be checked, however if shaming is the way to go should be up to you. I talk shit about single mothers, sluts and betas all the same, but I'm open-minded and understanding if they seriously ask for advice. Compassion is important when you're dealing with the strong feelings of anger and hatred that these men have, and censoring them (telling them to shut up) won't work.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 03:49 PM
2

Also, don't be scared to choose a young attractive one. When it comes to sex attractiveness usually beats experience, which a lot of insecure guys seem to look for the first time. You're paying for it anyway, so might as well get the best deal.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 03:41 PM
2

I agree with you on some level, but the thing is that we need a place where men are able to say that. While I do try telling them that they should improve so they can see the positive sides of women, I don't want them censored. Misogyni won't disappear by censoring it, because women still do horrible things to men on a daily basis. But we do not to talk about it, understand it and correct it.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 03:30 PM
2

Make a plan for how you will go through with it, let me know if there are any issues or you need someone to talk to. Report back when it's done.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 10:42 AM
2

Use condoms. Swallowing the pill isn't supposed to be comfortable, but you'll change your mind the second she touches your dick.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 07:20 PM
2

Consider a prostitute as well. Removes a lot of the pressure and makes it easier to break out of your shell.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/16 04:09 PM
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I agree, and I really hope they'll include it for next season. They did however state explicitly that they're looking for practical intelligence like fixing cars, and not intelligence like removing a virus from computers.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 04:36 PM
2

If a scientific study tells men that there are some traits they can cultivate to have sex with women they will cultivate these traits because men want sex with women. Open hypergamy has been in effect here for years already, but men have been left to themselves to figure out what actually works with women and what doesn't. I know a lot more guys who are familiar with PUA and are open to RP concepts than I know guys who would willingly marry a woman who has had more than 50 sex partners. Women do…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 10:25 AM
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You clearly understand this concept so surely you must understand that the best we can hope for is to push the pendulum as far as possible, which is what open hypergamy is. Women have been winning for decades and always will in civilized society, that doesn't mean we shouldn't be celebrating mainstream RP awareness.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 09:55 AM
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Except open hypergamy doesn't work. When men learn that emotional/monetary investment in a woman doesn't help their chances of getting laid - it even lessens it - they will stop investing. Unfortunately we can't go back until we go forward and men grow tired. Therefore, even if it comes in the form of accepting hypergamy (isn't that what we do?) I support polarization of the sexes.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 08:20 AM
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Norwegian gender scientists/feminists already fucked up once trying to talk their way around scientific evidence (Gender studies is nonsense in the sidebar), so hopefully we'll be able to shut them down before it turns into emotional rhetoric this time.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 07:27 AM
1

Are you serious? Take away those three words from your post and the message is exactly the same. You were trying to use it as ethos for understanding women better - but get this; if women knew shit about women and dating we'd all be posting to twox instead. The very essence of this subreddit is to break down female behavioural biology into components we can learn how to deal with. At least read the fucking sidebar before posting. This is a male space, and we don't need your feelings and "everyon…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 02:01 PM
1

Agree and amplify if you can pull it off, i like the line about clown porn and brownie mix from deadpool. Bonus points here because bitches get wet for ryan reynolds and have probably seen the movie, which makes it easier to switch topics. If she keeps pushing I'd go for a dead stare and say "I was abused as a child and I'm seeing a therapist for it. I don't need you to carry my problems for me and we're not going to talk about this until I want to." It's the best way to come clean while maintai…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 01:42 PM
1

You talk as if functional, emotionally balanced relationships with modern women is the norm, but if it was we wouldn't be here. And it's not like these women are doing it intentionally, it's just their programming. You may or may not have seen your ex as less of a man, but knowing about it hurt you and you suffered for it, which in most cases mean the relationship will as well. Women just can't deal with male issues, and if you make them you'll end up having a bad time in most cases. And because…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 01:23 PM
2

If there's one place we should be allowed to be angry it's here. Stoicism is great, but we are men and need to let off steam which is far safer here than in feminist society. However you're gonna come off as bitter if your entire post is a rant, which ironically you should be stoic enough to accept.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 12:11 PM
1

You're spending time on an internet forum looking for advice on how to secure this one girl, sounds like you've lost yourself in it already. A girl that is openly flirting with a lot of guys in a club is not someone you want to get oneitis for, so you should already know what to do. However, I know you'll rationalize it somehow so that you can see her again. And if that happens and you end up in a relationship, she'll cheat after a while and fuck you over emotionally. We'll be here when you come…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 11:39 AM
1

He's an authority figure, they have daddy issues and girls are especially attracted to forbidden love. A guys appearance doesn't always matter because women are attracted to the idea of the man or the relationship more than the man himself. Obviously this guy doesn't have game for shit because he needs to prey on 15 year olds. Seemingly impossible attraction like this will occur, but if your head is too far up your ass to say no to underage girls you belong in prison.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 10:14 AM
0

Well, as a woman you don't know shit except that on the internet you have to tell people that you are a woman in order to get your pussy pass. Get the fuck out.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 08:57 AM
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Let me clarify something for the morons who hit the downvote-button instead of asking why: Western society is going down the drain and there's probably not a lot we can do about it. Women won't easily go back to marriage 1.0 now that they've gotten a sweet taste of the cheap dopamine release casual sex gives you. We all know that this can't last because it makes men unhappy and angry. Unfortunately it has to get a lot worse before it gets better, and Hillary is definitely a step in the right dir…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 06:10 AM
2

She's just rationalizing why she needed to go out and fuck someone else. There's no hidden message or female conspiracy, just female biology.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 10:47 PM
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If your moral programming says that women who sleep around aren't doing anything wrong you won't see it that way. But the fact of the matter is that most people hold women to a certain standard when it comes to the number of men they can sleep with. There are many different explanations for why this is a common moral programming, for example womens ability to pair-bond being a lot more damaged by it than mens. If you really want to understand this, read the sidebar. If you want to argue over som…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 10:36 PM
1

I'd love to read more up on this. Got any links/sources?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 09:59 PM
1

Doing drugs on a regular basis is gonna fuck up your view of reality no matter what. That being said, if I could only do one drug once in my life it would be LSD. If you want to understand the world to its fullest extent the perspective LSD provides is incredibly helpful.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 09:35 PM
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It's part of their dualistic mating strategy, you only think it's wrong because it doesn't fit your moral programming. At least she's honest about it for now, but as her options dwindle you can be sure as hell she'll shut up about fucking other dudes on the side.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 04:49 PM
2

You might want to consider a career in sales.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 12:15 AM
1

Not sure if I've ever dealt with a BPD, but for manipulative women in general I always run heavy dread. If they know you've got options they are more inclined to behave so they won't lose you.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 03:54 PM
3

I would actually love to see how someone would attract women looking like cancer boy.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 03:41 PM
1

Let me remind you that sorting through user submissions (especially those outside trp) is widely regarded as beta behaviour. Ad homimem is a feminist tactic, if you can't properly discuss the topic at hand your time is better spent reading about it.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 09:48 AM
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So because he was more successful than us prior to finding TRP we should berate him instead of setting him on the correct path? This guy is clearly depressed, in that state you could be fucking 10s all day and it still wouldn't make a difference. He's got most of his shit together, but he's still suffering. I don't care if you're angry, poor, ugly or short; it doesn't give you the right to kick a man while he's down. If you're in the anger stage you have better things to do than give people shit…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 09:48 PM
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Don't patronize him, as fucked as this world is some men still value meaningful relationships with women. I've been in serious relationships and I've fucked around, and I can safely say that I will never be happier on my own than I am in a relationship. Swallowing the pill while you know this is fucking hard, and I wouldn't blame anyone for punching out when they realize todays women are too fucked up to deal with. You can be the most perfect human being in the world, some people just don't find…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 08:11 PM
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That's true, but women can still spin plates. They might fuck a tattooed drug dealer, a rich guy and a regular guy they feel comfortable with in the same week. Depending on their mood they can change up who they fuck day-to-day, but it's still plate spinning.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 12:32 PM
8

