Women in their late 20’s and 30’s have way higher standards than women in their early 20’s and men without money hit the wall way harder than any woman.

A girl in her early 20’s most likely just wants to have fun with a guy she’s attracted to and has chemistry with.

A woman who’s a bit older will probably look for way more things. At least an equal in terms of income, needs to be attractive to her, needs to share her wish of wanting kids or not, needs to own a house, needs to have considerable experience, etc.

Men who “aint shit” hit the wall way harder because the only women who would somewhat be willing to settle down with them are definitely not the ones you wanna date.