I've known this girl for 5 months and we have sex and oral a few times per week. I'm 32 she is 24 and I was apparently her first sexual partner. She's Italian with a more strict traditional Italian upbringing, the youngest of 4 other sisters whom are all married but her, shes the only one who lives at home and helps with her families business.

We get on well but I never really said I was interested in a 'girlfriend' and said that I don't want anything serious with anyone for a while but happy to hang out and do stuff like movies, bowling etc and have fun and go with the flow.

Obviously over time we become closer and talked more over text and in person and slowly she became more attached, starting a month ago she started asking what 'we are'? getting upset that I won't explicitly say I'm her boyfriend, that she'd like to be able to introduce me to her parents etc and asking 'why don't you want something more' or wouldn't i want 'to get married someday to someone', some of these conversations have ended with her in tears to which I more or less ghost her till she settles down.

Sometimes I will joke that we are booty calls or just friends with benefits and I just want as to experience what we do without needing "labels" and usually she gets it until she winds up getting upset again.

Last night we had another argument about why I won't commit to just her and that she cares about me, even though a week ago she tried lying and covering up about going out with a handful of girlfriends for a girls night out at a club till 3am without telling me, after which she was 'going to tell me'.

I like her, I get on really well with her at a social level and having sex with her is good, but also trying to keep my emotions in check, though she seems relentless in needing me to be 'her's'.

Opinions on how to navigate this? Thanks