That's good advice, no need to put yourself down.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 11:55 AM
1

and therefore you're just fine as you are No. This isn't about "be yourself", it's about getting so good at game that you don't even have to think about it.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 08:35 PM
2

Fuck that lazy shit. This isn't buzzfeed.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 11:42 AM
2

As long as they shut up about being women and provide insightful posts it's fine. I'd prefer if they stayed in rpw, but as long as they don't state it is a way to gain attention it's not like you would know anyway.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 08:26 PM
2

I meant as a way to get texts from other girls while on a date. Creating fake contacts to send yourself texts seems unnecessary, however if you have zero female associates it might be worth trying out. If you know the power of pre-selection and abundance mentality you know it's worth it. And on the note of actions like these being pathetic; it doesn't fucking matter as long as she doesn't know about it. Practicing game in itself is pathetic because it indicates that you're not naturally good wit…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 07:46 PM
2

It's almost worth it considering how effective pre-selection is. However, if you don't have any plates it seems easier to just text a couple female friends/associates without going into detail about the texts.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 06:47 PM
-1

I might have been too hasty in my response to him, but my point still stands. Theredpill IS the truth, and you choose whether to accept it or not. How you apply it to your own life is a personal matter, however I choose to avoid going into this with regards to all the new guys in the sub, which was basically the point of my post. We, as human beings, are prone to choosing the opinion of the many over the correct opinion. If we are left to make our own choices, we let others make them for us. The…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:40 PM
-2

No. This is compromising, and the truth does not compromise. You might have been able to do so personally, but don't you even fucking dare encourage other guys to do the same. TRP is not "take what you need and leave the rest", you swallow the fucking pill or you keep masturbating. Taking what you want and leaving the rest is what ruined society (Christianity) in the first place, we're not about to make the same mistakes.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 09:55 AM
2

Have you even read the fucking sidebar? SEXUAL STRATEGY IS AMORAL. THE FEMALE, NOT THE MALE, DETERMINES ALL THE CONDITIONS OF THE ANIMAL FAMILY. There are plenty of subs available if you want to empower men as a group. We are not one of them. We are here to fuck women. If you're not, get the fuck out. And if you ever get cofused as to what TRP is about, read the fucking sidebar again, it's explained pretty clearly there.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 09:36 AM
0

Actually it's a beta trait. Alphas don't give a fuck, they take what they want.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 01:32 PM
1

Nowhere in the subreddit description does it say "honest discussion about women". That's just a part of TRP, but if it's your main reason for being here I suggest you find or create another subreddit. And as long as you don't have several 10's on lock or are married to one with a pre-nup, you can always do better.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 01:30 PM
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When I started to realize the true nature of women I got furious. Not surprisingly, this is also when I started fucking them, and the combination of a pissed reformed beta and decent pull never turns out well. My routine was pulling them in, fucking them for three weeks while making them think this was gonna be long term, and then breaking their hearts. It was a complete fucking carnage and basically destroyed my social value to the point where I should probably move. This is the reason I want t…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 11:53 AM
1

To put it simple: If you're not here to have sex with women, GET THE FUCK OUT.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 10:38 AM
0

Shitting in the woods isn't something we crave, we're here to have sex with women. And if you prefer being controlled by a feminized society that doesn't give a shit about you, BP is a couple miles in the other direction.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 10:25 AM
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What annoys me is when guys come on here saying certain traits or actions aren't TRP/alpha just because they don't agree with them. Guess what? You're not supposed to agree with it, because the truth of how the world works is pretty fucked up compared to what we were taught. I usually don't fuck girls who are in relationships, both because I wouldn't agree with cheating (or contributing to it) personally, and because the risk is too high where I live. However, this is a personal decision, and I …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 07:46 PM
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And this is supported by more than just TRP anecdotes. There were some scientific studies posted here a while ago that I'm too lazy to Google that suggest that women are massively more likely to orgasm and/or get pregnant if they have a significant other and are doing it with a man who isn't him. I'm thinking this is a direct link to hypergamy, they finally managed to upgrade which leads to their biological instincts going into overdrive. They want to do everything they can to keep this upgrade …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 10:20 PM
12

The red pill is amoral and anyone who thinks otherwise hasn't swallowed it. Way too many beta bitches come here thinking they can use this sub purely for self-improvement and try fitting it into their own moral narrative. They need to realize that TRP truths don't give two shits about what you think is right and what you think is wrong. This is how the world works and you either do what's necessary to get to the top or you get the fuck out.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 10:11 PM
4

Don't knock it 'til you try it.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 10:07 PM
1

I got that was what he meant, just wondering where he had it from seeing as I have never heard that term defined that way before.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 01:14 PM
1

If you need definitive answers to every single case I'm guessing you haven't internalized as much as you think. It took me reading the sidebar and several top posts 2-3 times until it started falling into place, so don't give up. However, if you want is to have sex with women all you have to do is lift, be playful and be dominant (especially in bed). Won't turn you into a player overnight, but it works if you can live with sex every couple months at least.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 09:44 AM
4

Got a source for that? Every single post I've seen that talks about soft nexting describes it as 3-5 (or 7 in this case) days of NC. What you're describing is more what I would call relapsing on a hard next.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 09:35 AM
1

I disagree. People need to realize that game is a big part of TRP, and not just a branch of MGTOW with truths about women.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 04:41 PM
1

Search this subreddit and the main sub for "text game" and sort by "top". You'll probably find everything you need there, including some links to more extensive guides. I'm also in a country where the culture is more introverted, however I rarely bother with text game. Going out and meeting girls means you can devote less time to them and still have a great time if it doesn't work out. Also, if you get the date you'll know how to act around her which makes success more likely.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 01:04 PM
-1

You got a point, and unfortunately I don't have the knowledge to go into any lengthy discussion about it. I'm just speculating where this drive to be the best in your field comes from, and though it isn't directly related to women I'm sure most guys have a desire to feel like the top dog.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 03:01 AM
2

It's not arbitrary, look up the "pareto principle" and check out the OKCupid study posted above. Of course the numbers aren't completely fixed, but it's still a good principle to use for posts such as the OP. Statistics, studies and principles shouldn't be taken in such a literal sense to work out the hard numbers, they're more like guidelines you follow to understand a concept.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 02:51 AM
0

No, PUA mostly advocate game and not much else. While game is an important part of TRP, it's more extensive than PUA. Maybe not consciously, but their biological drive to be the top dog so that they can procreate as much as possible definitely has something to do with women.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 01:38 AM
3

It's not imaginary, the pareto principle applies to gender dynamics and this is common knowledge to anyone familiar with TRP (hence this post). Being in the top percentage of men is what being alpha means, read the definition before you start making up your own.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 01:31 AM
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If you don't care about reaching the top 20 % in order to have sex with women (or preserve a relationship) you don't belong in TRP. This isn't some bullshit self-improvement subreddit just for the sake of mental masturbation, the goal is to be successful with women.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 12:50 AM
4

I'm a salesman, and I've found game and sales to be remarkably similar in some ways. There was a really good post about the similarities here a few months back, but unfortunately I haven't been able to find it. If you have to opportunity to get into a sales job I would highly recommend it. Most people aren't socially competent enough to do well in sales, but it's also great practice. I go around getting rejected for about 2 hours a day, losing money, so why would I care if some bar slut rejects …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 03:15 AM
1

I wasn't apologizing or making excuses for my main point, I was clarifying what I meant by "natural alpha". Any experienced member of RP with half a brain would understand that, but these guys didn't so it was necessary to explain further for the message not to get lost. I didn't make up alpha 1.0 and alpha 2.0 as a plea, those are already terms within RP.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 09:08 PM
1

