Hello y'all. For those of you who are getting sex on the reg with the same girl (plates, Fwbs, ltrs), is it normal to have amazing sex once in a while, good sex most the time and bad/mediocre/go through motions sex once in a while?

I always hear F your girl good here, for obvious reasons. However when your seeing your girl and having sex so often, there are more opportunities for bad sex to happen.

For example, my girl has a high sex drive. If I don't see her for a few days I usually come hella fast. Last night couldn't stay hard for an immediate round 2. We were able to go at it later in the night twice but my erection was probably at 90%. I also had to use my hand to finish her off the 2nd time and round three i didn't know I made her come and went to finish her off and she told me that she did. Anyways, it was very go through the motions and little excitement.

It's not always like that, I've had some of the most amazing encounters with this girl. Here's another example: last weekend, had a slip up with some whiskey dick. Next morning had good sex. Later that evening had amazing sex. Next morning had good to amazing sex.

The bad situations have been messing with my head a bit and I feel like I slip into my old ways of thinking when they happen. (Feeling now worthy, worrying she will exercise her hypergamy due to these occasional occurances). Does anyone else experience this and what is the best way to manage and handle this?

I've thought about spicing things up, I am currently working on escalating to anal. I've just got the tip of my finger in so far and was met with resistance, I plan to continue escalating though. I also very often spank, choke, talk dirty to her and call her a slut. Sometimes I am silent and sweet. (I've read SGM i.e. Variety). Most of the time, the bad mediocre sex is occurring due to poor erection due to having sex multiple times a day, and also that we are having it so often. Also, I don't masturbate at all.

Anyone else experience this and have tips on how to best manage it without turning down sex?