Matched with someone I go to school with on tinder.

We are meeting up on Thursday. Is it too bold just to say come over and drink some wine? Planning on skipping the wine and just having her come over lateish to bang.

Second question: Hooked up with 18yo virgin. Got her to do everything but sex on second meetup. She didn't want to have sex and then texted me later in the week saying that she would need time before she is ready. Should I just next or is this normal for virgins?

She claims that I took her cuddling virginity? Hard to believe since women like sex but maybe she actually is that inexperienced?