The problem is that it's dangerous to change a definition to fit your own narrative. You're not supposed to change the world to fit your own idea of what TRP is about, you're supposed to change yourself to fit into a world full of RP truths. Sure enough definitions of a term change with how it is used, but what will not change is how women react to men's behavior on a biological level. The current definition of alpha fits into what women are looking for in a man, and therefore we should not try …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 12:57 AM
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Actually, this is the base definition: Being the highest ranked or most dominant individual of one's sex. However, I agree that selfishness is a great way to achieve that status.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 12:06 AM
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Context is important, but that does not mean there are not universal alpha traits. Being socially and physically dominant is going to get you pretty far in most situations, except maybe among PUAhaters and other omegas. Not that it matters, because you don't want to associate with those people anyway.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 12:03 AM
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Why would I challenge an opinion I agree with when it's getting me nowhere? I used a hypothetical situation to explain why he wasn't scared of making that statement, not implying I was scared of offending him. Don't make assumptions just to make others look like pussies, it doesn't lead to any constructive discussion.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:04 PM
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I actually agree with the guy, which is why it didn't go any further, but that's beside the point. The point is that he didn't care whether we were offended by his statement or not.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 07:49 PM
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It was necessary for the message to come across clearly, not as a means of defending myself. If I wanted to do that I could edit my original post or go back on calling him alpha, which I didn't. I don't give a fuck about whether or not people agree that one particular dude is alpha, I do however care about people getting the message I was trying to deliver.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 07:48 PM
1

Great post, I remember now reading it when it was posted but guess I couldn't recall it. Seeing all the prefacing excuses here makes me think people need to be reminded of it though.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 03:24 PM
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Spot on. I was considering typing this out myself, it's kind of sad how basic RP concepts like this draws attention away from the main point.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 03:02 PM
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It's an entertaining thought, although I don't see it becoming relevant in our time. The question is how it would compare to dread game, which is already pretty effective without the risk of men going too far/creating resentment. I'm ok with being slapped if I'm way out of line, it sends a stronger message than words ever could. Most people however are far too scared of the concept of violence to accept it.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 05:18 AM
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In a society where violence wasn't as frowned upon, TRP would advocate the use of violence to achieve alpha status. Seems like society has been emasculated to the point where even TRP subscribers deem it a negative trait. A lot of guys don't seem to understand that violence is not a beta trait in itself, but going to jail sure as hell will keep you from gaining status in society. Those who discourage generalizing do not seem to realize that if they don't even possess the mental capacity to under…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 04:49 AM
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Thanks for the grammar input, english is not my native language so I appreciate all the feedback I can get. I may have put too much weight on the fact that he was prone to using physical violence. My understanding of natural alphas are that they are very dominant beings, and winning fights makes you dominant. However, natural alphas won't get very far in today's society, as they get locked up or drop out of school and become drug addicts.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 01:48 AM
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Hey, looks like you're getting the hang of it!
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 01:43 AM
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I'm not big on labels, but I'd say that guy was an alpha 1.0. They're naturals because they don't give a fuck and don't cater to women like betas do. They're often stupid, short-sighted and have a tendency to use violence to solve differences with others. This isn't the kind of alpha TRP teaches you to become, but you can't deny that they're dominant beings and pull women when they want to. I'd advice against going into lengthy, heated arguments with most people. Just don't be afraid of saying s…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 01:41 AM
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To be honest I don't think TRP needs to be dumbed down by mainstream language. It's growing way too fast already, and with the use of mainstream language newer members will only half-ass attempts to understand the core concepts before they start posting. I've already seen the general tone of the subreddit change slightly in the year I've been here, and if we go too far down that path the subreddit will lose it's point.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:18 AM
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You have to actively fight it. Every time someone asks you to do something, think about what you get out of this it. If you get nothing out of it, don't do it. Tell people "no" just to practice not being their bitch.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 01:37 PM
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You might be somewhere between denial/anger, which imo. is the most tormenting stage. Just keep reading, lifting and gaming girls until it passes.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 01:15 PM
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Who says you're a bad guy for keeping her at a distance? You? Her? Your/her friends? The only time I would care about something like this was if it kept me from fucking her hot friends, but you don't sound like the kind of guy who's thinking about that right now anyway. Get over this being good/bad shit, there's actions that benefit you and actions that don't. TRP isn't about being a fucking saint, it's about doing what is best for you.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 11:18 AM
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Look up "The five stages of Red Pill", it might help you understand why you're feeling this way.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:31 AM
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Not all of us want that. There are RP ways to do it, but for most of us it's way too much risk for the potential reward. Maybe you should check out /r/marriedredpill
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 12:10 AM
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To me it seems that the feminists won. Try posting "Feminism is destroying the core family unit by optimizing female sexual strategy" on your facebook wall and see how many positive or even curious replies you get. Most likely people will rip you to pieces and despise you, because feminism is the dominant idea, it won the war.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 01:10 AM
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Because that's always what has happened throughout history. Societies that valued the core family and monogamous relationships survived, while the others perished. Feminism ran rampant in Rome right before it fell, men sought the company of other men instead of women and they even tried putting a bachelor tax on them (spoiler alert: it didn't work). A lot of things in our society points to us going the same way. Feminism is destroying the core family, birth rates are dropping, divorce rates are …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 12:51 AM
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I think it's incurable because deep down human beings long for a sense of "freedom", whether or not they realise (most don't) how bad this might be for society as a whole. Prosperity leads to movements such as feminism which longs so bad for freedom that it can't even see what it destroys. Most people who would agree society was more functional some decades ago are religous, and they only think this way because "God" without any deeper understanding of the matter. TRP is a bitter pill to swallow…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 12:27 AM
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Are you fucking kidding me? "Tell her how you feel" is like an answer straight out of r/relationships, and a horrible one at that. The only way a girl cares about how you feel is about yourself, she is NEVER going to give you points for finding her attractive/interesting. OP: The only advice I can give with the information provided is: talk to more girls. If there's one specific girl you're going after you're doing it wrong, and if you talk too much to your girls you don't have enough of them. Y…
/r/askTRP28/10/14 01:48 PM
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I was just offering a solution to not coming off as awkward, not so much raising your social status to the point where women come talk to you. Beginners should definitely approach, but not to the point of desperation. Making your presence and social status known without giving them attention lays a decent foundation for a succesful approach, intentionally ignoring them does not.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 03:18 AM
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Thanks for clarifying, and I do see your point. Stating to your LTR that you do whatever the fuck you want might be taking it a step too far, but I still believe it was a shit test. This exact situation has been around for as long as beta men have been in relationships with women. They want you to be in control, and even if you're making the decisions they'll throw shit tests like this to see if you give in. She doesn't know what she wants, she clearly stated that, so the only point in her menti…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 02:54 AM
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You'll likely come off as "awkward." That's why you need to have guys around you that you can have fun with without the company of women. There's a big difference between five guys awkwardly sitting at a bar not talking to women, and five guys lauging and having fun. If they realise there's nothing wrong with your social skills they'll have a harder time explaining why you aren't talking to them, which serves as a subtle but effective negging strategy in itself.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 02:08 AM
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I'm not sure if I understand, maybe because I'm not a native speaker. Care to elaborate on those points?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 01:53 AM
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That was a shit test and you failed it. A better response would be "Sure we do honey, because I know what I want, but if you come up with something specific let me know." Could also do a dread version with "Yeah, I'm the kind of guy who does what he wants, and if you don't want to I could always find someone else to do those things with." Those might not be the best possible answers, but they're better than the one you gave. If you want to get good at shit tests, write down every single one she …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 12:19 AM
