growing up I have always been a kid of high energy. I am very confident and dont give a fuck. and although it has aided me greatly in social situations and being dominant over other guys, I have realized that I don't attract girls at all, or if I do they keep it in the closet. I think that this is the fact that I say stupid shit that makes people laugh without really thinking about it. Often a times i catch my self acting like a beta trying to make people laugh. My question is should I stick out this loud saying random shit demeanor or should I trade it in for a more chilled back demeanor? I also seem to be very reactive to what people say, not usually girls but around girls when guys talk to me. I think I answered my own question but i just want to know what others think.