After she arrived I think she was pretty attracted to me. Flirting went on and we almost hooked up once but we got distracted by colleagues. I did not pursue it after because both of us were in LTRs. However cruel shit testing went on and I had bad periods with lot of stress because and no sleep because of work so failed many of the tests. Now I don't know where we stand, I observe completely mixed signals and developed a kind of fucking oneitis. I'm obsessively thinking about her and how to pick her up most of the time.

So, how do I pick her up? (I'm still in an LTR...)

Thank you in advance.

UPDATE: I've been ignoring her a year because I don't want to fuck up my ltr or job environment (in Central Europe it's not that dangerous legally though) but the issue doesn't go away. If you can advise how I forget her (she's sitting close) or ignore her or to try and fail and forget I'm for these solutions too. I just thought picking her up (not necessarily fucking her) I will get what I desire and will be able to let it go.