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I don't. I live in a fairly feminized country, and I've been approached a couple times. However, it's rare and those girls are pretty hit or miss anyway. If she's "strong" and "independent" enough to approach you chances are you want nothing to do with her.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 11:10 AM
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Show, don't tell. It might not hurt, but until they actively seek out this information themselves they aren't ready.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 12:12 PM
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My thoughts exactly. OP won the battle, but will lose the war. What I discovered during my time among the feminists is that they don't want equality at all, it's just an excuse to put women in a better position in more areas. When you present them with an example of true equality they'll hamster up some reason for why they need certain advantages now. "Men have had priveliges for thousands of years" is a common one. You MIGHT be able to survive fucking a feminist under a fake name if you wipe yo…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 11:48 PM
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There's 2 things to remember: 1. Girls "friends" are like you would consider a casual acquaintance as a guy. You see them around, invite them to social stuff, etc, but you don't know them that well. That's consistently been the best for me. If this is how we define girl friends then I have plenty, however I don't consider someone a friend unless I actively contact them because I enjoy spending time with them. Still, good points, I just keep strict rules because five years in every girls friendzo…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 11:14 PM
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Good points. If I ever meet a woman who is interesting enough (I'm still young) to keep as a friend I'll give her a chance. I'm a lot more careful with women though, as they'll generally backstab you the second you don't provide them with what they expect.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 11:09 PM
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If you're getting something out of the friendship The problem (for betas) is that with most women you will never get something out of a friendship except the occasional underwear snap or an invitation to a party so you can clean up afterwards. Unless you're having sex with her, women are worthless as friends. When I meet a new woman my first goal is to have sex with her, simply because it puts me at a great advantage. I've already gotten what I want from her so I don't really need anything else,…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 09:30 PM
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Depending on how old he is you could try throwing a couple RP articles his way. He needs something to do while he drinks anyway, and it might provide him with a bit of hope.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 12:45 PM
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As far as I know TRP is not in support of real equality. After a bit of reading it becomes pretty clear that men are simply better leaders, we are the workers and creators in society and should at least be a notch above women. However, I highly value the traditional roles of women in a society, and it wouldn't function without them. The problem is that there are so few women left who will accept a man as her leader and accept her role as a woman.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 12:56 PM
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Depends on the situation. If I can take them I let them calmly know not to fuck with me, if they dont stop a push or a hand to the back of their heads usually shuts them up. I prefer avoiding full physical confontations but that's the only language some people speak. One thing is for sure, I never raise my voice at someone. If I can't take them in a fight it gets a little more complicated. If you have the upper hand socially you can ridicule them which usually should make them stop. If there's j…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 06:22 AM
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Those are shit tests, they just focus more on your posessions instead of your social status/intentions. Treat them accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 10:22 PM
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Read up on and practice text game. Until then just keep it short, sexual and mostly for logistics. I've got the same problem, if I can meet up with them I can easily make it work, but I've got more important things to do than texting/messaging girls all day. Just gotta get that text game down.
/r/trpGAME10/06/14 11:08 PM
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There are countless stories of men finding "the one" and then getting fucked later. It might not happen at once, you could be happy for 7-10 years before she takes off with your kids, half you shit and half your paycheck every month. I'm not saying you should dump this girl at once. However, even if you don't feel the need to practice TRP right now read up on TRP for LTRs and marriage. If you feel the relationship starting to go downhill you know what to do. Taking notes of your own behaviour an…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 08:33 AM
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Believing your own lies makes them seem true to others. In addition to this most men know not to argue with women for precisely this reason; they will never give in. That's why dread game/ignoring them is much more effective, make them feel like they've done something wrong instead of going into battle with a giant, vicious hamster.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 06:01 AM
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I'm not against equality, however, if equality is going to split families apart, and keep men from living happy lives, and make women into tyrant-worshiping monsters, then yes. Equality is something I am against. People are so hung up on equality being something good that they just can't see the negative effects. There's a reason we have social hierarchies, alphas and betas, leaders and followers. Equality takes away our incentives to be great, caters to the weak and will put a stop to human pro…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 01:11 PM
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Look at birth-rates for western countries. Women in today's society are horrible, and men don't want to marry them or have their kids. Instead they lock themselves up in small apartments watching netflix and jerking off to porn while working minimum-wage jobs. There's no reason for men to be productive anymore, which will lead to the downfall of western society.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 01:04 PM
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One of the downsides is that you can never lose control. You can never get too angry or sad, too drunk or too excited. When a dark triad loses control there WILL be collateral damage, and they will often damage themselves. I have a bad habit of getting too drunk. I've crushed people emotionally, hurt them physically, alianated friends and put my close friends in a bad position. If you can't maintain control you shouldn't go dark triad.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 11:16 AM
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Oneitis is a cruel disease.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 09:21 AM
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Never spend money on a woman (at least not visibly) before you have sex with her. Kudos to her for being honest about wanting a relationship though, if you're not after the same I'd show her the same respect.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 09:17 AM
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I'm sure this is great for those who want to take it even further, the thing is that most of us just don't give a shit. Society fucked a lot of redpillers over, and we don't owe it shit. I want to get big, make money and fuck girls. Society can rot for all I care, and as fucked as it is I think modern society needs to be destroyed to make room for a better one.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 06:46 AM
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MOST guys on TRP don't want to get married and prefer just fucking around/plate spinning. However, if you're out to get married I'd say you're a fucking moron for not respecting her choice. Male-female relations should work as they did before with monogamous marriages, but they don't, so we just fuck around instead.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 08:39 PM
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I disagree because you're redefining a term that we already have a definition of. I agree that being macho and being apha is not necessarily synonymous (though they often are), but neither is it about being the best version of yourself. You need others to be alpha, because you need to lead them and you need chicks to suck your dick. Often it correlates with the traits you mentioned, but I think it's self-explainatory that you need those traits to move on to being an alpha. Personally I don't giv…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:05 PM
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He's not asking any questions, he's trying to redefine the word alpha into some feel-good bullshit about improving yourself.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 05:29 PM
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Women will never communicate directly with you, act accordingly. Staying the fuck away from post-wall women is a good move.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 04:59 PM
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You need to focus on a specific thought/reality, repeat it in front of the mirror, and internalize that thought. I used three different ones: Human beings generally suck and I am better than most of them People don't really give a shit about you, they care about themselves In 200 years my very being and every one of my actions will be forgotten, so it doesn't really matter The first one may not work for you, but it's what I used in tenth grade to get over my anxiety. The last two are better beca…
/r/trpGAME05/06/14 01:11 PM
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An alpha male is the leader of a social circle or the most attractive/popular guy at a social event. No need to complicate this, you know him when you see him. Guys who obsess over being alpha are often the complete opposite, so I'd advise you to not get hung up on these labels.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 12:55 PM
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I guess the fucked up part is that they want us to be alphas without conciously employing the correct strategy for this. They want things to "just happen" because if anyone makes a concious move there's no "magic". Good example by the way, though I think that's actually a very good move on their part. My point was that there ARE specific traits you can acquire that will make women want to fuck you. TRP tells you about these traits and how to internalize them. If you're in the angry phase I'd sug…
/r/askTRP05/06/14 12:49 PM
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You're getting way to deep with the interpretations here. Orbiter = Guy who gives girl attention without sex Plate spinner = Guy who has sex with several girls consistently Whether your plates can fuck other dudes or not is up to you. You can be alpha as fuck but a 10 will never approach you unless you are a celebrity. Take what you want, DO NOT expect someone to give it to you because you think you are McFratbro Alphadick.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 12:41 PM
3

