They're distant and kinda calculative

inb4: "u just mad, because you cant manipulate us anymore"-- Sorry, I refuse to get grilled for the sins of fuccbois that played you in your 20s and whose toxicity you are now attempting to project on me. Constant 'vetting' and looking out for 'red flags' makes a lot of women in their 30s have that "what does he bring to the table?" attitude which makes dating look like doing a series of job interviews.

2. They are less passionate

They say they done playing games and now seek 'compassion' over 'passion' . This is a nicely worded way of telling you that she used to fell with heart (for really hot guys), but now she falls with her head because she's been through all the blissful as well as agonizing moments. This 'been there done that' attitude is kills excitement and is even off-putting.

  1. Status matters more to them

Which is weird in a country where women joined the workforce and are making their own money. The older they get the more they want to know your 'credit score', 'social standing', if you come from a good family, have a nice job, which you must love on top of it. Women at this age adapt a suburban-rat-race mentality where any hint of you Falling behind your peers' is scrutinized. When it comes to this they're no batter than mail-order brides.

  1. For some reason their standards in looks are even more narrow

I don't know what the hell is up with this one, but it seems that it is younger women who have a variety of physical types they find appealing ranging from rail-thin, androgynous to masculine, the 30+ crowds are PREDOMINATELY into rugged masculinity, towering frames followed by dad bods. Yeah she might be more tolerant of bald heads, but now you have to look good whilst bald.