The girl texted my 12 year old sister asking her why she blocked me and the girl said “honestly a bunch of reasons”. So I asked one our mutual friends for closure sake could she tell them to him and he tell them to me so I can get closure. Background information he was one of our friends I confided in him whenever she would shut down when we dated, he told me he would plead my case for closure. Since she admitted she has reasons.

Well anyway he asked her, she asked him if he still kept me in his and he life and he said yeah. She changed the topic and when he pressed a bit she ignored him the whole day.

I said fuck it I am give her closure then and after that I won’t nothing to do with her. I texted him my closure and he texted it to her.

She threatened to cut him out of her life if he didn’t stop being friends with me. Because apparently she meant it so much that he immediately cut me off. That was a genuine friendship she knows I enjoyed even outside of her :/

And I now feel like even more shit.

I just don’t get why my pain doesn’t mean anything to her, why is so being so heartless when she will tell my family that there was so much reasons she left but won’t communicate them to anybody who would give me closure. When we never had a bad moment in our relationship except for one time when physically assaulted me but we talked about and I forgave her and moved on.