Christianity at the core is RP as fuck. Those girls aren't christian as far as I'm concerned.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 12:29 PM
3

Read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 11:56 AM
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The thing is you have to see the difference between concious and unconcious manipulation. Girls manipulate A LOT more than guys, but it's either unconcious or they rationalize it in some way. PUAs are concious manipulators, and succesful ones are able to beat women in their own field of battle. This scares the shit out of them, hence the shaming. There are a lot of reasons why a woman would want to spend time with you, and if you can't see them you should re-read the sidebar. The whole self-impr…
/r/askTRP05/06/14 10:10 AM
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In RP theory and my own experience, no, they don't. They will rationalize their behaviour (I'm so tired of him, he doesn't turn me on, he's changed) until they believe that it's ok to cheat. A woman who cheats doesn't love you anymore and she will not hesitate to destroy you. As for guys I'd say it depends on the guy and the situation. If they know about the relationship beforehand they are less likely to feel guilty, if they don't then they might when they find out. I haven't felt guilt in year…
/r/askTRP05/06/14 10:03 AM
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It will seen unnatural at first, but it takes practice. You have to find the right moments where you can respond in a witty/sexual manner, not just force it on her.
/r/trpGAME05/06/14 09:39 AM
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I'm here to read about the sexual market on how I can adapt to have the most/best sex possible. I'm not out to improve myself moral-wise, so I'm not going to limit myself by never lying. It's a useful tool when applied correctly, and you should never assume that someone is honest with you.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 06:44 AM
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I think you're underestimating the manipulative nature of women. If they see you as a threat to their agenda they will do anything to crush you.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 10:17 PM
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Do not give two shits about people saying your stories are fabricated or if you are controversial. If we can learn something from your post, it's good. If we can't, it's bad. This sub should be straight-talk only, complicating things to comply to how others feel about what you say is bluepill behaviour. I have to say that I've had the same thoughs, but never relapsed. Sometimes you just get tired of approaching, entertaining and fucking these girls. Not all of us have the energy to keep this up …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 01:05 PM
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Something I learned is that you should never EVER let females take over your social circle. They'll rip it to shreds with drama and destabilizing the male relationships. I've seen it countless times, girls come into a social group and suddenly all the guys feel like they have to one-up each other. They'll create drama to make the whole group focus on them instead of the goals of the group. Having a few females around for pre-selection is always nice, but be sure that they are the timid ones inst…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:54 PM
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I can get chicks without being drunk and I can drink without trying to get chicks. I will take what I want to maintain the level of happiness I am comfortable with, and partying/hooking up is part of that. Actually, I'm not sure what I fully understand what you're getting at, are you saying that I should drop everything related to women and focus on myself? If so then that's MGTOW, not RP.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:47 PM
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Not sure exactly, I think they just tried to convince her to stay. I have somewhat of a reputation with those people, and it doesn't always work to my advantage.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 09:42 AM
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I agree that you shouldn't have to drink to have good game, but I'm merely stating a fact. I have better game when I'm somewhat drunk, and internalizing TRP improved upon this. My next step should definitely be to land more girls when sober, I just can't bring myself to bother if I get what I want when I go out.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 12:39 AM
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Anti Slut Defense. Girls don't want to come off as sluts to their friends/guys so they will be hesitant to sleep with you even if they actually want to. It can also be seen as a shit test.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 07:46 PM
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Getting a burner is good advice if you're in a large city and have a decent flow of pussy, maybe I'll consider it if I ever put enough effort into getting that many women. I agree about moving on and not closing doors, unfortunately for me I'm really good at the last part. If I knew 100 % that I would get laid by breaking RP rules of course I would do it, we're here to improve not blindly follow an ideology. However, when you know for a fact that you won't get laid by accepting that she puts up …
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 07:43 PM
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I guess she asked someone who was left at the party, they all knew me pretty well. At that point you can say pretty much anything you want, but knowing the signs and what to say before escalating takes practice. She complained that drinking red wine made her teeth red, to which you could respond "Is it weird that makes me want to kiss you even more?". She's already into you, so you just need something of an opener so that she doesn't get surprised and recoils.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 07:13 PM
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we drove away I had a friend drive me.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 06:57 PM
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Getting around in my town at night is impossible unless you have someone to drive you, which I did and she didn't. You're right though, for most alphas that would probably be an easy lay, I've just never experienced such a clear example of dread game destroying ASD with three cockblocking friends. For the most part I don't exchange phone numbers with girls, if I'm not getting what I want from a girl when I want it I just move on.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 06:19 PM
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I think they're great for inspiration, but be careful not to apply them directly. There are a lot of other factors involved that led up to her actually being attracted to me. However, if I had given her a hug and asked for her phone number I'm almost certain she wouldn't have fucked me that night.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 06:13 PM
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I'm not sure if it was the right decision, but I knew the only reason she didn't initially go with me was because of her friends. We were also still out driving, if I had been home already then no fucking way. I'll admit that when I'm drunk it gets hard to maintain frame, but that's because I'm still learning. Once you internalize the idea that it turns women off it should be easy, but 18 years of bluepill programming doesn't just go away like that.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 05:42 PM
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Actions speak louder than words, and because women know this you can use it to game pretty hard. You talk like a sensitive beta but act like a complete alpha and basically giving her the best of both worlds, but I found this just ended with women getting way too attached.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 09:45 AM
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If you're not going to play the game you have nothing to do in this sub. You're not wrong, you just added an "if" to my statement which makes it redundant.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 06:19 AM
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Good post, but I really disagree with the last part. It's not especially RP to just do whatever the fuck you want, then we would all be playing xbox and watching porn all day which is way more comfortable. TRP is about playing the game and winning it, and social media is a tool that can be used to further your agenda. If you are a social and interesting person girls will pick up on this, and pictures with hot girls really helps your pre-selection. I agree that you shouldn't feel bad because othe…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 05:35 AM
1

Talking and interacting with girls isn't even the hardest part for most guys, it's talking to girls in a sexual manner and getting them to bed. The blue pill has them thinking they always have to act nice and respectful to women, which simply doesn't work.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 12:52 PM
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Been a couple years since my beta days, but I'll give it a shot. The simple fact that you don't know any better actually makes it OK for the most part. You go out of your way to please people, and their single act of being grateful makes you feel good even though they would never do the same thing for you. When you take care of other people's problems, pay for their beers and can always be counted on for emotional support, you feel like this kind of superhero that can fix everything. You've stil…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 06:20 AM
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Just want to say that I'm sorry you're being downvoted. Even though you disagree with TRP you are able to discuss in a calm and rational manner, which is usually appreciated on this sub. Don't let this one time keep your from posting more if you're interested in the subjects we discuss.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 06:10 AM
1

Aspergers can be used to your advantage when keeping a TRP mindset, but it might also prove to be difficult depending on your specific situation. As long as you don't whine to her about any sensory issues you might have you should be good.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 12:39 PM
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Seems to me like she didn't mind it, which is great because in my book that's a pretty dominant move. Reading into a woman's actions is smart, discussing with her what you've noticed is not.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 12:37 PM
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My mistake, I may have confused your post with another. Then again, if you live with her you're under a lot of the same restraints as far as dread game goes. You should know what she wants and give it to her, and that's exactly what TRP teaches you. If you're leaving and you want a kiss you demand it, you don't ask and you don't whine about her not doing it. If she doesn't comply to your demand you leave, and when you get back you act as if nothing happened. She's going to feel bad about not giv…
/r/askTRP22/05/14 12:32 PM
1

Obviously she's trying to please you, which is a good sign. Good behaviour should be rewarded, preferrably in the form of an extra hard pounding.
/r/askTRP22/05/14 12:05 PM
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Yes, it is possible, but you have to build attraction. Taking her to events and showing her that you're a fun and resourceful guy doesn't hurt. Even if she does fuck other guys while on vacation she's gonna need someone to have fun with and fuck when she gets back. If you're having trouble maintaing frame you should re-read the sidebar of the main sub, and also some of the top posts. You won't have time to internalize the information in three weeks, but it will help. As for the non-constructive …
/r/askTRP22/05/14 12:02 PM
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It's possible, but it won't be easy. Three months is a really long time in hot girl-time, but if you're going to be around her when you get back I don't see why you shouldn't try. The best tip I can give you is that you need to have amazing sex with her. Watch some instructional videos on cunnilingus, try out different positions, find out what she likes. If she feel comfortable with you in bed and knows that you will give her great orgasms, chances are she will want to reconnect. Also, for the l…
/r/askTRP22/05/14 11:23 AM
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Marriage is not my area of expertise, but I'll have a go: You should be the one going over to her to kiss her when she leaves. Obviously she wants a kiss goodbye, but if she has to ask for it or go as far as to demand it, that's gonna cost you some points. You're lucky she's actually vocal about this instead of keeping quiet about it and making a big fuss later. Women expect you to please them without reciprocating on even terms back, it's just too bad you gave her a ring before realising this. …
/r/askTRP22/05/14 11:12 AM
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Agreed. Awkward people tend to think silence is really uncomfortable. As long as your conversation generally has a good flow, a couple of silent pauses can be used to your advantage. Showing her that you're not uncomfortable even in silence when meeting a person, and using it to escalate, is a pretty good move.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 10:27 AM
1

I would appreciate it if you would explain why you disagree with my statement instead of simply insulting me.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 10:49 PM
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Is there a line? Definitely. Did you cross it? Definitely. TRP and its teachings should not be brought up or discussed outside TRP, unless you find a guy who is also reading. I'd say you got off pretty easy, but you should absolutely cool down a bit until you can walk the line between not taking shit from girls and not coming off as a sexist.
/r/trpGAME20/05/14 07:16 AM
1

