Note: Due to some red flags I got from this girl, I am no longer pursuing her sexually and I'm making this post simply because I'm curious and I would like to learn more about TRP.

About a month ago, I met this girl on Tinder and we shared a common hobby of dancing salsa. She's a complete beginner and I'm intermediate (not an expert yet). For our first date we planned to do a flash mob style dance downtown because I thought it would be fun and unique. We met privately, practiced a bit, and then she chickened out. We ended up just going for a walk. At one point she mentioned she used to be a sugar baby (she's only 19). That was red flag #1 but at the time I chose to ignore it because she was hot. I then kiss-closed. Tried bringing her back to my place but didn't work out.

A week later, I invited her to my place to dance some more salsa. We ended up in my bed naked but she refused to have sex.

A few days later, we went to a dance club and she was super touchy with me. She also flirted with other guys for the sole purpose of getting free drinks. This was red flag #2 - she's used to manipulating guys. Again I chose to ignore it. I did buy her 1 drink though. I later took her home with me. She still refused to have sex but she at least she jerked me off. According to her, the reason she was refusing to have sex was because she wanted to make me work for it. She was tired of guys pumping and dumping her (she's 19 and already has a super high n-count - red flag #3).

Another few days later, I invited her netflix and chill and she finally let me have sex with her. We had sex again in the morning. I then showered with her at her place and hung out with her all day with another friend of mine

For the next 2 weeks, we texted back and forth (I wasn't forcing anything, it just happened). I tried setting up another hang out but she kept dodging that question without offering an alternative time. She claimed she was too busy.

I then saw her at a salsa bar once and something interesting happened. At soon as I saw her she asked me to buy her a free drink. I said no unless she's willing to pay me (she's underage so she couldn't buy it herself). She tried her best to avoid paying me so I told her I'm not her walking ATM. She then ignored me and gave me the cold shoulder all night.

The next morning I texted her saying that I didn't appreciate her behavior. She acted confused. Here's what I texted her:

Me: The first thing you did when I saw you last night was ask for a free drink. When I said no, you gave me the cold shoulder and I felt disrespected and used. I do enjoy occasionally treating people (and I have treated you before) but I don't appreciate it when that becomes an expectation and when someone doesn't respect my decision.

Her: Im sorry for coming off like that. I didn’t mean to make you feel used. I just have high expectations for guys that I hook up with. Also I don’t think we can hang out later.. in all honesty,  Im into someone rn and we’re not completely exclusive but it’s going well and I don’t really want anything with anyone else, I hope you can understand

Me: Best of luck

Her: You mad?

Me: Nah, I meant what I said. I told you this the first night we hooked up, people come and go and I'm ok with that [Even though I didn't like her behavior, I don't like being a dick myself so I always try to end all relationships on a positive note whenever possible]

I then completely stopped texting her

About a week later, I go to this salsa class that my friend is teaching and she's also there. Because we are rotating partners, I end up dancing with her. The first thing she says to me is a comment about her own ass. She says something like she just doesn't have a big enough ass for latin dancing (She does have a small ass and she is insecure about it)

After class, I'm heading over to this salsa bar for more dancing and she asks if she could get a ride. Since I'm already going there, I figure I might as well give her a ride. During the ride there and at the salsa bar, she makes several comments about the new guy she's seeing, other guys who flirt with her while dancing salsa, etc. I completely ignored all of those comments. I didn't respond back nor did I try to change the subject, just ignored her.

At the salsa bar I'm mostly hanging out with a guy friend of mine and we're having a good time. I privately tell him about this girl and how she's used to manipulating guys and we laugh over it. The girl then tries to dance with my friend but he rejects her. Later when I'm giving her a ride back home (her home is directly on the way to mine so I wasn't doing her any extra favors), she talks about my friend and how hot he is. Again I completely ignore it and almost act as if I can't hear what she is saying.

What do you guys think is going on with this girl? As I mentioned above, I have no intention of hooking up with her again but I'm just curious. Is it more likely she's naturally this slutty or is she trying to make me jealous? I slightly leaning towards the latter because I really think I'm the first guy she has met who doesn't bend his back over her. Also when she rejected me, I acted as if I was completely unfazed (which I mostly was) which is something else she might not be used to. My theory (and I'm talking out of my ass here so I could be 100% wrong) is that she sent me the rejection text in the hopes that I'll apologize to her and try to win her back by continuing to buy her drinks and doing other favors for her again in the future. However since that didn't happen she's trying to make me jealous by talking about all of these guys, especially my best friend, and claiming how hot they are.

Do you think I'm right or is she just a slutty girl in general?