I’m 15, 3 years in the red-pill I’m pretty sure I have gaps in my red-pill. People say I’m a piece of shit uncaring bastard especially my mom but I don’t think that’s frame so I’m still working on it.

I’m with this girl at my school, we’re not boyfriend girlfriend and I would just want to continue this. If she asks to be her boyfriend and I state no, I think she’d leave me. I would just like to confirm that there’s no way I could convert this into her just being a fuck buddy and basically I’m forced to get a new girl, any alternatives?

She says I’m not spending time with her as much, which is weird since we meet up 1-2 a month. I’m currently busy with studies, working out, varsity and acquiring that IP license deal in Asia. Hence I don’t have time. I told her “I’m busy need to concentrate” and turned off notifications since she kept on messaging me. It’s been a week and a half, she bombarded me with messages, it started with “Why aren’t you responding”, “Your with Alice” (That was for school group work) and ends with “I just want to talk to you”. I’m wondering if I by talking to her will break the boundary, how do I know it’s been enforced? (I feel like waiting for her to say sorry ain’t happening) I clearly stated I’m busy but she kept on messaging, so she broke a boundary.

*I’m asking this here since I think being married you guys know how to set boundaries, so I was wondering what do you guys think?