Snapchat can be a great asset if you're constantly out doing fun/interesting things. Spamming people's facebook walls seems like attention-whoring, but it's acceptable to put up pictures on snapchat or send it to your targets. Building status through showing that you're an active and fun guy is good for pre-selection and maintaining interest, just be sure to not overdo it by sending pictures of your dinner or your dogs. Also, if you play your cards right, nudes.
/r/trpGAME20/05/14 07:05 AM
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As far as I know the bible is pretty redpill as it is. Be aware that a lot of people will have a kneejerk-reaction to the redpill, and showing him the benefits through action might be better than trying to convince him with words. If you follow the teachings of TRP and he follows the teachings of the bible you will find that you agree on a lot of matters without having to force opinions down his throat. A huge part of religion is also following blindly without any explanation as to why you shoul…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 06:46 AM
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What I meant was that people don't seem to care what's right or wrong anymore, as long as their actions benefit them and they can feel good about it. If they do something wrong they just rationalize their behaviour until everyone else goes along with it. How would you put this? And thanks for your input, as a non-native speaker I sometimes express my opinion using the wrong words, and I appreciate all feedback so that I can make myself as clear as possible.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 06:40 AM
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A man with a certain level of conscious thought knows that fucking a taken woman is amoral, but so is sexual strategy and TRP in general. However, if it makes him happy I'd say it doesn't really matter, in a society where amorality runs rampant you need to look after yourself and you can't really afford to care for the beta who doesn't know how to please his woman. I'd say you should never feel bad for fucking a taken woman, it's a personal choice for both you and her and Mr. Beta knew the risks…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 12:38 PM
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It's possible, but with today's women mainly being spoiled entitled shitheads, it's like TRP on hardcore mode. There's also no guarantee that she won't cheat, divorce rape you, steal the kids and make the rest of your life miserable. My advice would be to look for women in non-western countries, and preferrably not get married in the US.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 11:41 AM
1

Find group activities to participate in, catch up with old friends, get drunk and go out to pick up girls. Pretty much everything is better than wasting 8+ hours a day watching netflix.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 09:39 AM
3

You're right, dark triad is not for regular people, and your take on the traits will be a lot more reasonable for most. Maybe I'm more extreme than most, but after being beta for so long I had to go to the other extreme to find a balance between them, which it seems that you have accomplished. The fact that it's hollywood-esque really just makes it that more effective. Women are constantly reminded through media that they should be attracted to assholes that turn into good guys, and they actuall…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 07:54 AM
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I was pretty much in your exact position, except I didn't stop until all of my social circles were almost completely nuked. Might not have been the best decision, but personally I'm better off with the few good friends I have. The thing about being a sociopath/psycopath is that you have to be good enough that no one will figure you out. An effective strategy is to act different towards different people, sometimes completely changing your behaviour and putting up multiple "layers" of your persona…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 06:56 AM
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Being with high quality girls is The Dream for a lot of men out there. The problem is that you don't realize it's just that, a dream, until you actually live it. Constantly having to talk to girls, set up dates, send text messages etc. gets exhausting after a while. Three years ago I was a complete beta, never even dreaming of landing a hot girl, a year later I rejected an 8 who was begging me to fuck her in the ass. It's not hard to slow down your game though. If you've reached the point where …
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 11:08 AM
3

I wouldn't be so quick to write off masturbation completely. A lot of guys will get waaay to horny to think clearly if they never masturbate, unless they have a plate to fuck a couple times a week. Being horny as fuck and going after women will lead to bad decisions, like being desperate and going after ugly chicks. I find the best way is to be horny enough to stay motivated, but not so horny that your brain stops working properly. Where that magical number lies can be different for everyone, bu…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 08:15 AM
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I'm sorry, but you're wrong. Some red pill rules that apply to real life doesn't apply to this subreddit. If they did we would not be allowed to discuss red pill theory here, because that is something you should never do in real life. You're right that we shouldn't care so much what others do in real life, but on here it actually affects the quality of the content, which is important for learning and improving.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 08:08 AM
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Sidebar, read it. The red pill is not a few comforting words on a picture of a sunset, if you do not put in the work to at least read the sidebar you will never learn.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 08:03 AM
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I have three friends which each serve different purposes to me other than just being great people to be around: The Catcher: This is the kind of guy who has semi-good game, is outgoing and constantly has a girl or two which neither of us have fucked yet. He spends his time making sure a lot of girls enjoy his company and can always be counted on to invite them to parties. The Entertainer: You probably know this one, the guy everybody wants at a party, who can always be counted on to make a bad e…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 07:13 AM
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The red pill is not about unveiling some great conspiracy against you. Seems like you've read enough, go lift some plates and fuck some broads, maybe see a therapist for your possible paranoia.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 06:59 AM
2

Very interesting post, but could you elaborate a bit on the warrior mindset? I have a vague idea on what it is, for example black knighting and constantly thinking you have to measure dicks with every guy you see.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 11:42 AM
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Women hamster like there's no tomorrow when it comes to alcohol, and it's exactly because they can claim "no agency". They can let down their guard, sleep with whoever is available and just say they don't remember anything or blame it on how drunk they were. Except for possible rape accusations, I absolutely love this. What's even better is what you described, claiming no agency yourself when there's alcohol involved (even though you didn't drink any). I know that not taking responsibility for y…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 09:24 AM
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It wasn't aimed at the new subs in particular, it was more of a warning so that guys who aren't ready don't go out destroying their social lives by calling out girls for being fat. I agree that we shouldn't cater to the new guys, but when playing dangerous games such as black knighting you have to be careful. I am aware of the fact that it's used more for entertainment. However, if your looks/confidence aren't in place you'll suffer a lot from it. As long as you're hot enough girls will find it …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 10:20 AM
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You raise a lot of valid points and come up with a couple of great lines, but I'm not sure most guys are ready for or able to pull off black knighting the way you do. At the very least they should be attractive before trying. Another line I'm a huge fan of is "Well, aren't you a strong independant woman?". I use this every time they can't do shit on their own and ask for my help. Surprisingly a lot of them admit to being submissive, though I haven't pulled this with any feminazis yet.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 09:00 AM
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There are a lot of new guys on this subreddit going through the anger fase, which can take quite a while to get through. Also, we're mostly describing the negative sides of women, but you'll come to learn that they have positive traits as well. They are a lot more competent when it comes to social situations, showing emotion and communicating with others through emotion. Those traits are just not as valued in this sub, and therefore you won't see them mentioned. Describing women for what they ar…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 06:47 AM
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Pretty much spot on. Running dark triad is entertaining as hell, but people will absolutely resent you for it. Sure you might get to fuck a couple hotties every week, but if you value your social life it's not a great way to go. Still, good post, recognized a lot of it from personal experience.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 10:27 AM
2

