Approaching

I-am-NOT-trolling · 2017-09-06T08:35:11+00:00

Your approach's aggressiveness will be interpreted based on you SMV:

Aggressive with high SMV = confident.

Aggressive with low SMV = thirsty, needy, in scarcity mindset.

brideboy · 2017-09-06T07:56:52+00:00

How old are you? It depends on the setting. In the club or bar, its okay to be aggressive. In the grocery store or around a group of people it isnt ideal.

Social pressure for you and I arent a big deal, but for some women and men its huge.

My LTR talks about taling her sister to the park. She says it felt bad because she felt that others thought her sister was her child.

No one explicitly said that. Its what she thought they were thinking about her. Be aware of the situation and try to sympathize even if you dont understand and thats the key to deciding when to be covert or overtly sexual.

red-arctic-tern · 2017-09-06T10:25:11+00:00

Enjoy the interaction. That's all there is to it. She will grab your beard and pull you in for kiss if you have amused mastery.

1Pink1Stink · 2017-09-06T06:44:05+00:00

Trenchcoat, nothing underneath. When you catch one by herself, show her your peckah

kempff · 2017-09-06T07:41:13+00:00

If you are not attractive then you are a creep and you will be thrown out of the club on her say-so. Don't bother trying to pull it off until you read the main sub sidebar.

oldredder · 2017-09-06T08:33:03+00:00

both: depends on the situation. Desperation is when you look like you can't pull it off, regardless of if you are the same level of intensity in other situations that work

LeftAndRed · 2017-09-07T14:09:51+00:00

I think there is a misconception floating around here that no one has picked up yet.

When people say he aggressive they don't mean to come out and start telling her you want to fuck or to be a predator.

They mean "make your intentions clear."

So approach relaxed the most relaxed person if always the alpha. Make her laugh, but also touch her arm. Make sexual comments. Tease her.

But be relaxed! You look thirsty when you are direct. Approach everything from an angle. Body position is important, direct and confrontational is thirsty and creepy. Leaning at a "triangle stance" looks alpha.

Title	Approaching
Author	SpareMeSateliteCells
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	September 6, 2017 6:41 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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