Hello there. Need to post here cause i didnt find a Male Red pill community

First of all i should explain where i com from. Im a 17 year old male and really got into the Red pill scene after a traumatic first realtioship. Im going to the Gym, traying to eat more, try to behave more Masculin and i am overall just a bit of a stan for the Youtuber Hamza. I was/am in a full on bubble you could say.

Well today i stumpled upon this Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BgO25FTwfRI&t=2751s&ab_channel=m%C3%BCnecat

And to say the least it just shook up my whole believs. I dident watch al of it to be fair but i am so confused now because i dont really know what to believe now or how to get to dating with girls in general. I used to just believe and the Red pill and think it will just work out for me when i imprve myself but now that she just more than less debunked many of my believs im at point zero again. Tbh. dating for me just feels like a huge game of luck where you have to hope that a girl likes you and wants to be in a relationship with you and there is nothing huge you can do to improve your standing.

I hope ill find some help here