Good answers. Best of luck with your game!
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:37 AM
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I know we like to think of ourselves as rational beings, but I'm not blind to the fact that oneitis can royally fuck up your game no matter how much knowledge you have. If you've ever been in love you know how much that feeling can fuck with your head, and running a game like this increases that risk. Running the game until she fucks up seems like a good idea, never change a winning horse right? The issue however, is still the risk of oneitis. Also, what do you do if the girl wants to move in to…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:29 AM
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DO NOT give them the benefit of the doubt. You might think doing this makes you a better, more open-minded person, but it's a huge risk to take. Apply an AWALT mindset and use it for your own protection, these girls will not hesitate about crying rape if you fuck them and don't play their games afterwards (personal experience). It's really important to realize that every single girl out there has the capacity to ruin your life if you wrong them, and girls "educated" in feminism will do this a lo…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:22 AM
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Seems like a good play, although a risky one. How would you go about avoiding oneitis in a relationship like this? Also, do you have a set expiration date (like 6 months) or do you keep going if the relationship works? What's your take on moving in with a girl?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:04 AM
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Unfortunately a lot of guys/girls will never be able to realize this because it ruins their idea of "love". Love is actually just realizing that the person you love has a lot to offer you with their values. When you try to break down the most beatiful, unexplainable thing in the world to an exchange of values people are going to freak out. They just want to feel love, to feel good, without being able to explain or measure it in any way. You can't really blame them though, it's like describing a …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 07:00 AM
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Depends on how she looks, short hair and unshaved armpits is a definite dealbreaker. However, don't be put off by the fact that a girl identifies as a feminist, it doesn't mean she's a feminazi. A lot of girls will say they are feminists just to be PC or because they're pro-women, while still being able to behave like human beings. There's nothing wrong with this, but be sure to poke around for a bit to see how strongly she feels about the matter. Regarding feminazis (you know who I'm talking ab…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:51 AM
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Misunderstood or not, it has negative effects for everyone who lives by it. Successful people who don't understand how they achieved success tell this to unsuccessful people thinking it might work for them, but it doesn't. People who use this do it for mainly two purposes: Rationalizing their bad behaviour so they can get fat and lazy Giving feel-good advice to people instead of telling them to stop being a fat lazy fuck and hit the gym Sure, if you meet an intelligent successful person you can …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 08:49 AM
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We all choose our own paths to happiness in our lives. I sincerely hope that you are in the process of making yourself happy, hopefully in other ways than degrading people you disagree with.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 06:52 AM
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True, kind of short-sighted of me to not think of it like that, but as I said I took what she said at face value. If he had read up on theory as he should have however, he would have known that it's easier to next and find happiness somewhere else than trying to fix your broken frame.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:58 AM
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Thankk you, I'm sure you're a wonderful person as well.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 05:56 AM
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I have to say I almost feel sorry for her, taking it at face value. With 7 billion people on the planet of course there are some relationships which will work out great without TRP, and if she's telling the truth theirs did. Morons applying TRP all at once to their relationships without understanding it are going to crash and burn. I'm sure their sex life would be improved by a little more dominating behaviour from his side, but you have to take it one step at a time. Looking deep into a woman's…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 07:22 PM
1

I can defininetly relate to the emotional detachedness and giving redpill advice. While I understand your situation I don't understand what's scaring you. Losing your friends because they think you're and asshole? Never feeling love again? Losing your friends might suck, but if you're happy with the direction your life is taking you shouldn't mind them. My life took a complete 180 a couple years back, lost all my best friends from it and found new ones within a year. As with women, there are a l…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:59 PM
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I appreciate you telling me that, in the future I'll be more careful giving advice without cross-referencing it with a TRP source first. Please feel free to criticize my advice, but I'd appreciate it if you refrain from personal attacks. As stated earlier, he has to realize that this is a numbers game, and my advice is mostly based on that. He didn't state going after a specific girl or range on the 1-10 scale (though I assume at least 5+) and I don't base my advice on feelings. If people are no…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 06:37 PM
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The reason this sounds awkward is because I wrote out set rules for him to follow. The rules are more of a path to the right state of mind than rules you should follow the rest of your life. The rules for texting is something I read either in Bang or on a thread here, personally I don't text but in theory it should work as not seeming too excited. The only thing I can promise you works is that you DO NOT follow girls who walk away from you, I failed this as a beta and have passed it since improv…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 05:02 PM
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I think you already know the basics, but it's pretty much "fake it till you make it". Practice the inner game of outcome independence, realise that it's pretty much a numbers game and next some girls just for the fuck of it. Some examples may include: If a girl you're talking to walks away, DO NOT FOLLOW HER, at least not for 15-20 minutes. Best thing you can do is start talking to some other girl, but if she's the only hot one available just chill with some mates and casually meet up with her l…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 04:45 PM
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Don't you think that's quite a broad statement to make based on a single post I made? This line has worked quite well for me in the past, but then again I'm young enough for 3-year relationships to be somewhat uncommon.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 04:27 PM
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Yes, being compared to a sheep is generally bad, and being compared to a wolf is generally good. I'm not saying it's a bad comparison, but we should be careful about comparing women to something negative and instead accept them for what they are. You'll have a lot more luck with women if you think of them as women instead of sheep, it has a lot to do with your mindset and inner game. I should have explained that statement further, but let it be noted that it has to do with inner game, my fears o…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 12:24 PM
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I agree, but it makes sense. Blue pill men try to be like women to gain their attention, which leads them to start gossiping and talking like women in general. We may just be attributing negative qualities to women here, but that kind of behaviour seems to be far more common among them.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 11:59 AM
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"If you want to measure dicks lets go get some rulers." Or you could just straight up ask him if he wants your girl. If there are other girls there and he answes yes, just say OK and go after them instead. If there are no other girls there and he says yes, say that shes busy and ask if he can get her a drink. If he says no (which they will for the most part, trying to deny it) say "well then stop trying and go somewhere else". Keep in mind that my game is extremely high-risk because I don't give…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:53 AM
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"No, I was in a 3 year long relationship but we just weren't right for each other". Tells them you're single, high enough value for someone to want and that you've had some sack training. This would be better suited for /r/asktrp by the way.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:42 AM
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The problem with the whole "be yourself" slogan is that people use it to rationalize that someone will come along and love them for who they are no matter what they do. Of course you should own up to your shit and be proud of who you are, that's called confidence. But there will always be a way to make yourself better, so strive to be that person instead of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 10:39 AM
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Talking to a girl more than three times without suggesting something sexual (usually in a playful manner) is a waste of time. However, with some girls you can actually impress them by displaying knowledge or blowing their minds with an idea or concept. They just won't add anything of particular value. I think there's only one way to talk about personal issues with women, and that's mentioning an issue and playing it off as it doesn't matter. Yeah my dad's an alcoholic, guess my drinking genes ar…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 09:19 AM
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Jesus, this just reeks of a trap. She has KIDS, she's CHEATING, you ENJOY HER COMPANY. Get the fuck out of there before you have to start packing the kid's lunches, there are plenty of other hot women. Oneitis is a disease, and you do not want to suffer from it with a (soon-to-be) single mother.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 09:03 AM
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Saw a great one here a couple months back. Just keep pushing her, and if she says "no", respond with this: If you tell me "stop", I'll stop. Keep pushing after that, and if she says stop just get the fuck out and find something better to do. A lot of girls put up LMR just to avoid slut-shaming, or want to feel like you are in control. By dropping that line you show that you are in control, while giving her a clear out if she actually doesn't want to fuck you. Also, you could fit a little dread g…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:57 AM
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Your phrasing has gotten me a bit confused here. As in a guy who makes a move on one of my plates? I laugh about it, either in front of her or in front of him. Most times they're just orbiters, but if he's serious competition I really don't give shit. No woman is valuable enough to me that I can be bothered "fighting" for her. A couple months back a guy got in a relationship with one of my plates, and I'd give him a pat on the back if I met him. Same thing goes if you're trying to get into a rel…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:49 AM
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I actually discovered this prior to TRP, but after a lot of reading I could also understand it. The reason I barely have two female friends in my life is because their conversational value is incredibly low. Every time I tried to discuss some interesting idea or concept with women they could only compare it to their own experiences or feelings. This is because women are solipsistic and communicate with feelings instead of the actual meaning of words. And that's OK, as long as I get to fuck them …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:36 AM
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I wouldn't call them sheep, just a lot more social beings. To them social value is a lot more important than to men, and always being seen with others display social value. That's also the reason they need to constantly stay on their phones, to maintain or increase their social value on social media. Not that your comparison was wrong, I just prefer seeing women as women instead of comparing them to something that can be seen as negative.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/14 08:06 AM
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The point of "fake it till you make it" is to eventually make it. I faked confidence to the point where I wasn't even trying anymore, I had actually become confident.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:38 PM
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I've found outcome independence to be one of the most important things when approaching girls, and in a lot of aspects of life in general. Even before TRP I was always outcome independent as I figured out on my own that if you play the numbers game you will eventually win. Approach, give it your best (apathy is poison) shot, next if unsuccessful. I believe most guys could get laid at least once every 3-4 months if they did this.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 11:47 AM
1

My point was that in some situations you have to take into consideration what people might think of you.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 10:00 AM
1

I agree with the fact that you shouldn't give a fuck what anyone else thinks, but you have to be smart about it. You won't be able to create good business relations if you talk about TRP at every business-related dinner. However, it's amazing what you can achieve if you use it to your advantage. I've hooked up with girls by shamelessly talking about how I was the best Pokémon card player in my town. Confidence is everything, and if you can deliver it in the right way then confidence about someth…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 09:17 AM
2

