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[–]purecyse 10 points11 points12 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Okay. Firstly, I am not trolling your post by repeating that TRP is not a cult and, as such, we should be able to have discussions with people who adhere to all forms of thinking.
That said, there was NO need to say "since going full red." That statement bothered me more than everything else in the post.
Second, I haven't seen a single person say that Beta behavior, even the 120% variety that you "used", makes you incapable of getting girls. Beta's actually have girls.
They, or mostly likely all of us at one point or another, overpay. They overpay in money, energy and, most importantly, time while trying to luck their way into some chick's bed.
Despite the fact that you've painted a picture of how you completely sold your self-respect for a "sorta FWB," let me ask these questions: Did ANY of those natural Alphas enter a sexual relationship with her? What do you mean she fell for you and "stuff happened"? And what did she do AFTER your sorta FWB phrase was over?
[–]W-Z-R -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
In answer to your questions:
None of the Alphas did, at all
Sexy times-when I said "sorta" I meant she did like me more than just being horny
After? Had a breakdown apparently
I do agree about the self-respect thing, but I was happy
[–]purecyse 5 points6 points7 points 12 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
So, being "full red", you're going to run into several situations where everything in you is confirming that you can have sex with this girl but she is clearly not worth the effort.
This girl is the perfect example.
You knowingly gave up your self-respect and were happy to get a couple of minutes of vagina in exchange.
It even seems, in fact, that she ran into NO ONE of higher value willing to make that exchange besides you...so you "won."
Your prize: A broken girl that completely fell apart down the road.
[–]W-Z-R 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
I do see what you mean and I find walking easy now, like it's nothing
but I still do not understand the situation either, she could have fucked the guys if their toughness and unwillingness to put up with any sort of BS was always a turn on. I admit she would have been considered too insane to be worth it, but it wasn't even pity-poon, she was nympho to say the least.
[–]purecyse 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh! The thing that you need to understand is that there is no formula.
There are always tougher guys who will put up with less but, with girls, so much of it is feelings based that we're all stabbing in the dark at times.
Due to different circumstances and situations, there is no "always a turn on." That's why you and some weight-lifting champion high on steroids with little patience both have a chance at getting that girl.
[–]circlhat 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
TRP isn't a law, its guidelines no one believes 100% of what TRP says. The way you written your post was oddly sitcom style convenient.
However just because someone who smokes a pack of cigarettes a day and lives to be 100 doesn't mean smoking is healthy, but you are your own men and if you are happy than by all means continue what you are doing.
[–]blowlinesfuckdimes 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We've all undoubtedly BP'd our way into a couple of relationships. It works, it's just not as effective as Alpha game.
[–]mbr902000 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So you're saying you were beta around her and she still fucked you? Kind of hard to follow your read but if I understand that last part right you caught feelings for her. Displaying beta behavior isn't going to land you a happy LTR if that's what you're asking. Maybe I am misunderstanding your post....
[–]W-Z-R -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah
I just wondered really how it didn't totally destroy the attraction, I was a good guy, I'm not recommending men behave how I was, just wondering the reasons I suppose.
[–]mbr902000 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If that was your approach, I would be very cautious of her intentions is all I'm saying. The second she tries to walk all over you, you need to get the fuck out of there or put her in her place
[–]attaxx 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm from latin america, I'd say that beta game works pretty well here still. Most women aren't feminists, most women aren't entitled little brats and show some sort appreciation for good treatment.
I have friends who got quite nice girls, with beta game, granted some of the time you will see them hanging out with more alpha dudes at nightclubs in their facebook photos. Some of them don't even reciprocate the "in a relationship", sometimes these girls will go alone watching movies at my house (usually at my bedroom), and end up being backrubbed by my feet at my bed, sitting on other guys lap or cuddling with some other friends. I have a girlfriend so I haven't actually fucked any of these girls but most of these girls get fucked by my other friends on a regular basis or at least there are a lot of rumors about that sort of stuff.
So beta game works here at least, you give commitment and get a couple of fucks in return. She gets financial/emotional support and more fucks, everyone is a win/win situation. Except you'll feel like shit, but hey, at least you got some pity pussy in return!
[–]forgotmydamnpass 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've been in a relationship like this, the girl was great but my self esteem and ego suffered a huge deal because of it, you'll always end up giving more than the other person, you'll feel like you're crawling at that person's feet and with time you'll feel like you're betraying yourself, that you're not the person you wanted to be, at least that's how I felt, I don't regret the relationship in itself but I regret the fact that I could have held on to my honor and pride a lot more than I did
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
just wondering what happened really?
Well, we don't have much to go on other than this highly descriptive FR:
she fell for me and stuff happened and turned into a sorta FWB (not even sure what I would call it)
And your admission that she might have some unresolved mental health issues.
I have no idea but congrats on finding your unicorn.
Maybe you're just really good looking/have preselection/have high social value/you're her physical type.
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