TRP describes men as naturally polygamous. It's our default setting and with the concept of marriage having gone to shit we're reverting to it. Some men do prefer monogamy despite this, and TRP is just as important to them, if not more.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 07:07 AM
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Game = Sexual strategy Shit-testing = Part of a sexual strategy, commonly used by women I'd like you to provide examples of common ways a man/alpha shit-tests a woman. I'm sure it happens, but can't think of any right now. Also, please note that bitching about anything is far from alpha behaviour. If you're still bitching you haven't understood RP.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 10:26 AM
1

Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 05:44 AM
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I think you're absolutely right, however it's a futile struggle. TRP is about changing YOU, because society has gone to shit and you'll have to adapt to survive. Most people aren't Gandhi, MLK or Lenin. Most people won't be able to do anything about how society works. When you're not happy with something but still have to live with it, you have two choices. Try to change it or adapt to it. You could say we're giving up or taking the easy way, but I don't give a fuck as long as I'm happy.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 08:39 AM
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Sad but true. Dating and honesty is fucked, act accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 10:28 AM
2

We are not here to change anything but ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:31 AM
1

Did I display any confusion whatsoever as to the difference between nice and kind? Just trying to get you on the right track here man, if you want to treat everyone kindly and genders as equal I don't think TRP is for you.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:52 PM
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I agree to treating people with kindness, as long as they deserve it. In today's society most people do not deserve this. Act neutral towards people until you can form an opinion of them, but always treat them in a way that benefits you. You have to consider gender when interacting with people. Men and women are not equal. Men and women are different, and the male is the dominant part in a functional relationship. I know it's a tough one to swallow, I struggled with it for weeks, but that's part…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 01:08 PM
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Sidebar is to the right, please read before posting.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 12:43 PM
6

Perfection is a moving target. Never stop improving.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 12:38 PM
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Agreed. This is the only reason I still have female acquaintances and a huge part of my game about a year ago (pre-TRP). Make them believe you're a douchebag but a good guy on the inside and you can treat them like shit (not recommended) without them ever giving up. It's pretty similar to how men in relationships will stick to their women because at least they're getting laid once a week/month, if they didn't get any they would simply leave.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 11:14 AM
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Do you really think women would be responsible enough to put this in their own drinks? Bars might do it which would make them safer, but I'm not so sure that's where most girls get roofied.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 09:04 AM
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People do not realize that "bread and circus" still applies in modern society. Make the people content enough to perceive the world as a good place to live. As long as they're entertained, order will be kept. Plate spinning and self-improvement is TRP's form of entertainment. I just hope I live long enough to see the people stop being entertained.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 09:01 AM
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Unless an article refers to a valid scientific study, do not mistake anything written in that article for truth. Most things written here can only give you an idea of what reality is like, it is up to you to put it into practice and determine if what you read is right or wrong. Remember that TRP is by no means a movement spouting truths and telling you how to live your life. It is a collection of ideas that you need to figure out by yourself.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 11:58 AM
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Seems to me like you haven't read the sidebar, which you really should before posting. Women communicate in emotions rather than words. All those little "signs" and what not are obvious to other women, but not to men who was never taught to recognise them. In addition to that they are unable to see things from another persons point of view, so they assume that you'll communicate in the same way. Read the sidebar, learn to read the signs and be aggressive in your approaches. Don't be afraid to ap…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 11:08 AM
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It's a great feeling, and if you haven't tried it I suggest you should. The most important thing you can do is improve yourself, and if dating multiple women gives you the confidence to keep doing that it can be a great tool.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 09:07 AM
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This has happened to me as well. What I suggest is writing down information, and memorizing it. Every time you're alone while on a date (either of you go to the bathroom etc.) take out your phone and make some notes about your conversation. What she told you about her, what you told her about you. When you get home just read through your notes a couple times and it will be easier to remember. You could also try working on your memory. I dont have any really great tools for this, but you could ch…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 06:42 AM
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Because girls can only be attracted to one man at a time, while a man can be attracted to several women.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 01:05 PM
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Read "How to make friends and influence people". I'm in the same spot as you, I love insulting girls and saying fucked up shit just for laughs. But it doesn't get you laid (as much), so try finding the middle ground by relearning how to be nice, though not as a beta.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 12:55 PM
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I would like this as well. All I got right now is a couple of 17lbs manuals for starters, as I would like to commit to exercising before buying a gym membership. I know a couple of decent lifting techniques, but I would appreciate some advice.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 12:46 PM
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Looks nice at first glance. Unfortunately I don't have time for more than the first post right now, but it looks like you know what you're talking about. Will continue reading tomorrow and provide feedback if I can find the time.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 10:17 PM
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Read "How to make friends and influence people". It's great for socializing with people who are actually worth your time.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:05 PM
1

This only applies to interaction with morons. Try pulling that shit with a somewhat intelligent being and you'll get called out on it, or worse.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 08:14 AM
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I guess we found other ways to be happy that requires less effort than dating today's women.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 12:43 PM
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Approach girls and strike up a conversation while maintaining outcome independence. I like to carry around a pen, and if I talk to a girl and want her number I just hand her the pen and tell her to write her number on my arm.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 07:12 PM
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Unicorns are mythical creatures and do not exist. If you're still looking for "the one" you will suffer from oneitis and you will most likely be screwed. This is pretty core in TRP.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 09:08 PM
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I don't measure my traits' value in whether or not a woman appreciates them, really. Fucking is mostly physical pleasure for me at this point, seeing as I don't have any fun women to fuck at the moment. Of course I don't do this actively, only if I see a good opportunity for hooking a hot girl by lying a bit.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 07:52 PM
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You've got your principles, and while I respect that I could never apply them to my own life because I like being able to adapt to different situations. The 8 with no brain and hopes of finding a sensitive guy was never going to fuck me if I had straight up told her I was just looking to score. The 6 that didn't mind being a plate would never have fucked me if I started bullshitting her. I don't lie to people whom I respect or genuinely care about, but if I can get some random girl to bed by twi…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 11:41 AM
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Lying wouldn't be necessary to get girls if you're already a successful alpha, unless there's a specific girl you want that looks for a specific trait in guys which you dont posess. But I'd say most guys in here are not on the level where they can just go out and find a girl to have sex with when they feel like it, and in those cases lying might help a bit. I don't care about the moral aspect when I'm just looking for a ONS, but then again I never use lying to brag about obvious shit like in OPs…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 10:43 AM
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I don't see bragging as power talk at all, even if they "show ass" as you say it when telling a story. Maybe it's because I'm not a stupid gullible moron, but I can always tell when someone is bullshitting me and they get called out and ridiculed for it. Consistent braggers always seem to be compensating for something, and bullshitters lower the average intelligence of the entire room. HOWEVER, if you're trying to pick up some random girl feel free to do whatever you like. The important thing to…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 10:33 AM
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We should nominate him for a Darwin award.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 12:17 PM
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Thanks, been looking for good lines answering to that. If she's still there when I stop laughing that is.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 01:56 PM
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I already suspected at this point that she wasn't lesbian because a) She's not a total bitch Are you assuming all lesbians are total bitches? Not saying you are, just seems like it from the way you wrote that.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 10:13 PM
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It's kind of sad that people just hop on the bandwagon of biased answers and opinions instead of trying to understand what trp is about. I don't hate on r/feminism or srs because I've never been there and can't form a rational opinion based on what others say about them. But what the hell, it's free advertising and its not like we care about what they say, I just pity the people who are so ignorant.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 01:23 PM
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Got a link to this?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 02:22 PM
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I wouldn't judge a woman my age for having slept with 10-15 guys. However, if they exceed 30 it's more of a red flag. I actually quite enjoy the sexual liberation of women, and if I find a unicorn with a somewhat high count I won't care, she's still a unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 02:28 PM
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While I agree seeking out a mentor is way better advice than suing the company, what is with the acid/mushrooms advice? Not trying to make you look stupid here, but I've never done it before so I don't understand how it could be career-enhancing.
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